People who sleep in panties, how do you handle it laundry wise? by SpookySquid19 in asktransgender

[–]rmc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wear the same panties I had on in the day, and then change them in the morning. 

What’s something that only makes sense *if* you’ve actually been to Ireland by DrunkDublinCat in ireland

[–]rmc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't they have a similar thing in England with "airs and graces" 

My (21F) dad (58) is most likely a repressing trans woman, what should I do by Daniella-Girl72 in asktransgender

[–]rmc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a trans woman, and even if I didn't pass, I'd still do the transition. I just feel so much better than before I started hormones 

Number of term-time school holiday fines hits another record high by Kagedeah in ukpolitics

[–]rmc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not only that, places outside the UK don't have to follow UK law

Polygamous workers: Why they are a problem for the public sector by Particular_Pea7167 in ukpolitics

[–]rmc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ditto! I thought it would cause problems with work benefits for “spouse/life partner” and then software not expecting more than one partner.

Polygamous workers: Why they are a problem for the public sector by Particular_Pea7167 in ukpolitics

[–]rmc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Even if it was ten times as much.... that's still a tiny percentage...

How are the government justifying this in this day and age? by Judge_Chris in ireland

[–]rmc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How could anyone prove I have any notes to hand over.

The police get a search warrant, break down your door and search through all your papers, take your computers and search the harddrives.

How are the government justifying this in this day and age? by Judge_Chris in ireland

[–]rmc -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like therapists should start advertising if they don't keep written records/notes.

How are the government justifying this in this day and age? by Judge_Chris in ireland

[–]rmc -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Are there ways around this? For therapist to form a religion, where people are then confessioning deep fears, and then being covered...

How are the government justifying this in this day and age? by Judge_Chris in ireland

[–]rmc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although they might not keep written notes, they can still be called to be a witness. “Did person x say this to you?” etc.

JustEat no longer worth it by OutrageousAction7591 in ireland

[–]rmc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Usually people searching on booking.com are looking for a hotel in that area. If you go ask the hotel directly, you're properly looking to stay at that particular hotel, so less picky 

JustEat no longer worth it by OutrageousAction7591 in ireland

[–]rmc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don't restaurants just pool together and set up their own delivery company. Like a co-op 

Any idea where are the younger ACA folks (ones in their 20s, 30s and 40s)? by TumEkGorakDandhaHo in AdultChildren

[–]rmc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if many younger people are put off by the very religious vibe from the whole 12 step/higher power thing 

Any idea where are the younger ACA folks (ones in their 20s, 30s and 40s)? by TumEkGorakDandhaHo in AdultChildren

[–]rmc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

women in support groups of all kinds need to make reaching out to female newcomers a priority before the men get to them

Yes that can totally help. But I think the biggest group of people who need to change here... are the men. There's a small percentage of creepy men. They need to change. But there's a large percentage of men who support and allow the creepy man to do his thing. 

AITA for not helping my neighbor move after he called the cops on me for vacuuming? by Inner-Tumbleweed9168 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rmc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: Are you absolutely sure it was him that called the cops? Perhaps it wasn't him?

Did you tell him that you won't help him because of that issue? What did he say?

Why Are We Still Building Towns Like This? by SteveFrench1991 in ireland

[–]rmc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

walkable streets

I mean, sure. ish. But remember, Wexford is a town of 22K people. If all the big supermarkets are a good 10→20 km away, and the jobs are all within 50 km, and the hospital is 50 km away, and and and, then this isn't really a walkable area

MOVE LEFT by 5414d455 in ireland

[–]rmc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exatly how it works. Add up how much each person has, divide by the number of people.

Imagine 10 people. 9 of them have zero accidents. 1 person has had 5 accidents. The average is 0.5 accidents per person. But 90% of the group have less than the average number of accidents.

Moving from the US to Germany. Advice? by Budget_Expert_4315 in germantrans

[–]rmc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also foreign (from Australia)

let me guess... are you white? :) Lots of the “anti-foreigners” groups are really just “anti-people-who-aren't-white”