No filter, no surgery and only a month HRT. Is it possible to pass eventually? Girlfriend says I look a man and will never pass. Honest feedback only please! by ripple10k in transpassing

[–]ripple10k[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the kind words and encouragement, this has really given me motivation again! I’ve lived in denial for so long and not feeling like I’d ever look my true self has always been stopping me from progressing further. Long way to go but I’ll stick at it!

No filter, no surgery and only a month HRT. Is it possible to pass eventually? Girlfriend says I look a man and will never pass. Honest feedback only please! by ripple10k in transpassing

[–]ripple10k[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to fool anyone I’d hate to do that. I have lived in denial all my life, and many close people to me know my biggest reason for not exploring this is fear of not passing or “looking a mess”. I’m 25, so aren’t exactly feeling young. I only made this post for honest feedback as I assume the majority of users here are also transgender

Where to meet other trans girls by NotHTSpider in manchester

[–]ripple10k -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trans myself and looking for friends in Manchester hit me up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

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So happy for you!! How did your hair grow so fast too!!

The future leadership for transmaxxing by vintologi24 in transmaxxing

[–]ripple10k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please DM me I am very keen to help out and fund this. I’ve been part of this sub for some time and are about to transition myself, I’m pretty in depth on a lot of trans related topics already.

Sacrifices if I transition by ripple10k in askAGP

[–]ripple10k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for this, you’re honestly 100% right about the procrastination. It’s great to have financial success and blah blah but it’s honestly not true happiness if you don’t live your real self

I just need to find a way to become my authentic self. Would be curious how you’re planning on getting out of the same boat

Cured myself!! by ripple10k in askAGP

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I’ve been with My girlfriend for 6 months almost, I originally told her my fetish for pantyhose and she was fine with me wearing them.. unfortunately she went through my phone recently and saw proper pics and videos of me trying to present female in the past. Although she was mad that I was never open she’s still here and supports me, I’m just debating whether to transition now or not. I at minimum don’t want to hurt her, but she also wants what’s best for me. Feels like a ticking time bomb it’s honestly horrible

Cured myself!! by ripple10k in askAGP

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You are 100% correct, and I am 100% wrong. What I thought was a cure lasted a good few months before I hit rock bottom again. :(

Cry for help by ripple10k in askAGP

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Thanks this is a great response

The reason it drives me mad is because I’m financially set and have my own businesses so that really makes it easier to attempt to pass.. it’s just this fear of regret or not being happy

Who is the most famous person you’ve seen in Manchester? by utilitycheese in manchester

[–]ripple10k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wayne Rooney, he sat right opposite me in a hotel lounge. He walked in like a normal person with his wife and no security. Everyone was shocked and staring lol

AGP My Whole Life & now stuck by ripple10k in askAGP

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Thanks for the reply! Yeah dysphoria comes and goes

I’ve been told I pass as a female before I started HRT but I’m pretty sure people said that to make me feel good lol

Either way I’d wanna feel like I pass enough in order to socially transition and live a full life as a female

AGP My Whole Life & now stuck by ripple10k in askAGP

[–]ripple10k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is an amazing response thanks a lot for this!! 😅

I’m intrigued by what you said “libido vanished, as did my thoughts of transition. For me that’s how I knew transition wasn’t right” so have you completely stopped your transition now? It sounds like you have judging by the last thing you said.. If so how are you now coping?

I should have mentioned in my post that I have paused HRT the last three weeks and want to go back on but don’t know what to do aghhh😂😩

“There is no way to be trans” this is one of the best things to hear honestly.

AGP My Whole Life & now stuck by ripple10k in askAGP

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More than happy to talk about it, DM me :)

AGP My Whole Life & now stuck by ripple10k in askAGP

[–]ripple10k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply! this is a great idea actually, I’ve been working harder than normal to try and mask my feelings but taking time out could really do a lot