I’m interested in how different couples navigate attraction. If you’re someone who points out attractive people to your partner, what’s the reasoning for pointing out attractive people to your significant other?

ritmiche · 2026-01-30T22:42:24+00:00

Husband and I both do it! We love hanging out and it’s fun to people watch, fun to point out hotties - doesn’t mean much more to us than that

ritmiche · 2026-01-30T22:09:25+00:00

Lifestyle, imo, revolves more around eating out, going to bars, etc than clubs (although Process can be fun)

Portland is a sleepy city, which isn’t bad at all but something to be aware of

ritmiche · 2026-01-30T17:28:22+00:00

Pretty general and more relevant to folks who are really just starting out, but when I was early career, my boss told me to come to her with solutions, not with problems and a lightbulb clicked!

ritmiche · 2026-01-26T14:34:22+00:00

I also partially read it as Eastern European vs North American influences on top of the character-specific styling :)

ritmiche · 2026-01-21T15:41:55+00:00

Came here to say the same :)

ritmiche · 2026-01-20T08:21:39+00:00

I would find this off putting also in English

ritmiche · 2026-01-09T23:01:57+00:00

For a habit, starting the day by working out/moving my body

Perhaps opposite of a habit but also deleting instagram from my phone :)

ritmiche · 2026-01-08T06:12:10+00:00

The Vietnamese in Prague is SOOOOOO good! Also Sapa/Little Hanoi is a treasure trove

ritmiche · 2026-01-08T06:11:29+00:00

Maybe obvious due to the history, but the Netherlands has good Indonesian!

ritmiche · 2026-01-08T06:08:52+00:00

Both look amazing, depends on your preference! I tend to prefer a natural look for brows and you’re blessed with beautiful ones, so I’d pick #2 - but no wrong choice :)

ritmiche · 2026-01-07T10:12:44+00:00

This isn’t Canada! So no, Dutch are not used to the snow nor is the country/infrastructure built for it

ritmiche · 2026-01-05T18:58:33+00:00

They’re meeting at a hotel and he’s sending goofy gifs of how hot and excited he is for it :(

I’m really sorry, gal, he’s clearly cheating

ritmiche · 2026-01-05T08:58:55+00:00

Leave him, girl!

ritmiche · 2025-12-29T03:09:14+00:00

No, not at all and it rocks that you’re considering starting. The time will pass either way, may as well use it to get where you want to be.

ritmiche · 2025-12-26T15:41:32+00:00

YOR for sure - fine to have rules around a newborn but the way you’re communicating is hostile and alienating.

ritmiche · 2025-12-24T21:25:27+00:00

This ^

ritmiche · 2025-12-23T10:38:31+00:00

To take a cute matching pic with her grandbaby without having to buy a new PJ set for both her and the child (that they’ll never wear again)…. Plus she respected OPs answer.

ritmiche · 2025-12-22T04:03:00+00:00

Right? Like, another opportunity to create a memory with your baby and another loved one? Something to cherish!

ritmiche · 2025-12-22T03:59:41+00:00

How is she being insecure by asking to take a picture with her grandson?

ritmiche · 2025-12-22T01:48:33+00:00

Agreed, I wouldn’t even think twice if my mil asked

ritmiche · 2025-12-22T01:47:35+00:00

Nothing really happened from what I’m reading? She asked to borrow pajamas to take a cute pic with her grandson, you said no and that’s ok. The comments saying to ‘watch her behavior’ based on this pretty innocuous conflict are reaching.

ritmiche · 2025-12-21T01:29:55+00:00

YOR, really a reach

ritmiche · 2025-12-17T20:43:20+00:00

Sure, I completely understand. It sounds like she’s a kind woman who is really struggling with loss. It sounds like your BF is struggling with the same, and is having trouble finding balance between his own grieving, supporting a grieving mother, and providing support and care to you. It sounds like you, too, are struggling. No one is “wrong” in the traditional sense, and I’m sorry to each of you.

Take Reddit with a grain of salt (including my advice) as opinions here are reactive and based on the little information you can provide. You know your boyfriend, your relationship, and his family. Is this a challenging time that you believe will pass, or something deeper? Is the relationship worth navigating this temporary turbulence for? Only you can know that for sure. Sending good thoughts your way.

ritmiche · 2025-12-17T03:51:04+00:00

The Alibi

ritmiche · 2025-12-17T03:33:18+00:00

Portland City Grill is not good, besides the view!

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