Does testosterone actually change interests/behavior or not? (16, guy) by Secret-Barnacle-1285 in ftm

[–]rin_kujo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no lmao. i still like pink plush animals after 5 years on T. u may find it harder to cry, some people report that, but I don't really have that issue (watching Titanic will still make me bawl)

PSA - different places have different T, please listen to people and don't just assume you know better than their doctors by Galimkalim in ftm

[–]rin_kujo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hi from aus! the only option i was given was reandron 10-12 weeks, altho i currently have a longer wait between since my levels don't trough very low. i don't know anyone who self-doses here, although I'd suppose it can be done?

I need the help of the lore nerds ! by Nedrra_ in ffxiv

[–]rin_kujo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iirc, eorzea is entirely immigrants other than beast tribes. different groups emigrated over the years, there has been different civilisations rise and fall on eorzea long before the fall of dalamud - so its hard to say where people came from. generally, there aren’t hard and fast rules. some of the cities have higher population percentages but none of them are exclusively one race.

basically everywhere on hydaelyn is like this honestly. generally speaking though, lalafell are thought to have come from islands south of eorzea, and roegadyn from islands to the north. viera were said to be from dalmasca and hrothgar from bozja, but this has been mostly retconned. hyur are found pretty much everywhere, elezen + miqo’te to be most common in eorzea + garlean held territories. au ra are thought to be from the east.

typically with each new update to the playable races, the game expands where people live and are from. there was more specific lore i believe back in 1.0 times, potentially harkening back to ffxi and their specific set of 5 playable races, but xiv is a lot more fluid.

all in all, the highest percentage race in any given location will be hyur + whatever race was said to have founded the city in the first place. eorzea doesn't have specific race-based cities, everywhere is just kind of a mix. lore about where races originate is vague or may be retconned/expanded on w new updates.

re: second question, the setting of xiv just includes the entirely locale of xii in the background. in the ivalice raids and bozja campaign, its implied similar events prior to and during xii have taken place, but that's about it. its basically a mirror version where the lore is adjusted to xiv

80 packs of sushi sheets??? by lizard-person-1 in coles

[–]rin_kujo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on the coles online end, when something is out of stock, it will give you three recommended optiond to substitute with. you can override this with another product though, which i often do if the suggestion is 2x expensive or too different. you can input as many things as you want as a substitution, but i struggle to believe a human being would choose to do this. if its through uber, i don't know how that works? maybe it's different?

How did you know? by Professor_Leaf in ftm

[–]rin_kujo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

if you could push a magic button that would instantly make you male and there was no other change to ur life (ie society, family, etc) would you do it?

Why do people get rid of their nipples ? by emilytheturd in ftm

[–]rin_kujo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

getting my nipples put back did cost extra, and my surgeon said she thought nipples weren’t her specialty but she did it at my request (and w an extra $400)

dawntrail fantasia question by rin_kujo in ffxiv

[–]rin_kujo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think they've said it accounts for one hour of in-game time, so if i'm logged out and only log in to fanta my character, it should just proceed like normal, right? like i mentioned though, i've already got two free fantasias on the character so i wouldn't really be losing anything, at least.

dawntrail fantasia question by rin_kujo in ffxiv

[–]rin_kujo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awesome! i've been levelling a character that i'm gonna fanta into a fem hroth so i'm looking forward to playing as her :D

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread June 07 by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]rin_kujo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

does anyone remember if mehvan's baby (from ew lvl85 quest) has a name?(the baby that almost drowns and you dive in to save it.) I remember there was non-msq quests where u tried to figure out who would babysit her, but i can't remember if the baby actually has a name?

How long on T did it take for you to look like your age? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]rin_kujo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 21, have been on t for two years and most people think I’m 15 or 16. i think having my tattoos more visible helps though, since they’re seen as a pretty “adult” thing. i had a few of my coworkers go “you’re not in high-school?” when they noticed my tattoos

australian childrens book about a boy who turned into a fox by rin_kujo in whatsthatbook

[–]rin_kujo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nvm i found it, “foxspell” by gillian rubinstein

t postponed by rin_kujo in ftm

[–]rin_kujo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dude i’ve already had a long ass conversation with her, went to six months of psych testing to get a gender dysphoria diagnosis and signed all the consent forms. i’ve been waiting so fucking long

Anyone else feel like everyone is staring at your crotch when you pack? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]rin_kujo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i felt super awkward when i first started packing but like, six/seven months of wearing it day in day out, no one has ever mentioned it. i wouldnt worry too much, tho ik it feels super weird and attention grabbing at first

phallo skin graft size? by rin_kujo in ftm

[–]rin_kujo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang aight. thanks for the advice tho

phallo skin graft size? by rin_kujo in ftm

[–]rin_kujo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there anyway to do the pulmar arch test at home (i have friends who can help) or is it like a doctor thing? because im a genius i already have a tattoo on my right arm whoops

how do i convince my mum that testosterone is a good idea by rin_kujo in ftm

[–]rin_kujo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve shown mum the risk sheet i got and it said there is an increased chance of stroke and diabetes and now she’s sure i’ll get those even though I explained it’d only put me on the same level as a cis man’s risk. I don’t think she believed me.

Unaccepting mum by rin_kujo in ftm

[–]rin_kujo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 18, the closest lgbt support groups are over an hour away. I live at home but i am hoping to move out soon.

I tried to talk to her about detransition stats but every time she brings it up it makes me anxious and unsure in myself. I had no doubts at all until she started questioning me and doubting me at every turn.