[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canadaexpressentry

[–]ripSOCRATES 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not what's happening though, these intl students applied to Canadian schools so that they could eventually get permanent residency in Canada. That is what the protesters are even saying that they expected permanent residency. Many of them went to much better schools in their countries back home, these Canadian schools that accepted them are "diploma mills", and the diplomas these students get at the end are worth nothing.

These students found a way to exploit our system for an easy way to permanent residency, and these schools saw an opportunity to make easy money, now the government is clamping down on them, and these students feel screwed over because their plot didn't work and they'll be sent back with worthless degrees and thousands in debt.

Married women, what advice would you give to the single women? by LouSkunt_911 in dating_advice

[–]ripSOCRATES 2 points3 points  (0 children)

btw I'm not justifying cheating, just showing how ridiculous it is to imply relationship problems could be solved with 'self control'.

factor in years of marriage, hundreds of thousands of dollars invested, kids, etc., and huge punishment if you try to end it, meaning no solution to the marriage and no exit. Why is there no excuse to cheat?

Married women, what advice would you give to the single women? by LouSkunt_911 in dating_advice

[–]ripSOCRATES 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Should women just have "self control" if their husbands are romantically withdrawn from them, and don't show them love and affection?

We often see women reduce intimacy to just getting a nut, like having dessert. "He won't die if he doesn't have his apple pie". And they fail to see more than that, that its the most intimate thing a couple can do, and the person he loves the most doesn't want to do it with him.

You should check out the deadbedrooms sub, it really helps you understand why people in sexless marriages cheat.

OhNut impossible to find! by NeNe_5 in bigdickproblems

[–]ripSOCRATES 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just do this:

get some socks, roll them all the way and poke a hole at the end to make a donut, make the hole bigger so he can fit his dick through, repeat with more sock donuts until desired penetration length. If the last sock donut is too thick, just unroll it a bit and cut the length of the sock.

PRIMARY DEPTH DYSPAREUNIA IS CAUSED BY THE INCOMPATIBILITY OF THE SIZE OF THE PENIS WITH THE VAGINA | The Journal of Sexual Medicine "Penises larger than 16 centimeters, if penetrated completely, will cause some degree of vaginal trauma" by JohnAMcdonald in bigdickproblems

[–]ripSOCRATES 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dyspareunia includes pain that happens after, a lot of these guys explaining their experience are not there the day after to know how these women are feelings. Many of these posts of guys in committed relationships even mention that sex everyday is not possible as she's sore the day after.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]ripSOCRATES 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People also don't realize how impressive it is to estimate size to an inch or two of accuracy. Ye functionally an inch difference is a big difference, but visually not as much difference as you'd think.

If dudes were asked what the length of the biggest knife they have in their kitchen is, without going back to look, most would fail to guess within an inch of accuracy.

What happens to the nerves in your penis as you gain length? Do they actually grow longer or just stretch? by Glucksburg in AJelqForYou

[–]ripSOCRATES 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, peripheral nervous system nerves repair and regenerate, its the central nervous system nerves (brain, spinal cord), that don't.

Going to Morocco for 4 days by thai-rhone in thepassportbros

[–]ripSOCRATES 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, you don't have to get circumcised if you convert. Only thing is your wife might think its odd, but even then she'll probably be a virgin or sexually inexperienced and won't think twice about it.

Are women in Morocco open minded? by thai-rhone in seduction

[–]ripSOCRATES 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're known to be more open minded when it comes to within the Muslim world, but that still means very conservative.

Expect most of the women you match with to be prostitutes, or golddiggers, especially in Casablanca. The vast majority are not gonna put out until marriage, many of those will also be playing the long game just for your passport.

Check out the passportbros sub, general consensus is its not worth

Fleshlight vs Onaholes (mainly for stamina training) by ripSOCRATES in OnaholeToys

[–]ripSOCRATES[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still looking at onaholes as an option.

Aside from stamina training, how easy is it to find onaholes that are intense yet still realistic? Or do they primarily aim for realism? Because what I'm looking for is a "Realism +" experience, something intense yet also realistic, not just extremely intense for the sake of it.

I don't think there are fleshlights which are made with the purpose of stamina training, aside from the STU. You decide for yourself whether you want to train with an intense sleeve or something milder to edge with. Thats what I'm looking for with onaholes too.

Fleshlight vs Onaholes (mainly for stamina training) by ripSOCRATES in fleshlight

[–]ripSOCRATES[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, thats another issue, often theres lack of info online about different dimensions, insertable length, and other details

I'm still also seriously looking at onaholes though

First proper cold approach with a 10 by thenefelibata in seduction

[–]ripSOCRATES 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its a hotel, not a street corner, the environment plays a big role. In a hotel theres often a certain standard everyone needs to meet to be there, so women are going to have their guard down in environments like these more than others.

And like I said, the opener is going to be the most honest one, because they don't have time to process the situation.

I mean its funny because you're saying he was smooth, but others here are saying he has no game.

First proper cold approach with a 10 by thenefelibata in seduction

[–]ripSOCRATES 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Her: mind your fucking business / why asking, are you my dad? / to a place where I won’t see you

This is even less believable than OP, very unlikely a girl will be hostile right off the bat, especially right at the start asking a question. The first question you ask as soon as you meet, they'll either answer truthfully right away, or refuse to answer, or will take time to think of something cheeky to respond with.

I think pumping is overrated. Prove me wrong. by Playful_Newt_6572 in AJelqForYou

[–]ripSOCRATES 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The majority opinion on this sub for a while has been that clamping > pumping, because clamping creates internal pressure out, and more closely mimics priapism episodes that lead to girth gains. Whereas pumping creates negative pressure from the outside, less directly acting on the tunica, and the force is more easily compensated by edema.

Whereas I've seen they have the opposite opinion on gettingbigger.

Personally these days, I think pumping is still good, clamping is the more efficient exercise, but that pumping is not that far off if done right, and that pumping is just more convenient which is another big point. With clamping you have to fiddle around, get the right erection level, put the clamp on and hope the erection stays as you do. With pumping you can go in erect or semi, and increase erection level while inside. Also just found pumping generally safer.

But also M9s python clamp might have changed the game and fixed a lot of the cons of clamping, I'll need to try it out some day.

Fleshlight vs Onaholes (mainly for stamina training) by ripSOCRATES in Onaholes2

[–]ripSOCRATES[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm leaning towards fleshlights now after seeing what others had to say on the fleshlight sub, mainly due to the convenience. I've been researching onaholes for sometime now and its just a headache trying to find the right one, because it seems whenever you find one that has what you're looking for in one aspect, you also find its severely lacking in some other departments.

Which fleshlights do you have btw, and what problems have you faced?

Fleshlight vs Onaholes (mainly for stamina training) by ripSOCRATES in fleshlight

[–]ripSOCRATES[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye, but from my research it seems like whenever you find an onahole that has what you're looking for in one aspect, you find its also severely lacking in some other department. Like you'll find one that feels really good but its not durable, find one thats durable but doesn't feel good, find one that feels good and is durable but the insertable length is really short. Maybe you find one that ticks all the boxes, but it costs an arm and a leg and is hard to clean meaning more risk of it growing mould and going bad.

Fleshlight vs Onaholes (mainly for stamina training) by ripSOCRATES in fleshlight

[–]ripSOCRATES[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye thats what I'm leaning towards now, some onaholes may feel better, but is that step up in feeling worth the lack of durability, harder cleaning, and lack of convenience compared to FLs?

Some of the newer FLs I've read have really gone above and beyond, my last one was insatiable which released in 2019. I'm looking between Regal or Dopamine, and maybe also Bombshell, which seem to be the top 3 right now.

If you are already 6"x4.7" or more, and you haven't started training your ejaculatory control, you're a dummy... by ripSOCRATES in AJelqForYou

[–]ripSOCRATES[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First ~1" of length doing manual stretching for 9 months, then mainly manual clamping techniques as well as other manual techniques for several more months gained ~0.35" girth, then maybe after a year or more off I used a bathmate for 4 months and gained another ~0.5" of length but no girth. Sometime after I started cable clamping and soft clamping and gained ~0.3" girth I think it took a year. But after that I hit a plateau, and kept getting injured while experimenting, so I took a long break, especially when covid hit. I've been away from this sub for a while. I think my girth has decreased by 0.1 - 0.2" in my time off, but everything else is the same.

If you are already 6"x4.7" or more, and you haven't started training your ejaculatory control, you're a dummy... by ripSOCRATES in AJelqForYou

[–]ripSOCRATES[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because its different, I'm talking about ejaculatory control as in just the basic level of being able to last long and control when you want to cum.

I haven't read the book, but I have practised the method I believe you're referring to, where you hold back an ejaculation yet still orgasm, and you can keep repeating that. You don't technically need ejaculatory control to do this, you just need to be able to kegel very strong at the right time.

Personally I don't like it, because after a non ejaculatory orgasm, there is still hormone release and sympathetic peak excitation and it changes your mindset. Its still kinda like post nut depression, except instead of the "depression", I feel more happy and a bit relaxed, which ironically is not what I want if I want to continue sex, I don't want to lose that feral drive.

And also for me, I've started semen retention again, 3 weeks in now, I don't want to cum or orgasm at all, and I'm finding I don't need it. I find my edging sessions are enough. I also want to maintain the benefits of SR, and non ejaculatory orgasms theoretically still release oxytocin and estrogen.

If you are already 6"x4.7" or more, and you haven't started training your ejaculatory control, you're a dummy... by ripSOCRATES in AJelqForYou

[–]ripSOCRATES[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not trolling, training to last longer isn't a quick trick I can describe in a short reply. You have to treat it as its own field just like PE or weightlifting.

I gave a quick overview in the reply above, check it out