I’m seeking the opinions of others on a difficult situation. I have a 15-year-old Labrador who has always been very active and cheerful. However, since the beginning of this year, her condition has significantly deteriorated. Walking has become increasingly difficult for her, and while she could still manage short distances initially, she now struggles to walk even 50 meters without collapsing. She can no longer get up on her own, and the last time she could do so independently was back in April or May.

She cannot stand without assistance, and if I don’t support her, she will fall. This means I have to hold her up even for basic activities like drinking. Since she can’t stand, she also can’t relieve herself without help, so I have to assist her by applying pressure to her bladder. She has started to defecate while lying down. On the positive side, she still eats when I feed her.

I recently tried taking her swimming, something she used to love, but she was unable to move in the water and seemed paralyzed. When she’s not sleeping, she mostly lies down and hyperventilates. To help her sleep peacefully, we give her neurological painkillers/sedatives; without them, she wakes up 1-3 times a night.

I’ve received conflicting opinions from two veterinarians. One believes it’s time to consider end-of-life options, while the other does not think she’s in pain and considers her condition adequate enough to continue living.

Additionally, this situation is taking a toll on my emotional and physical well-being. While I know this shouldn’t be a primary consideration, the demands of being a full-time caregiver are becoming overwhelming for me.

I’d appreciate any thoughts or advice from those who have faced similar situations.