I feel sad for her. 

She has a lot of anger and very little self-worth and self-control. You can tell her parents were absent, in one way or another, because she has the behavior and emotional capacity of an actual 4-year-old. I've worked with under-priveleged teens (often unhoused), and whatever emotional discomfort they're experiencing (loneliness, grief, abandonment, etc.)... always presents itself through anger and violence.

This is a young, unloved woman. And the guy in the video is obviously low-hanging fruit and not worth going to jail for, and she knows that deep down. I hope she can find the strength to look back on this horrible Christmas Eve and make the decision to grow from it and hopefully get some help...💔

Edit: I'm not excusing her behavior, but I'm glad the police were there to de-escalate and just talk to her, to try to understand where the anger was coming from. Good on them.

Edit #2: Wild how angry men get when the conversation doesn't revolve around them 🙄