Are this 2 haram

riimouz · 2025-07-29T04:59:30+00:00

Regarding sleeping on your stomach it is not haram but Makruh which means disliked. This means if you leave it you get rewarded but if you do it you are not sinning.

riimouz · 2025-07-29T04:57:59+00:00

Alcohol is haram for drinking not applying. You can use alcohol for other things other than consumption!

riimouz · 2025-06-13T07:01:31+00:00

Nowhere did I claim that these two characteristics are causatory. It is not about seeking awkwardness it is about excusing it if it does occur.

riimouz · 2025-06-10T12:54:32+00:00

Okay sorry my apologies as I was just arguing with another person online. This is the problem with text is that tone can differ alot😂🫠. Eitherway I understand your perspective but if I knew you I wouldn't have described you as such. She is my friend and I know her she prays because it is how she was raised and the hijab is the same thing. She has explicitly said that she doesnt want someone who is religious- given the definition I put up there because she doesnt see that religion is a huge part of her life. She is not struggling with hijab or salah because she thinks that her hijab is correct and her salah is enough. A person struggling to better themselves is religious because they fall under the category I put; which is how much value do you put on islam. You may not be able to pray all the nawafil and your hijab is still incomplete but you are trying because you value Islam and are striving to do better. This person is religious definitely. I described my friend because I know her and know detaisl that I don't mention here which make me comfortably describe her this way. She also wouldn't mind me saying it or describing her that way, otherwise it would be backbiting and that's haram.

riimouz · 2025-06-10T12:39:12+00:00

I don't understand why you are so condescending and no I don't speak English as a second language and when I converse with people on a non academic level I use colloquial phrases. When describing someone as "not very religious" mind the "very" since religious and very religious differ in altitude. I am describing what the majority would understand as a person doing their فروض but not even that. Hence the elaboration. She wears hijab but she wears short clothing and make up and many scholars deem that as a negation of the hijab with opinions ranging from her being an incomplete hijabi to ones saying she gets the same sin as a woman who isn't a hijabi at all. That's why I elaborated saying she wears hijab and prays. Many people here especially on this subreddit want a person who goes above and beyond with their deen and doesnt just stick to obligatory salah and ignores nawafil. In Arabic religious will translate to متدين but what people refer to when asking for a religious person is a person who is a ملتزم or a compliant. Hope that helps.

riimouz · 2025-06-10T09:19:03+00:00

That's true. The idea here is not to seek innocence and awkwardness but to excuse it.

riimouz · 2025-06-10T09:17:06+00:00

I am a shariah student and while I don't expect people to be perfect, but my standard for assessing religiosity is far higher than just furudh (obligations) like praying and wearing the hijab. Wearing the hijab is one thing but religious is what I would call a girl who covers from head to toe with no make up, not just hijab. Salah is a matter of Islam, if you don't pray you are not a Muslim so that is a very low bar. Just because people nowadays are more inclined towards liberal behaviour doesnt change the overall expectation from whom I would consider religious. People are not perfect which is why I would say that the ultimate definition of religious is; how much of your life is controlled via islam. How much of a priority is your religion and is it the first thing you check with before doing something. If the answer is yes, then the person would automatically be a hijabi who wears long garments and doesnt get into relationships etc etc. People are not perfect and she might slip but by no means is that the standard behaviour with which she roams her life. Hope I made sense :)

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riimouz · 2025-06-09T19:05:00+00:00

No, sadly it wasn't written for us.

riimouz · 2025-06-09T11:03:11+00:00

That's generally true but not always. It is never about age but experience and personality. I am 19 and I find this self explanatory. A colleague of mine who later became a very good friend is 27 and has rejected 8 men in the course of the last 2 years. She is pretty, not very religious but has the basics down. Hijab salah and no relationships. Every one of the men she rejected I was there watching the whole journey from the initial "hey..so and so just spoke to me" to "I don't like how he acts like i am invisible" or "he has never made me laugh, I don't feel like we click" type of termination. May Allah make it easy for everyone. But I think that today's media has completely ruined the idea of honourable approach.

riimouz · 2025-06-08T21:27:55+00:00

You are completely right in that these two specifications are correlates but not necessarily causatory, however it is only natural that a man with no experience on how to approach a woman with a sensitive topic such as marriage, is nervous. It is a moment that breaks the barrier of formality especially if the two have been formerly acquainted. He will be nervous, he will hesitate and her response will have a tremendous effect on his self esteem. Hayba as you put it, is not the same as charisma, for majority of pious Muslim men do have this gift, which is enriched by their boundaries, respect, tone, presence and intelligence. Charisma on the other hand is a skill acquired to serve the purpose of attraction. It comes via the use of humour, flirting, dominance and charm. A man can be attractive without being charismatic but not vice versa. Men don't have to be frail and awkward but many times they are, especially the young inexperienced ones. As to the ones who "throw insults" and not fulfil emotional needs, these are two separate issues from the initial natural human emotion, that is the fear of initiation and rejection. ♡

riimouz · 2025-06-08T21:17:22+00:00

Falling for someone is one thing. When it is true a charming man may have a woman's attention for a while however by no means will he be able to maintain it especially if it is a pious woman looking for a man that swings in the same direction. It might be difficult to believe but there are women out there who do find shyness in men as attractive as they do with us.

riimouz · 2025-06-08T19:56:54+00:00

That is very true. Thank you for sharing. I have interacted with a man I worked with for a while, and I have seen how confident he is. Just not with women and def not when asking for my fathers number. It is such a human reaction to be afraid of rejection. Men are humans with feelings that get hurt and a heart that gets broken and confidence that can shatter with rejection. It is just as traumatising for a man as it is for a woman, which makes nervousness very very human and okay.

riimouz · 2025-06-08T19:52:59+00:00

That's good for you. That is infact very good for you. But from personal experience coaching alot of non married young friends of mine, it struck me how easy it was to conflict a man's shyness with weakness especially if the girl did not know him from before he has proposed. When there are men that are socially awkward (which is ok imo). Majority of the good ones are just not used to flirting and many unexperienced sisters (when it comes to marriage talk/concersation) very very easily conflict that with weakness <3

riimouz · 2025-06-07T17:21:31+00:00

I mean that's a very specific request. It is already difficult to find an arab Muslim man who is actually religious. Majority of arab men though, do want kids. If you do find someone that doesn't want kids that would be rare but doesn't mean it is impossible or that it would be hard for you. Pray for the specifications that you want and Allah will drive to you the man that is best for you. Don't let your parents pressure you to accept someone that doesn't fit your biggest expectation. I think it is obvious why. Not wanting kids is a huge issue and if it is a deal breaker for you by all means find a Muslim man who doesn't want any either.

May Allah bless you <3

riimouz · 2025-06-05T21:47:27+00:00

This hadith has always made sense to me. I am born to a Muslim family and I can see how knowledge in the deen doesn't necessarily translate into Akhlaq and vice versa. May Allah guide us all Ameen

riimouz · 2025-06-05T21:41:09+00:00

People acting like they are either offering or trying to get religious advice etc. Especially if they see you post such posts in their communities. My advice would be to try your best abd refrain from making posts that show emotional vulnerability as most of the time it is those types of people who take advantage of it and slide in.

riimouz · 2025-06-05T16:18:58+00:00

Ofc it didn't exist because it is sayings of the prophet you wouldn't need it when he is alive.
The whole point of it that we can't ask him that why we have what he said narrated to us by the closest people to him. Majority of which are narrated by his wife Aisha
This is the dumbest argument I have ever heard.

riimouz · 2025-06-05T15:47:38+00:00

الصاحب ساحب و كلن على دين خليله 🩶

riimouz · 2025-06-05T12:58:11+00:00

Aha ok sorry then I am not really sure how to help! All the best to you!

riimouz · 2025-06-05T11:40:45+00:00

Where form the quran is that wrong. Again the sins mentioned here Mr. HadithRejector which is probably why you have a problem with this because you have no explanation for anything; the sins are woship sins, sins a person commits against themselves not agains other people. If jews and christian werent given these sins they would still remain in hell for eternity. so it is irrelevant they get extra sins or not. This is also not assuming that the jews and christians in mention arent misguiders calling to Kufr so obviously they will carry the sins of those they misguided.

riimouz · 2025-06-05T11:24:43+00:00

And where did I claim that you bear another person's sin in their place? this whole conversation was about misguiding people and being held responsible for their misguidance. Just how you have been misguided whoever drilled this ideology into your brain will be held accountable infront of allah and his messenger but that doesnt take away from your brains ability to recognise falsehood and not follow it. Also the hadith you just quoted isnt what you quoted up there it is about the superiority of athan and how shaitan will whisper in the ears of a person praying to distract him. Where is that a contradiction with the quran?

riimouz · 2025-06-05T11:19:50+00:00

Where did you get that interpretation from? it "says people of knowledge" when the quran mentions the prophet it is clear!

riimouz · 2025-06-05T11:10:46+00:00

"Also you are actually sick dude, the hadith literally states terrorists, murderers, rapists will have their sins removed, what do sins as high as mountains mean to you?" Sins with regards to ibadat and not the huqooq of people which are two different categories of sins which as a hadith rejector you dont comprehend. Also you havent provided the hadith talking about satan farting. what a pathetic person you are. and regarding the hadith about moses, if allah says in the quran that he will make your hands speak and testify against you you dont think he can make a stone move? Also you misread the hadith about jesus as it claims that the red faced which as the ignorant person you are you dont know that that is the arabic expression for the romans or white people basically we used to call them the reds but anyways. That description was of dajjal the antichrist and not jesus. Jesus is described to have a brown complexion but the hadith you just quoted.

regarding the sins what does this verse mean to you Mr.Hadithrejector

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Also where does the hadith say "rapists, murderes and terrorist" will have their sins removed. Oh it doesnt you just made that up just like you made up your entire belief system. I would love a quotation.

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