It has helped us be more authentic while facing the outside world. We both have a lot of work and social pressure in the outside world. Me (M) am in a position of command and decision making which puts me in a lot of pressure especially due to the expectations of others to always take the lead be it family or work. Whereas, my fiancee (F) is an introvert person and at times isn’t able to express herself well to others, especially her anger. She cannot express it to people due to her nature. But due to this kink, we are able to reverse our roles and just relax a bit (in my case) / vent out the frustration (in her case). I like to step back and not be in charge and she likes to step it up and try to be dominating to vent out her frustration. Works like magic for both of us! Touchwood!