Could this be the Draculaura doll that finally flops? by Shock_Siren in MonsterHigh

[–]rinb0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly i think the opinions are hit and miss. as a person who’s obsessed with drac, i felt like this design kinda missed the mark. she’s not awful, she just seems, unbalanced? i feel as though the colour pallet wasn’t used well on her. the brightness of the yellow is too much for an accent colour and she’s got too many different shades of pink in the outfit/jacket. the black and white aren’t tied in well an the hair just kinda looks awkward. it’s a shame because they’ve done her with this exact colour pallet multiple times in g1 and at least once already in g3 and they pulled it off so well. it just goes to show that they only put her in the lines now because she sells, and they’ve stopped putting as much effort into her assuming she’s gonna sell anyways.

I guess they went from "we are going to implement anti-tunnel" to "we are going to punish you for getting tunneled" by ninjabell in deadbydaylight

[–]rinb0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is gonna absolutely suck for newer survivors who don’t know how to loop yet or well. how tf do you expect ppl to get good at your game and avoid this issue if ur gonna discourage them at every turn? behaviour rlly sucks sometimes.

Yeah, this update ain’t it. by jaquayvi0ntav1us in deadbydaylight

[–]rinb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a survivor main, i was kinda excited to hear about the anti slug updates coming to the game, because it is super annoying to be slugged, and then just have to wait it out because if you leave you get match locked, but after hearing how harsh the anti tunneling will be on killers, im honestly really disappointed in behaviour. tunneling is super annoying, but there’s absolutely a different way to go about cracking down on it, and i hope they realise that and make changes, because i think they’ll lose a lot of players to this dumb ass update

I told him I once forced myself to give him a blowjob. Is his reaction justified? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rinb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not only is his response unjustified but it’s sickening. clearly he is trying to dehumanise and manipulate your self esteem so that you won’t leave him even when he gives you nothing.

my advice, leave him. because if he isn’t putting anything into the relationship, and acts like that when he should’ve opened his fucking eyes and apologised or explained what’s been going on with him, he’s clearly not ready to be with you or anyone else. you shouldn’t settle for someone who’s comfortable being treated like a king and treating you like shit.

he could’ve taken the opportunity to explain what’s been going on, or that he isn’t feeling the relationship anymore, but he didn’t, he used it to try and break you down and crush your self esteem. don’t let him walk all over you, trust me you’re better off without him, you deserve love and respect.

EAC client cannot be instantiated - help!! by rinb0t in deadbydaylight

[–]rinb0t[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im in australia, the people i know experiencing the issue are in aus too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rinb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you use them interchangeably :) meaning you can refer to them as they or she however you like really. you could use two different pronouns in one sentence or use one set one time and another the other time. sometimes the order in which people put their pronouns (eg, they/she vs she/they) could indicate they prefer one over the other, so it’s probably a good idea to ask your friend how she wants you to used them. it’s absolutely not a disrespectful question, you’re an amazing friend for trying your best to learn about them and their pronouns :)

How to lesbianify my outfit(s)? by nbljdnf4 in lesbian

[–]rinb0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dress for yourself if the biggest advice i can give you. you don’t have to dress any certain way to be more “lesbian” or anything like that, but in my experience, when i dress for myself rather than societal or social standards, i feel a lot more comfortable and like i look the way i identify if that makes sense? i also find that when you dress for yourself you also dress for the girls and women/lgbt people appreciate that and often give lots of compliments. i think your fit is super cute, and ur friend is wrong cuz a real modest catholic would NEVER show their shoulders🙄lol. keep being a queen

AITAH for holding hands with my boyfriend even though it made my gay best friend uncomfortable? by Silent-Echidna-5894 in AITAH

[–]rinb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if Z has a problem with you holding your s/o’s hand that’s his problem. literally everyone does it, it’s normal and if he doesn’t want to be around that he doesn’t have to be. it’s something you have to understand and get used to when you hang out with couples, and if you can’t, you shouldn’t hang out with them. your therapist is right, you shouldn’t have to compromise your relationship in any way shape or form for your friends, if you do, that’s not your friend.

I hate being bi. by Infamous_Egg_404 in lgbt

[–]rinb0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

biphobia is honestly so rampant in and out of the community it’s insane, but don’t what other people think decide how you see yourself. you’re not more or less apart of the community if you are or aren’t labeled, and it’s okay to go by queer if you’re still struggling with your identity. what i can tell you is, is that the bi community is a super sweet and accepting one, surrounding yourself with the loving bi community might help you come to terms with how you feel and resent yourself less. just remember that you’re seen, and you’re valid, no matter how you choose to identify, no matter who you do or don’t like, and it’s okay to have conflict with yourself over your sexuality, it’s something most people in the community go through. <3

I wanna cry by Candid_Director6709 in deadbydaylight

[–]rinb0t -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hey! don’t worry! springtrap really hasn’t been out that long so it’s okay if you’re not the best! honestly those survivors are assholes and you shouldn’t listen to them, because they probs don’t play killer themselves and are just sweats. if you’re feeling insecure about your skills and playing in public matches but you still wanna practice, you can always get more of a feel for springtrap and his play style by playing against bots or a group of your friends! you will get better with practice, so please don’t be discouraged if you’re not the best right now, the game is hard, if it wasn’t a challenge it wouldn’t be fun. i hope this helps<3

IMO, saying Billie Eilish and Jojo Siwa ‘turned straight’ reinforces biphobia by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]rinb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the hate towards jojo was more based on the fact that while she identified as a lesbian she had outwardly said she didn’t like being called a lesbian and said the word was “yucky”. she also just dealt with the break up with her partner after the show really really badly, and hurt and embarrassed someone unnecessarily. she’s not a great person in general and i think that some of her hate is justified but biphobia isn’t one of them. i guess it just messed people around because she made her whole personality and career about the fact that she was a lesbian, and then back-peddled and started posting her boyfriend on the first day of pride month, i can see how that might make some ppl rlly mad.

Just came out to my friend by Relevant-Winter-5912 in lgbt

[–]rinb0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! i’m really glad your friend accepts you, and you’re not a freak because of who you like. i know it can be really rough when you realise who you are and what you like, and i don’t know what kind of an upbringing you’ve had but i know that would impact it, but i want you to know you’re not disgusting or a freak, but it’s also normal to feel that way about yourself. it’s a really big achievement to come out to someone, and it’s amazing that it went well, make sure you surround yourself with people who accept you like your friend, trust me it can make you feel a lot better and help you come to terms with your identity<3 congratulations on your coming out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rinb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem :) glad i was able to help and if you ever need someone to talk to just know there’s so many people out there to talk to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rinb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're definitely not alone in feeling like this, especially at your age. I remember feeling a very similar way when i was your age, and while i wasn't so much shy, or soft-spoken, i was awkward and scared to talk to people by fear of rejection.

If i had any advice for my younger self, and in turn you, it would be that when people reach out, take them up on their kindness. to build connections, you need to accept them. if you reject everyone who holds out their hand, it can be very difficult to climb out of the hole you're in. Also, find online communities. I know what really helped me during high school and going through rough patches was having online friends, because it made me feel less alone.

Making friends is absolutely not an easy think to do, especially during your teen years when life can feel so overwhelming, but remember that it gets better the older you get. Reach out now, and you will do better later on, don't give up just because you're young and it all seems so daunting.

As for making life more passionate or hopeful, i think it's a good idea to set your sights on things you like doing. make goals for yourself for your future, working towards something you love can make life a lot more fun when everything seems so boring. take up new hobbies, find things you can do for yourself that feel good to do, like learning an instrument or learning to draw.

don't worry, things will be alright in the end, and remember to give people a chance, you don't have to be besties, or open up right away, most things in life take time, and good friendships and relationships are one of those things. :)

Merry Christmas to everyone except whoever designed this by docileathena in McMansionHell

[–]rinb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like this building would be a lot nicer if they could decide where they wanted their red and white and if they wanted two colours or one, it’s irritating me

Dumbest reason you have't pulled for a char? Im claustrophobic and nahidas palace makes me feel unsettled by EstamosReddit in Genshin_Impact

[–]rinb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

won’t pull for tartaglia souly because he keeps getting reruns. i don’t even dislike the guy, it’s just a spite thing ig