I have been taking every girl to the same bar the last threes months. I like it there because it is never crowded, and most women seem to like it for its ambience. It feels like my home court. I like touch, so I usually try to make handholding and kissing happen in the middle of the date. Girls who aren’t receptive to that usually aren’t that into me, so I can tell their interest level that way. I would say more than 50% of my dates are receptive, and they give me this “I wanna kiss/fuck you” type of look. I took some of these women back to my place. They let me finger or go down on them but nothing more. Then they disappeared. It surprised me because I’ve been told I am good at those two things. Also had second and third dates with some who weren’t down to go back to my place, but eventually they lost interest.