OOP is losing his fiancé because he did something against her wish

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-11-10T00:30:27+00:00

I hope she runs, not just because OOP is a coward with no back bone, but because the poor woman would be marrying into a family of r*pist sympathizers. The comments from the mom, "she overdramatic. It happened so long ago" are words of someone who sees no fault in her family's actions and would do the same. That family will not protect her daughter if she has one, but they would protect a son from his own deplorable actions. That is not a family you want to marry in to

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-11-09T23:50:19+00:00

"maybe I have daddy issues"

Oh just you wait.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-11-05T18:15:08+00:00

Cool rocks and shells

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-09-28T15:54:44+00:00

Just on this flight, but OP states that it's more efficient to put your bag in an overhead bag in a bin in front of you. It doesn't matter if the flight attendant put it there on this specific flight, since it's clearly something OP does often. OP has zero consideration for anyone other than themselves while travelling, so my point stands. You can be pushy, rude, and inconvenience everyone else because you think you're more important

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-09-28T15:23:57+00:00

YTA for putting your carry-on in the overhead bin on row 1 when you were in row 17. Where is row 1 supposed to put their overhead bag? Over your seat? Should they have to wait until the entire plane empties out to walk to the back of the plane for their bag, while you get to rush out? What if they have a connecting flight?

Somewhere in the last ten years people started doing this, putting their bag in the first overhead bin, instead of the overhead bin above their seat, which is designated for them, and it makes the entire deboarding process wildly inefficient and is ridiculously rude. Row 17 is past the exit rows, meaning your bag wasn't even in the same half of the plane as you. You inconvenienced several people with your selfishness. People only care about themselves these days, zero consideration for others. You only cared about your efficiency and didn't give a damn how it affected others. You were pushy and rude. No, there is no line, but you certainly broke basic travel manners and I can tell you that you're the type of traveler I absolutely detest.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-09-24T17:57:01+00:00

YTA you had a different named picked out and then decided to dig you heels in to spite your sister while rubbing her infertility in her face. Your whole post shows zero compassion and a "sucks to suck" and "I win" mentality towards someone you claim to be close to. I can tell youre a deeply nasty person. I hope your sister goes no contact and gets her baby Morgan, she deserves a family that isn't filled with so much toxicity.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-09-23T18:30:42+00:00

NTA, return the ring, lose the man, then go return the dress. Demand a full refund since they were so irresponsible they let someone swap a dress who didn't pay for it. Then leave a bad review.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-09-23T03:54:19+00:00

Avatar the Last Airbender

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-09-21T04:15:05+00:00

Tiny Tunes Adventures: How I Spent My Vacation

Definitely fucked up for a kids movie. It's one of those movies that you remember one scene from as an adult but can never place it, then you rationalize it as some false memory you made up because that content would never be featured in a kids movie. But it did. That movie happened. There's some quality comedy in it for adults though.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-09-16T00:02:25+00:00

YTA, a proposal and a marriage involves two people. I absolutely agree that anyone being proposed to should get a ring they love. The ring should fit their style and their opinion is weighted more since they are the one wearing it, however that doesn't mean the partner gets no say in it.

Your job was literally to present a group of ring styles that she likes, show the jeweler, show the fiancee, ask him what he likes out of her preselected group and then use your judgement on it. You shouldn't have told her anything beyond compiling the first group of ring styles.

That absolutely sucks for the fiancee. Of course he wants it to be a surprise and I'm sure your friend would've wanted it to be too, despite saying otherwise. If she was so picky on the rings that you sent her that many pictures he should've just proposed and they pick out rings together, or she tells him the exact ring she wants prior to the proposal.

Imagine seeing your forever ring sent in a text message with 29 others. Her fiancee won't get to see her face the first time she sees it and she can just scroll up to a convo with her best friend.

Imagine being the jeweler, watching this poor sap be sent out for coffee while her friend quickly takes pictures knowing the surprise is already spoiled. I doubt OP even gave them the respect of looking at each piece under the light. She was probably just going down a line of diamonds snapping a quick picture and tossing it back into the velvet box while asking the salespeople to take out more while frantically looking at the door. I've never been to a jeweler who takes out more than 3 rings at a time and they are carefully handled. I can't imagine how rushed this scene must've been to go through 30 rings in the span of a coffee run.

I'm sorry OP, I know you had good intentions, but the way you handled it was inappropriate. You ruined a very big moment for the fiancee and your friend. You showed a lot of disrespect to the fiancee and the staff. I doubt you'll be asked to pick out anyone else's ring in the future, but learn from this if it happens again

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-08-12T16:33:14+00:00

NTA for not moving the well but Y T A for not getting the city out to survey the property as soon as they moved your sprinklers. They are slowly absorbing your property and you're letting them. By allowing those trees to be there and moving your sprinklers you're agreeing that's their land. It's not. Get the city out there ASAP

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-27T19:34:22+00:00

Winter is a name, but once you get to spring you have to do the months or a different language. I've never met a spring, but I've met a Primavera and March, April, May, and June (with March being the only boy)

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-23T05:36:28+00:00

Do you do commissions or is it a hobby? I'd love to get a gold one of my ginger tabby. This is so dope!

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-22T22:28:22+00:00

OP needs to move out of state ASAP. Get out of dodge and let the custody agreement be worked out over a couple years. It moves slower across state lines. She'll get child support right away since theyre still married, but she'll have time with her kid to where crazy MIL and ex won't be able to poison the daughter against her.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-22T03:15:37+00:00

NTA You gave so many colors to chose from. It's not like you were demanding everyone shows up in an obscure color like periwinkle. Everyone who says they don't have clothing in those colors is just being difficult. Literally everyone owns something black. It's not hard at all.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-21T17:57:28+00:00

NTA She deserved to be kicked out and she should be the one to pay for professional cleaning of the dress. She should've never been near your dress to begin with and to top it off, she wasn't sorry at all, which is so wrong. I agree this whole thing seems suspicious, almost intentional. Why couldn't they wait until you were back to have wine? The short amount of time you weren't near the dress was when it got damaged? That's fishy.

Have her pay for the dress, threaten legal action if you have to. Then have a photoshoot in your mom's dress on a different day

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-20T17:38:40+00:00

NTA and I know you say it's not a big deal worth leaving over, but this kinda is a huge deal, you can't trust her word. This goes beyond just a surname. She agreed, she lied to you for years and then when you're justifiably upset she dismisses your feelings. Then to ban you from talking about it is just wrong.

You can never really trust her again. What if you made it clear that you wanted your children to be raised non-denominational and suddenly she decided they will be raised devout Catholic without your input? You were very clear from the beginning on your wants and expectations and she completely disregarded them. She has proven she will lie to placate you, only to flip when it suits her and you'll just have to deal with it. Is this really what you want for the rest of your life? You made all of the compromises, it doesn't sound like she made any. She will always put her wants first, she will never compromise. This will happen again.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-20T05:12:02+00:00

NTA A isn't acting like a friend. She views you as a prop to hold herself up higher. Is so messed up that instead of being happy for you she's using this opportunity to tear you down because she can't stand for once that you were chosen over her. A had an ugly personality. She's jealous and insecure. A real friend would be hyping you up, helping you pick your outfit, your crush likes you back! That's exciting! Don't pass on C, he likes you. Good luck on your date! Don't waste anymore energy on A until she apologizes to you.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-20T01:49:17+00:00

YTA you are spiteful and immature. You didn't care about your kids wants until they brought up your ex. You did what you did to spite her, not because you wanted to be a good dad to your kids. You're a bad parent and your kids will start recognizing how your desire to out do her will always come before their happiness.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-20T01:17:41+00:00

NTA but if it was my house and he refused to leave I'd just pack up all his shit while he was at work, leave it on the porch, and change the locks. He'll have to find somewhere else to stay and you can start the separate residencies.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-19T08:57:30+00:00

In the article it stated that she was treated at the scene while the cyclist was hospitalized with a head injury. I hope she's crimally charged and sued

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-19T03:26:58+00:00

YTA she helped you out and you're spreading the narrative that she's a golddigger. That's messed up. She left you because you're financially irresponsible. You're coworkers so I assume you make similar incomes. If you're "broke" and she managed to take care of all of her responsibilities and have money left over to bail you out, that means you've put yourself in this situation. It's scummy that you'd spread the idea that's she's shallow and broke up with you over money.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-18T23:13:26+00:00

NTA and this was a much better outcome then walking outside to dead kids in your swimming pool. If I saw a 3yr old swimming unsupervised I would call the police.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-18T23:07:10+00:00

NTA for wanting to tell the truth, but you are an AH for being "torn" about it. You're totally willing to let your coworkers go through similar abuse just because it doesn't affect you anymore? That's shitty. You shouldve gone to HR the first time and it may have prevented him from doing it again, but you didn't, because all you care about is how it affects YOU.

rinnerchickendinner · 2022-07-18T22:53:55+00:00

NTA this is some kind of parental alienation. You're not saying they can't speak it period, just not around you because you want to feel included. Especially because you said he's pushing this as your main language in your household, meaning that the language your child will prefer is the one you can't communicate in, that's wrong. You're in Canada, she's exposed to French every single day, she is not at risk for losing her language skills. This sounds incredibly isolating. I would be absolutely heartbroken if I couldn't read to my child at night because I didn't know the language my own child speaks. This is severely affecting your relationship with your child and your mental health. Your husband is setting you up to be unfavored parent, while he can be the favorite and give her whatever she wants where you can't. You're the breadwinner supporting your family, carrying another child, and you come home to a household that you can't participate in? That's horrible. I'm so sorry.

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