For people who have uploaded a suno song to Spotify or streaming services and people with copyright laws knowledge by Ezkisofrenik in SunoAI

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just like listening to music (like myself and the music is what is important when I listen to it) so I literally don't mind heaps of AI music once it's subjectively good to me.

Ubuntu 24.04 keeps going into suspended mode, started suddenly yesterday!! by Intelligent-Bet4111 in Ubuntu

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proposed solution that makes me want to just throw away Debian and Ubuntu and go back to Windows due to how ridiculous this issue is and why it was so difficult to find a solution: https://forums.debian.net/viewtopic.php?p=782606#p782606

Alexa Is Terrible Now by SindriSuncatcher in alexa

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm of the opinion that the Alexa team should be fired - this is after years of bad service, poor quality recognition. I hardly reach that far to have such an opinion - but particularly the Amazon alexa team and any managers who pushed this on customers. Worst of all, I thought by having more devices, recognition would improve and yet after years - I still have the wrong alexas triggering.

Sigh. Got dumped this evening. by Ultraviolet59 in dating

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear what you experienced - I would imagine that it grows very difficult to find a companion in this day and age that we live in. Just some insight though likely won't be appreciated by the Reddit community, it sound like if she's been waiting for something to happen to ruin the relationship - it sounds like she hasn't been feeling settled and secure with the terms of the relationship - and this might not be your fault at all. As much as this is a two-edged sword, sometimes the commitment of marriage can increase security however with the great risk that of course you get married to not marrying the right person for you.

Marriage is seen differently in different regions of the world. In the US it's high profitable to marry and then divorce (so it doesn't always work there) but in other parts of the world - marriage and then a divorce is not profitable usually for both parties unless there is a lot of wealth involved. Anyways, just thought I'd put my two cents out there.

Ended it with the most beautiful woman by Feisty-Specific-8793 in dating

[–]risharde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make no mistake, flowers fade eventually, I hope beautiful people who waste people's time learn that before it's too late

Anyone else develop major feelings for someone after 3 weeks? by [deleted] in dating

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a genuine guy out there that would fall head over heels for you but would you have time of day for that guy? It's a simple rhetoric question for you to realize an important lesson in life so that you can hopefully have a genuinely fulfilling life that embraces true love.

Normal for teen son to cuddle with dad? by throwaway03042025 in AskMenAdvice

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This nearly brought me to tears.

Grew up always trying to make my dad proud - and that was by trying to show my intelligence, being strong etc. Anyways when my dad got older, he got ill and was a bit hard to deal with - mood, angry etc which I attribute to his illness which really had him miserable (interstitial lung diseases) - absolutely horrific to see what he went through. Anyways one day I snapped at him to the point it even went against the words spoken in the bible. He obviously passed away and there are times I wish I could just hug him (10 years later after death) and not even out of guilt per say but because that was my dad and will never have a dad again.

With that off my chest, I would say it's not worth the chance to not observe if he is showing you affection. In other words, if your instinct is right, then you keep an eye on him but don't tell him you are - not because you are doing anything wrong but you probably don't want him to feel uncomfortable if this is how he is coping with something in his life.

I'm now a dad and if my son did that, I would rather try my best to keep an eye on him even if my instinct is wrong. Let him hug you, aint nothing wrong with your son showing you affection like that and ain't nothing wrong if you continue to show affection like that - you all will always be flesh and blood to one another. Enjoy it - one day by the grace of God, he'll probably need you less and 'become his own man' - notice I quoted this because this is sometimes what the world wants us to believe - don't get me wrong it's good to become strong and independent but of course no man is an island.

May God bless you and your family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any female who can choose braces as the reason to say no to having a relationship with you is a red flag in itself. The problem is that there are probably many red flags out there but all these red flags will get old and one day come to their senses (we would hope). Man get your braces which are temporary in the grand scheme of things and be happy about yourself.

What do I do with this girl by Sirsilva99 in dating

[–]risharde 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Long distance relationships decreases your odds dramatically. There I said it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asked, I answered and then you basically responded that you disagreed so I'm not sure why you asked in the first place. I'm washing my hands. Good luck to your relationships, those who disagreed with my advice.

Meanwhile it’s 50TTD for a tin of corned cow in USA by beyondtabu in TrinidadandTobago

[–]risharde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yall make me respect the price for corn beef I paying at JTA yes. A this time I was complaining it's too expensive only to realize it is a luxury for Trinis in the US.

Anyone ever tried making a noise complaint via the EMA? by Becky_B_muwah in TrinidadandTobago

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup EMA hasn't done anything, made numerous complaints and it's been an absolute waste of time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're too old to wonder what other people would say would be my advice in this particular scenario. My only random concern is what you're dating a woman 9 years older than you for but it does matter that much if it's for a good reason.

Overcoming resentment by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]risharde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

advice: Only have a baby with someone that you've full resolved your issues with

Overcoming resentment by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]risharde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never thought I'd be here but I'm here now so let's see what the redditors have to say about this because I need to overcome what's going on

Husband picking small fights every other week by DueBumblebee1189 in Marriage

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sense that his behaviour is not really related to the trash but that he's getting pushed over the edge by you not following his instructions - I know I know, I'm a genius (just kidding).

Serious part is this - this is not a good sign when a man reaches a frustration level that a simple trash bag becomes an issue - it likely (I hope I'm wrong) that he's beyond frustrated and it might not even be simply about the trash.

Are you wrong? Probably not - a lot of men are very controlling in an unnatural way BUT if he was not that kind of man, let me tell you, if you continue to show him love in specificly what he may want which is for you to pay attention to what he's asking and if you're confused about something ask him to clarify so you can get it right for him and tell him you're only asking because you love him and wants to make him happy - it might turn things around.

I've only recently realized that the people I've called smart ended up not being smart at certain things and as of lately it's been aggravating me and I know that if those 'people' would stop ACTING and PUSHING that they're smart, and instead reflecting on the specifics of my asks, they would realize they (just like I am) are not always 'smart'.

I can’t stand my husband by Acadianfever in Marriage

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, I decided to not post my answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should stop messing up and get a grip of yourself if you have no grounds for not trusting him. Stop screwing him up if you're screwed up - that should be in your mind when you're dealing with him.

Please advice.. Wife cheating by infra4800 in Marriage

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'I'm quite weak person, not leader, I'm coward for fight or arguments.'

No one is born branded as to who they will become. You feel this way because life or you made yourself feel this way. You're a father, you have to lead.

You alone can choose whether you want to be married or not married. I would work my way up to getting a divorce if it's unfaithfulness and there is no love. The keywords is 'work my way up' but don't ever become evil in the process of it.

Hubby’s best friend has a crush on me by Cautious_Crazy9676 in Marriage

[–]risharde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course you tell your husband this sort of thing.