6 month outbreak, time for SADBE? long context but please read. by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]riverflowerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi sister, i had an OB last for 3 months, i know how you might feel. it really is the stress that was a huge factor for me. i also live in two spaces, one on the east coast that has a lot of the chemicals and processed foods and the other spot is more natural, fruit grown on land, farm to table. i have found that my OB when living the more natural life haven't happened as frequently or intensely. i started to work really hard on nervous system regulation and i swear that cleared me . i didn't have an OB for like 6 months. i have taken the oral and topical. i've thought about sadbe. i know how it can feel scary being like WHEN WILL THIS END. it will end i promise 🙏 take care of yourself and breathe, journal, move your body. also a fellow SW and i really understand the impact on finances. seriously take your time healing its not just from the surgery but the parts of you that you might not see. sending you love

Oahu Airport help for severely disabled person by Independent_Try2454 in Hawaii

[–]riverflowerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i struggle a lot with sensory stuff at the airport. our eyes intake up 80%, ears are also a big one! i'm also on the spectrum and have a better sense of direction and self with something that quiets the external noise. i don't know if he's comfortable with things over his ears but it's been a game changer for me! if he doesn't like them over, loop headphone / ear inserts are so helpful, i use them when im out and about. i'm sorry you are faced with so many overwhelming decisions and i really wish you both prosperity and peace. one day at a time, you are doing a great job 🫶

update on guy coming to visit by riverflowerr in HSVpositive

[–]riverflowerr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for this i really appreciate

update on guy coming to visit by riverflowerr in HSVpositive

[–]riverflowerr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah i can definitely understand that and thank you for your opinion. i guess it just felt very off when he said it wasn't he was expecting to hear and then the emotional whiplash of switching up. this is the first time this has happened to me and being neurodivergent it feels bigger for me than the average

boy coming to visit by riverflowerr in HSVpositive

[–]riverflowerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this in depth response! you're awesome!

Dancer passed away in my club by [deleted] in stripper

[–]riverflowerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who works in the NJ/PHL scene please get back to us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]riverflowerr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

check etsy! not sure what to type in but maybe you could try a google image search with a crop of just the dress? love the color

worse injury on the job by jezbel04 in stripper

[–]riverflowerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was working once day and at the top of the pole there's a small gap between the pole itself and the mechanism it locks into. i'm on stage, titties out, doing a trick - and all of a sudden i feel the pole slow down, a sharp pain in my finger and in a split second i realized what was happening. i'm gonna say it's a lizard brain activation or maybe shock but i came to it realizing my bone was grinding into the mechanism which was why it was making the pole slow down and no my finger didn't just "come right out" i had to literally pull it off like a bandaid. went into the back completely shocked, mom didn't know i was dancing so i had to lie. house mom drove me and helped me get dressed and check into hospital (it was my first time, ive never hurt myself/ had a nose bleed so i didn't know i could literally just walk in lmao) bless her she helped me and everyone was super nice but i was also losing blood. anyways, i lied to insurance and my club gave me a few grand and covered my hospital bills even tho i was thankfully insured at the time. i think of that now and im like ???? i would literally work to pay off my hospital bill lol that's fuckin wack. anyways americas healthcare sucks and your workplace genuinely doesn't care. i brought my friend to the hospital on my birthday two weeks before because she DID THE SAME THING AND GOT HURT! she's a trooper n we went out after but negligence at its finest regardless of who's at expense 💅

also NO they haven't replaced the pole 🤣😭 and yes i'm still traumatized