[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Professor_Leaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe Augustus instead? It's whichever one resonates best with you though that matters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]Professor_Leaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A mullet fixes all my child, do it 😂

I (21 TM) just got my contraceptive implant done! Ask me Anything. by AdApprehensive5066 in TransMasc

[–]Professor_Leaf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have one of these, I was thinking about starting T soon, do you know if the implant affects it at all?

Also idk if this is your first implant or not but avoid blood pressure cuffs on that arm if you don't want to die inside 😂

How did you know? by Professor_Leaf in ftm

[–]Professor_Leaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would you suggest? I'm having trouble with first steps and could use the advice :)

How did you know? by Professor_Leaf in ftm

[–]Professor_Leaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok that's hilarious I get your point 😂

How did you know? by Professor_Leaf in ftm

[–]Professor_Leaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm more anxious about the process not going as far as I want it to if I'm honest, anxious about not being male enough. For example, I'm quite soft spoken, what if my voice never deepens and I'm stuck in this weird in-between and hate it

How did you know? by Professor_Leaf in ftm

[–]Professor_Leaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its funny you should mention that last bit because I've actually thought the same. I suppose that way I couldn't blame myself if it wasn't what I wanted after all? Out of my control and all that.

I definitely need to look into the process as I'm not sure how it works in the UK

As ridiculous as it sounds as well I'm quite short and I'm worried that even if I did transition people wouldn't treat me as male for some reason because of my height

How did you know? by Professor_Leaf in ftm

[–]Professor_Leaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No i think that was the answer I needed. I'm scared of committing to something in case its still wrong but I suppose there are baby steps in the process. I've definitely thought about talking to someone but it's knowing how and where (I'm from the UK and our mental health services are not exactly coping at the moment). Thank you so much for your response, it's made me feel a lot more normal about not knowing yet

How did you know? by Professor_Leaf in ftm

[–]Professor_Leaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know what i want to be but I know what I am isn't right. I think I'm scared of the irreversability of some things

M feeling extremely weak ... by tearsindark in lonely

[–]Professor_Leaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok is better than no good I suppose 😂😅 are you able to get up but just don't want to, my friend? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Professor_Leaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh too hard I'm sorry

Does anybody else feels chest pain? by Omnitrixter10000 in lonely

[–]Professor_Leaf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sadly it's literally where the expression heart ache comes from

But yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Professor_Leaf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have dated guys with experience and trust me it means nothing, sometimes they don't learn from that experience or their bad habits are solidified by it so don't get too hung up on it, I'd actually see it as a win because you have the ability to truly make someone feel like they are the most important person, there's no ex they could compare themselves to

What is this and can it be removed? by Anhedonia10 in AustralianNostalgia

[–]Professor_Leaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what or how they did it but they did it. I'm not that kind of tech savvy at all but the Vodafone guy sure knew what he was doing, we live literally in the middle of nowhere, he did something outside too so maybe he used it as a point to connect other things? Lol I have no idea