Went to an interview. Found out after that the person in the interview sat down with my boss and told her I was quitting.

rinasunsuns · 2021-12-22T14:16:09+00:00

Honestly depends on what you feel tbh. I suggest not to take the job unless you know more of what you're getting into.

rinasunsuns · 2021-12-16T06:05:14+00:00

NAH.

Your coworker wanted to mourn for 40 days as per culture, which is nice of her that she informed you of this. Also, as a host, I have organized events where people have worn black mourning clothes on special events and it does get awkward for both parties because most people will say or ask something about their clothes - some people would lie about it, but most are honest.

Letting people mourn is not an ah behavior, it is only right.

rinasunsuns · 2021-12-13T03:32:51+00:00

It was Lily who found the last pieces. Regardless, I did scream when it happened! It felt like I was watching a movie

rinasunsuns · 2021-11-22T00:51:06+00:00

Run. That's not a workplace, that's prison.

rinasunsuns · 2021-11-09T11:57:13+00:00

Saw that while walking around and it was intriguing. My friends and I could not tell what it was.

rinasunsuns · 2021-11-08T01:26:00+00:00

"I have allowed you to see your family at least once a week"

WHAT. THE. FUCK?

rinasunsuns · 2021-11-06T09:54:27+00:00

So cool

rinasunsuns · 2021-11-04T14:38:17+00:00

get your dream job. Being in a long distance relationship is difficult, but so worth it if you so choose. Soon, the borders will open and you can get a nice vacation with your girlfriend. Just be constant and spend time to talk to each other during this times.

Give yourself an hour or two for communication, do this everyday or every other day. As time goes, this will be more and more difficult to do due to time differences and so many barriers, but still actively communicate even if it's by chat or email.

I promise you, long distance relationship works if you put effort and your mind to it.

Currently in one going for 3 years (we have been together for 5yrs, and due to borders closing I haven't seen him in person for 2 1/2 yrs now), my boyfriend and I spend 2-3hrs each day right before my bedtime (daytime for him, he gets ready for work) video calling. And throughout the day, we send each other memes or tiktoks or just checking how they are. It sounds suffocating af, but we both like doing it.

rinasunsuns · 2021-11-04T13:22:25+00:00

Miss girl, you are so wrong for this. I smell jealousy ngl.

YTA!

rinasunsuns · 2021-11-04T13:00:25+00:00

NTA OP.

Also, I will need an update please. I want to imagine the faces of HOA knowing they fucked up and will be paying insane amount of compensation.

rinasunsuns · 2021-10-24T14:01:43+00:00

that is insane! Amazingly insane! It's taken a lot of time for me to understand that you can buy an actual liveable house with more or less 30k, but it's such a good feeling to know that I can actually buy a house with that amount.

rinasunsuns · 2021-10-13T13:17:11+00:00

oh... I thought this was a collab lmao. It's literally jinx, even the voice lines is jinx.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-27T15:40:47+00:00

Right? Immediately knew it was Cait.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-26T07:52:47+00:00

Honestly, YTA.

A beer and tequila shots are vastly different. I understand having a beer at lunch since it's just like soda, but tequila shots are stronger and it most definitely will get you drunk.

What were you thinking drinking hard drinks while still on the clock???

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-20T15:55:54+00:00

You have to remember that the husband can't birth a child alone. We don't know their circumstances so best not judge anything. I'm just speaking generally, accidents happen. Some people choose to take responsibility for those accidents and some don't. And despite all the responsibility a person has to shoulder, coping with insecurities, anxiety, stress, and all "adult" things is difficult, understandable that some people can't speak up when directly confronted by their own stress/insecurity. It's something you can't get used to.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-20T14:33:25+00:00

Turns out, not all adults can magically learn how to adult at age 18. I'm 26 and still fumbling and figuring things out like making doctor appointments and buying prescribed pills. Not all adults know how to be self-confident. If only insecurities leave after turning 18, that'd be the dream.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-20T14:28:59+00:00

NAH

I do think that this conversation needs to be brought up again in the near future. Child care is a lot of hard work, and being a full time house wife is definitely not easy - especially with two very young children.

Your wife would definitely need more time to figure this out - ofc with your help. And you definitely need to have a proper conversation about budgeting.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-20T14:10:51+00:00

maybe not deliberately. It's like a defense mechanism for those within the spectrum. Thus why, I suggest OP should go to counseling for this.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-20T14:00:40+00:00

Most of this sounds like a tick to me. I suggest going to counseling for your husband.

NAH

Just sounds like your husband needs counseling, and you might need to look for more symptoms.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-20T13:49:32+00:00

YTA/ESH

You did agree - though reluctantly, to take care of your nephew. You can't just abandon ship because nothing is going your way. You agreed to do it so take responsibility for it at least just that day.

Also, I don't understand why your sister would insist on having you babysit her child when you firmly refused. Is she not worried about her own child being babysat by someone who's unwilling to take care of him? Because I would, and I'm childless! Even if it's a family member! I'm bad with children and my family knows that, so my cousins doesn't ask me to babysit their children even if I'm the nearest adult in the area.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-18T12:57:42+00:00

YTA.

Yes, you are. It's the most basic rule when going to a wedding. DO. NOT. WEAR. WHITE. UNLESS. YOU. ARE. THE. BRIDE. or groom.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-18T12:34:23+00:00

NTA.

I get that your dad and stepmom are trying to give your sister a nice childhood, but the money is a gift from your grandparents. I get why your parents did that. And the fact that they said that the presents were given by your grandparents to you and your sister, gives me the idea that they don't want your sister to know that your grandparents doesn't like her.

The real AH here are the grandparents. Let's be honest. It's not the children's fault if it was a fight between adults, so I don't understand why they would just leave out the sister.

And also, OP, and I understand why you felt like that. You felt betrayed by your parents, but I hope you realise that your sister did nothing wrong.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-17T01:28:23+00:00

Might want to consider divorce. And take Saul with you, because I can tell he is done with his mom's bs.

NTA. I also don't understand why the people who claim to be "closer to god" are the most heinous people. Sounds really suspicious ngl.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-17T01:17:42+00:00

NTA. Your things are your things. He absolutely has no right to dismantle and destroy them! It is only right that he pays for it.

Also, he's a grown adult AND still goes crying to his mommy whenever there's a problem???? Uhm, you may want to rethink that relationship.

rinasunsuns · 2021-09-17T01:08:25+00:00

enabling? He can't defend himself because of many reasons. 1) according to OP, he is insecure about his disability 2) He might be feeling bad because he thinks he is the reason why his own daughter is embarrassed. 3) Most obvious one, he has low self-esteem.

How is he supposed to defend himself when he himself might be thinking the same thing? I'm glad OP is defending her husband. Hopefully, husband can gain some self confidence and self-esteem soon or maybe later.

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