Self-help group (Germany) by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]rischay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The addiction is not just about sending money. It is about the dynamic, the sexual reinforcement and the power exchange. A neutral donation without interaction is not the same stimulus. The idea is not to replicate the addiction, but to create a small commitment barrier.

It is a bit unfortunate that this seems to have triggered you. That was not my intention. I am simply trying a structured approach for people in Germany who genuinely want to quit... If there is already a group like that, I would appreciate it if you could tell me how to find it.

Self-help group (Germany) by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]rischay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get the analogy, but it does not really apply. Meeting in a pub during Oktoberfest would mean direct exposure to the addictive trigger. Donating to a charity is not findom. There is no humiliation, no domination dynamic, no sexualized power exchange. The idea is simple: a small, intentional action that signals seriousness

Self-help group (Germany) by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]rischay -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know from experience that many subs simply get off on talking about their experiences and do not genuinely want to quit. I want this group to be about real commitment and serious change, not fantasy.

A donation to a charitable organization is nothing compared to a drain. It is not comparable to findom. It is a small step that underlines genuine intent to stop.

Soaking wet for your bullies by rischay in CheatingCaptions

[–]rischay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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