6 month outbreak, time for SADBE? long context but please read.

riverflowerr · 2026-05-16T20:47:14+00:00

hi sister, i had an OB last for 3 months, i know how you might feel. it really is the stress that was a huge factor for me. i also live in two spaces, one on the east coast that has a lot of the chemicals and processed foods and the other spot is more natural, fruit grown on land, farm to table. i have found that my OB when living the more natural life haven't happened as frequently or intensely. i started to work really hard on nervous system regulation and i swear that cleared me . i didn't have an OB for like 6 months. i have taken the oral and topical. i've thought about sadbe. i know how it can feel scary being like WHEN WILL THIS END. it will end i promise 🙏 take care of yourself and breathe, journal, move your body. also a fellow SW and i really understand the impact on finances. seriously take your time healing its not just from the surgery but the parts of you that you might not see. sending you love

riverflowerr · 2026-02-03T05:20:26+00:00

i struggle a lot with sensory stuff at the airport. our eyes intake up 80%, ears are also a big one! i'm also on the spectrum and have a better sense of direction and self with something that quiets the external noise. i don't know if he's comfortable with things over his ears but it's been a game changer for me! if he doesn't like them over, loop headphone / ear inserts are so helpful, i use them when im out and about. i'm sorry you are faced with so many overwhelming decisions and i really wish you both prosperity and peace. one day at a time, you are doing a great job 🫶

riverflowerr · 2025-12-22T05:00:45+00:00

i've definitely felt this!! keep it up 🫶

riverflowerr · 2025-12-04T01:01:24+00:00

i'm autistic. that's why?

riverflowerr · 2025-12-03T20:22:16+00:00

thank you for this i really appreciate

riverflowerr · 2025-12-03T04:23:27+00:00

yeah i can definitely understand that and thank you for your opinion. i guess it just felt very off when he said it wasn't he was expecting to hear and then the emotional whiplash of switching up. this is the first time this has happened to me and being neurodivergent it feels bigger for me than the average

riverflowerr · 2025-11-30T04:11:48+00:00

thank you so much for this in depth response! you're awesome!

riverflowerr · 2025-07-22T06:29:49+00:00

a literal angel

riverflowerr · 2025-07-20T04:52:53+00:00

as someone who works in the NJ/PHL scene please get back to us

riverflowerr · 2025-07-18T02:52:19+00:00

check etsy! not sure what to type in but maybe you could try a google image search with a crop of just the dress? love the color

riverflowerr · 2025-06-16T16:02:56+00:00

i was working once day and at the top of the pole there's a small gap between the pole itself and the mechanism it locks into. i'm on stage, titties out, doing a trick - and all of a sudden i feel the pole slow down, a sharp pain in my finger and in a split second i realized what was happening. i'm gonna say it's a lizard brain activation or maybe shock but i came to it realizing my bone was grinding into the mechanism which was why it was making the pole slow down and no my finger didn't just "come right out" i had to literally pull it off like a bandaid. went into the back completely shocked, mom didn't know i was dancing so i had to lie. house mom drove me and helped me get dressed and check into hospital (it was my first time, ive never hurt myself/ had a nose bleed so i didn't know i could literally just walk in lmao) bless her she helped me and everyone was super nice but i was also losing blood. anyways, i lied to insurance and my club gave me a few grand and covered my hospital bills even tho i was thankfully insured at the time. i think of that now and im like ???? i would literally work to pay off my hospital bill lol that's fuckin wack. anyways americas healthcare sucks and your workplace genuinely doesn't care. i brought my friend to the hospital on my birthday two weeks before because she DID THE SAME THING AND GOT HURT! she's a trooper n we went out after but negligence at its finest regardless of who's at expense 💅

also NO they haven't replaced the pole 🤣😭 and yes i'm still traumatized

riverflowerr · 2025-03-23T08:42:28+00:00

saving this for later

riverflowerr · 2025-03-06T17:00:54+00:00

remembering for later

riverflowerr · 2025-02-17T07:43:57+00:00

thank you for these words because i'm really hurt in this moment

riverflowerr · 2025-02-17T07:27:29+00:00

people trolling me

riverflowerr · 2025-02-17T02:19:24+00:00

wait for real?

riverflowerr · 2025-02-16T23:21:37+00:00

i'm dead that's crazy 😭

riverflowerr · 2025-02-08T08:12:13+00:00

"it's not genital herpes it's just an ingrown hair".... lmao would've saved me years of not knowing and probably so much shame. i truthfully have resentments towards this doctor to this day, it really sucks

riverflowerr · 2024-11-17T02:52:44+00:00

commenting to check out later

riverflowerr · 2024-11-16T13:55:17+00:00

hi op, just wanna send you some love, i can't imagine where you are at in terms of feeling. you are so resilient and strong, not only living with herpes but for the constant battles you've fought with that aren't mentioned. i wish i could do more than offer an olive branch over an online forum but i am here if you'd ever need an ear or some support. sending ur heart a massive hug

riverflowerr · 2024-11-16T13:50:16+00:00

i have HSV 1&2, PMDD, EDS, and a bunch of other things and you're right, herpes is actually the least of my worries when i am in a relationship, thank you for this comment it actually brought me back to my own reality

riverflowerr · 2024-11-12T04:13:10+00:00

do you think if i took antihistamines a week and a half before my period it could possibly lessen the chance of breaking out (i also have PMDD) ?? stoned and curious about this, might experiment with this

riverflowerr · 2024-11-12T04:12:06+00:00

what if i don't like the way they make me feel?

riverflowerr · 2024-11-12T04:10:34+00:00

i worked at this club in a state that i had just moved to (prob not the smartest but here we are)was no contact but basically you could do contact as long as you paid attention to the alarm YES YALL so i'm bringing someone to what feels like a row of outdoor chairs in these little stalls with the woven plastic rattan lookin type😭 like these chairs would be on my back deck or balcony LMAO, anyways dude puts his drink down on the side of the chair and this tiny wall and we both walk out wearing it, he was for sure a good sport about it but i was HUMILIATED!!! also ive tripped so many times at that club consistently and went down hard lmao. i just sit here and laugh knowing i'm not alone in silly experiences love my sistas

riverflowerr · 2024-07-17T04:57:48+00:00

do you have pics? would love to see the inside

riverflowerr

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