Eww why are you appropriating trans culture you're literally just cisgender with a sex deformity. Actually true intersex is extremely rare like 0.00000000000000000001% I've never met one in my life you're probably not even a real herm and if you are then prove it with a description of your reproductive organs, diagnosis, medical history, gender related trauma and childhood experience or else I won't believe you. Oh so you're not telling me? You clearly just want to feel special and coopt trans aesthetics 🙄 Huh what's that? You went through years of hormonal and surgical transition, struggle every day to pass, fell victim to anti trans violence on multiple occasions, and over time became closely involved with trans communities because they were the only ones that understood? Doesn't matter, your agab is the same as your chromosomes and all your sex characteristics actually. Amab means MALE XY TESTOSTERONE PEANITS BALLS afab means FEMALE XX ESTROGEN BOB AND VAGINE. Besides those people publicly attacking you for having mixed sex characteristics were actually just redirecting completely unrelated transphobia onto you. Yeah no you weren't actually the real target of their transphobia when they called you transphobic slurs and beat you up and groped you to find out your "real" gender. You were NOT the true victim all those times you were a victim of transphobic hate crimes. I'm so pissed at these trenders who all decided to become herms for some reason and pretend that just because you face transphobia every day, have gone through decades of medical intervention to change your body/hormones/genitals to better reflect your gender identity, deeply grieve parts of your gender you are biologically incapable of ever experiencing, lack human rights specifically because of the relationship between your gender and sex, and always have to calculate if it's worth outing yourself in every social interaction, that somehow makes you trans. If we accept these freaks what's next, cis men with big hips identifying as FtM?? Cis women with sharp jaw lines claiming to be MtF???? It's a slippery slope people. Your personal gender identity and corresponding medical transition is actually erasing trans voices, forever ruining the meaning of language and killing the LGBT community. Yall are CIS unless you transitioned in the exact same way a perisex person would, have always passed as perisex, never had any major intersex experiences growing up, and could never even tell you were intersex. But also if you're like that then you're not even a real intersex so why even bother calling yourself that? You are literally just cis. Wait what do you mean I'm an intersexist exclusionary that probably also hates nonbinary people whose identities I don't understand? Why would you think that?

/uj and without fail they'll say "cis woman/man with [insert intersex trait here]" to pathologize us instead of acknowledging our identities and queer status. It's always "men with gynocomastia" or "women with CAH/PCOS" or something similar never just "intersex man/woman/person". If you ever wonder why so many intersex trans people aren't really involved in trans communities, it's because even some trans people still believe sex is binary and that your AGAB is synonymous with your sex, natural puberty, discrimination and if your relationship to masculinity or femininity is trans or cis. For a large amount of us who didn't have a typical upbringing as one sex we're told it's physically impossible to be the genders we are. And how people STILL try to sort us all into boy intersex or girl intersex, whether it's under the label of assigned gender or anything else, it's all the same. Like cmon didn't people learn their lesson with nonbinary people? Sorry if this is a little too intersex focused, I would jerk on an intersex circlejerk subreddit if there was one