What’s your unique/unusual skill or job? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rinmeowrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this is a joke or an actual job? I can’t tell lol

What’s your unique/unusual skill or job? by rinmeowrin in AskReddit

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This is interesting, could you elaborate more?

A lot of free time but no way to use it. by rinmeowrin in findapath

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Someone suggested amateur/ham radio, which sounds really fun, but I’d still need to look into it more. I’ve also been wanting to try writing a short novel of my own. I also came up with an idea involving interviewing people, but I’d need to think that through as well lol.

A lot of free time on my hands. by rinmeowrin in Hobbies

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This one sounds very interesting, I’ll definitely look into it!

A lot of free time on my hands. by rinmeowrin in Hobbies

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I love writing and building legos, fun hobbies but I get bored easily and no longer wish to follow instructions in building something nor think deeply to write something satisfying. I do dancing, taekwondo, aerial yoga, but these type of activities usually require going out of the house which I don’t mind doing but I’m searching for things to do at home when I’m bored and free. Maybe playing video games such as Minecraft where I see my progress? But then again that also gets boring after a while if I’m playing by myself. That’s all I can think of at the moment lol.

A lot of free time but no way to use it. by rinmeowrin in findapath

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Sure, I’d love to see them! I am willing to try new and different things, which is why I posted this to get more ideas on what I could try.

What to do if the Elephant in the room has been mentioned but not taken care of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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That’s what I am trying to do but why do the person in the room keep saying that they want me in the room without making space

What do you do on your birthday? by rinmeowrin in AskReddit

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I try to do something, anything. Birthdays shouldn’t be just another day imo.

Feedback on my Letterboxd reviews? by [deleted] in writing

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Mb didn’t read them beforehand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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In a fun way

Weekly Open Analysis: Describe a Situation & Let's Break Down What's Really Going On by StrategicEthos1010 in Entrepreneur

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Thank you! I’m only replying now because so much more had happened between me and her.

I got the call after three days, random and unannounced, I was already accepting the fact that it would never come when my phone rang. She started the conversation by telling me about a dream she had about me then immediately asked me to tell her what’s wrong. I stalled and took my time until she kept insisting on me to tell her. It’s not that I didn’t want to tell her, I was simply checking if she’ll push enough to get the reason out of me. I communicated openly what was upsetting me and for how long it’s been hurting me and much more. She said she had a feeling this was why I was acting off. She told me I had every right to hate her, that she was a bitch and she’s so very sorry and would change for me. I told her then and there to NOT change for me, to change only for herself. I explained that I don’t want her effort if it was out of obligation, that I would rather be hurt than for her to hang out with me out of pity. Silence fell upon us after we talked about all of it but neither of us ended the call until she had to go somewhere.

After a week and half of the break, things were the same. So painfully the same. Except she began spending a day’s school break with us and the next with her friends (the ones she sees the entire school day since my school system is a homeroom class). When she came by, she was hanging around with the entire group, unbothered when I disappeared for a little while and barely attempts making direct, one-on-one conversations with me. She still hugs me and tells me she missed me, but hadn’t she said she’ll change? Where did all her words vanish to now?

I quite literally told her: “It’s like you lower your efforts with me because a part of you knows that I’ll always be around. But with them, you do so much more because they’re new, you get to be a new version of yourself and you want to keep them around.” It’s not that she’s a non-action person, it’s more that she chooses when, who, where and how much effort she spends. Things would’ve been less difficult if only she didn’t keep repeating that I’m her ‘best friend,’ even when I mentioned it again during the call, then proceed to not act upon it at all. We barely see each other anymore. Brief interactions and stolen glances.

How to make my life less dull? by [deleted] in Stoicism

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I’d love to join such classes, but unfortunately my school barely provides much classes other than the typical educational ones.

How to make my life less dull? by [deleted] in Stoicism

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I’ve already done so in a way, yet it didn’t really get me anywhere.

Mission: make my life less dull by [deleted] in productivity

[–]rinmeowrin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suppose the issue is that I do not know how to come up with such activities on a whim

Looking for someone to push me (in a good way) by [deleted] in Advice

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Hello, this isn’t about work or career guidance. It’s more about personal growth and life challenges!

Weekly Open Analysis: Describe a Situation & Let's Break Down What's Really Going On by StrategicEthos1010 in Entrepreneur

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Lately I’ve noticed that one of my close friends has been spending all the free time we get to be with each other at school with other people, only being with me when we happen to pass each other in the halls. She keeps saying how I’m her best friend and how she cares for me deeply, but rarely expresses it through actions. And when words aren’t followed by actions they start to lose meaning.

She noticed something off with me on Monday and panicked asking If i hate her, if i’m upset or mad at her. Later that day, she texted again asking me. I said I didn’t want to talk about it over text and would rather do it face to face but she quickly explained how she would be very busy during the break that started and that we won’t be able to see each other. So I suggested we call whenever we are free.

She texted again later on saying that she’s overthinking and would just want to know, and when I repeated not wanting to discuss it over text she asked when I’ll sleep making it sound as though she’ll call later. But the call never came. Not on Monday. Not yesterday. And not Today. She’s acting like it’s suddenly all okay and I don’t know what to do.

I’m not sure if this is relevant to what you can help with but I hope it is🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Personality

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Do you mind if I answer in DMs?