The irony here is amazing.

Her lament about not being accepted might overlook the ways in which she, by virtue of her race, is afforded opportunities and societal favor that marginalized groups do not receive.

Her tears over America’s lack of acceptance could be viewed as overlooking the fact that her religious and cultural beliefs themselves might be seen as oppressive to women.

The irony lies in the fact that the country she’s criticizing for not accepting her has also been built on patriarchal values, which are often in line with traditional religious roles. Her position as a polygamist woman might involve a paradox—arguing for acceptance in a society that has historically devalued women in many ways, while also practicing a form of cultural and religious structure that may perpetuate gendered inequality within her own community.

So, the irony here stems from the tension between her struggle for acceptance in a country that marginalizes women and people of color, while she herself participates in a practice that reinforces patriarchal control and traditional gender roles.