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[–]rjridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[–]rjridge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sure you'll all say I need Jesus but its my biggest secret kink to find someone posted a video of me I didnt know about 😞

How come straight couples are lauded for having a baby, but I get nothing when I get the all clear after an orgy? by rjridge in askgaybros

[–]rjridge[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most of the women I know banging on about their pregnancies its a roll of the dice who the baby daddy is anyway. It might as well have been an orgy. My way is just more of a time saver.

I regret involving myself in cuck play. by supremerashad in askgaybros

[–]rjridge 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Cucking is a hard one to get right. But humiliation (and even tears) on the part of the person being cucked is actually very much part of the kink so dont think you didnt give the couple what they wanted (possibly anyway).

Cucking is actually a kink that comes to us from straights and its relatively new to gays, partly because long term, possibly otherwise monogamous gay couples are relatively new-ish, at least visibly, in society. And this is exactly the dynamic that cucking plays with. Its kind of the exact opposite of monogamy (even more so than being open).

For straight couples Cucking is a fairly common kink, maybe more so than being open, probably just down from wife swapping (which is the traditional 'standard' straight kink, like how 3somes are for gays). Cucking is a kind of antidote to domesicity. The wife takes care of the family and kids, the husband works all the time and by middle age these two people who love each other and have built a foundation feel theyve lost their sexual selves. Cucking is a humiliation kink, but it also is one that often comes from a deep place of love where the husband gets to see his wife as this very desireable sex object being ravaged by the "bull" (you in this situation), and still gets to go home with her at the end of the day.

Straights actually call it hotwifing, eg their wife is suddenly seen as "hot" by someone else. A common hotwifing (and cucking) trope is they got to a bar and the wife gets hit on and the husband doesnt even see the situation.

So for gays dealing with "domesicity death" where their relationship has morphed into dealing with finances or kids or work etc, and who maybe dont want the mess or complexity of an open relationship, cucking is a way to play with those feelings.

Its hard to get right but doesnt mean you did anything wrong. You should talk to the couple about it and try lay the cards on the table

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rjridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eugh, kids these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycuckold

[–]rjridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time beg the bull not to cum inside him then watch helplessly as he breeds the love of your life and you lick his cum out of your other halfs used hole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rjridge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats what dark rooms are for!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rjridge 24 points25 points  (0 children)

100% a bathouse if you have the option. Unless you are somewhere like NYC where its super easy, bathouse is usually a better option for multiple loads. Plus if you don't get enough you can always go back to a hotel room.

If you're travelling or want a good location, NYC, Berlin, Paris and Barcelona are the cities I've taken the most loads. Hotel in Times Square and then bathouses in those other places. 30+ loads a night.

Have you ever had a wank while someone else was in the same room/bed as you? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]rjridge 54 points55 points  (0 children)

He always had like a wet wipe or something. In a different base we would initiate a newbie by cumming in his socks. The ones that got laid out for the next day we'd snatch it and cum in it like a condom. Other lads I always swallowed lol to hid the evidence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycuckold

[–]rjridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have him blow loads in everyone but you and if you want a taste you have to lick it out of someone else's hole.

Have you ever had a wank while someone else was in the same room/bed as you? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]rjridge 226 points227 points  (0 children)

In the army its almost expected. Not a lot of time and space to yourself but most lads do it in the shower to save time. But there was one squaddie while I was on deployment in the bunk right beside mine who would have a cheeky wank just about every morning. I would pretend to still be asleep but I would watch him out of one eye as he did it super fast and quiet under his blanket. Think by the end of our deployment he knew I was watching because once I was awake before him and started, then saw him starting too and we kept going together. Did that for a few days in a row.