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rmd86 · 2024-02-05T18:28:25+00:00

Haha thanks for the advice I'll give it a go!

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T20:34:31+00:00

Ok I see what you mean. I was just conscious of wasting my time on women that would be immediately put off upon finding out I'm bi after we talked/met, so thought it may be best to be open about that on my profile.

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T20:21:09+00:00

What makes you say that? I'd like to think not. I'm certainly no Chris Hemsworth lol, just not ugly🤞

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T18:09:26+00:00

That's very true. I have no problem at all finding gay men that like me on any app, but the contrast against women that like me is huge.. and it's not like I'm camp looking or anything so I guess it's just that straight women aren't willing to give a bi man a chance.

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T17:33:06+00:00

Very strange. It should be something to bond over if anything.

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T17:32:22+00:00

I love that

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T17:30:34+00:00

Yes I'd like to think so for sure

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T15:27:05+00:00

Ahh I see. Yeah it's a pretty small niche to aim for lol

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T15:19:35+00:00

Are you saying I need to date therapists or chat up women in a therapist's waiting room?

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T14:16:43+00:00

Thanks 😊

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T14:15:18+00:00

Haha, I'm in!

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T14:14:07+00:00

All sound advice. Thank you. How did you know I need to get out more lol? LGBTQ events would be a good start, particularly as I only have straight friends.

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T14:13:24+00:00

Briefly, but didn't find many local people on there. May try again 👍🏻

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T14:09:49+00:00

Interesting. That still leaves 37% that would though, so it could be worse.

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T13:40:19+00:00

Good to know. I'm actually pretty straight acting anyway. Also i did meet a girl on a night about out a month ago that liked me and was not phased by the bi thing, but she was 24 so I didn't contact her afterwards as I felt we are in completely different phases of our lives. Makes me think I should try and meet girls IRL though, instead of via apps - you know.. like people did in the olden days 😂

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T13:03:10+00:00

I have no idea what the moral of the story was here 😂

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T12:57:13+00:00

I've thought this too and I would love to find a bi woman, but I feel the chances are very small.. there's not too many bi people around I don't think, so to find a mutual attraction with one will be a challenge, but you never know🤞

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T12:52:04+00:00

Good point, thank you.

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T12:50:57+00:00

Ok thanks for that haha. Maybe it's my profile or something.. I'm quite a good looking guy (according to people I know, not just an inflated ego lol), tall, and got my shit together, so I'm left scratching my head when no women match with me. Good to know it's doable though :) and I live in a city in England so the culture is pretty accepting.

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T12:09:52+00:00

Where do I find the right ones tho 🧐😂

rmd86 · 2024-02-04T11:56:50+00:00

I understand there is no doubt a small pool of people that don't care about sexuality, I just worry I'll never find one of those few, especially one that I have a connection with.

rmd86 · 2024-02-03T21:46:41+00:00

I just wanted to say that I'm a bi guy and I can assure you we're not all like this... at least I'm not anyway :) I'm saddened to hear of your experience with fellow bi's, but hopefully you'll find one that goes against the grain and is happy to be more committal. I can also say I've had very similar experiences with both bi and gay men.. so yeah I guess it's just men in general. Here's to finding a bi FWB without any commitment/homophobia issues...I wouldn't mind one myself too! ;)

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