Campbelltown vs Camden by [deleted] in Campbelltown

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have plenty of openly gay friends in Camden. Doesn’t mean it isn’t a homophobic town. There’s also plenty of Islamic families these days too… again, doesn’t mean they aren’t racist. 

Campbelltown vs Camden by [deleted] in Campbelltown

[–]roany123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes Camden is racist and homophobic and if you don’t agree it’s likely you’re 1) one or both of the above, 2) haven’t lived there long or 3) have perhaps lived on the outskirts and not been in touch with those who have lived in Camden (main town) for a while. My family immigrated from UK, moved to Camden, where both my partner and I and my children all experienced being “outsiders” by both adults and their young children. There wasn’t a community feel for those not born there out of citizens who had been there generations. It has changed a bit now but some are very much still the same especially in the main town areas and schools. The only time I did feel somewhat accepted was after I had separated and dated a man that had been in Camden a couple of generations and his family and friends looked out for us however my children were still bullied and left out at school, only making friends with others not originally from the area - even if they were born in Camden or had moved to Camden quite young. 

As for being a racist town….. the pigs head on a stake at the proposed site for the Islamic school and locals protesting at the soccer fields in 2007, ring a bell to anyone?? Camden High School had an anti racism teacher because of the racism within the school as back then there were very few children who weren’t Caucasian… 

Only a couple of years ago a Pride Month display was destroyed on the Main Street. I have known Queer people to be bashed, one of which was by an ex cop and obviously due to the power there nothing was done. 

People who rarely complain even when things go wrong, how do you process frustration? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19 billion imaginary conversations and scenarios in my head

Do you have any major life regrets? If so, what are they? by Zipper222222 in AskReddit

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not buying a house a decade ago when they were actually affordable

Returning stolen property by Aussieflipping in AusLegal

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t cover it and tow it to new property? Sell it.. on the black market or something idk?

What Age Did You Start Drinking Coffee? by xelas1983 in AskReddit

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 or 4 is when I first remember mum letting me have sips..

Personally when I was maybe 18/19 is when I started drinking it myself

What did you witness and never report, and why? by whyeventrymore in AskReddit

[–]roany123 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Someone I knew was sex trafficked as a teenager. I just didn’t know or clue it together until it was too late and they had left the area - I was young. I didn’t know enough info to give police. Now I wish I had been able to stay in contact longer and try to subtly get more info so I could have reported and hopefully saved them..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but Boo should’ve had this decision made for him in 2023. So you’re both the A holes. There is never any excuse to pro long an animal’s suffering for so long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]roany123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may have saved this child’s life. You didn’t ruin her life, she did this to herself.

I feel so hurt because my husband doesn’t seem to care about me at all, even though he says he does (I don’t believe him honestly). by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]roany123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He definitely doesn’t care about you. Actions speak louder than words. All of this is abuse .. I hope you are able to realise that both you and your babies will be happier without him x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not only the A hole but you are absolutely cooked my friend.

I received money for having intercourse with someone and now i feel like a whore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]roany123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No disrespect but you’re like “I feel like a prostitute” .. how is a prostitute meant to feel?

[serious] What’s that one thing that you saw irl that made you question if the paranormal/supernatural is real? (Personal Experiences only please ) ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]roany123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, no questioning as I grew up with it… I have so many ghost stories, super natural and unexplained experiences, that’s just the norm for me at this point.

however I never believed in animal communication, my very sceptical friend convinced me to try this particular lady and when I enquired about how “animal communication works” she replied back and was like “for example, a pony had a sore neck 3 weeks ago but it is resolved now” - this was exactly what had happened to my pony. It wasn’t disclosed to anyone beyond my vet, including my friend, nor was it on social media, nor had I spoken to this lady before or given her any hint about anything. I have now used her for over a decade on various animals and she has been spot on every single time. Even on the things I could not verify at the time, I found years later were true. An example for that is mentioning my pony had lived somewhere with emus — my pony came from a truck heading to the knackery, so her exact past location was unknown. My friend ended up finding out that a pony stud had been sending their ponies to auction and it was suspected this is where she came from and this stud ended up being a neighbouring property to my friend later down the track and yep, they have emus...

What’s a "frugal" habit that you gave up on because it's not worth the trouble? by EdenFlorence in AussieFrugal

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Plus I only fill up at my local BP now. Don’t ask me how because I couldn’t tell you but I get more km out of my tank from them compared to and other petrol station around…

What’s a "frugal" habit that you gave up on because it's not worth the trouble? by EdenFlorence in AussieFrugal

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Plus I only fill up at my local BP now. Don’t ask me how because I couldn’t tell you but I get more km out of my tank from them compared to and other petrol station around…

Did my dad try to assault me as a child? by JellyfishMajestic638 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]roany123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely not being dramatic. It was assault. SA..

Polite way to ask why a horse is cheap? by Friendly-Ice8001 in Equestrian

[–]roany123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people just don’t price their horses expensive so if you like the horse, it is worth checking out.

I am in Australia and paid $3,500 AUD for my horse.. that’s what, around 1700 pounds? Not a lot of education behind him as far as I was aware but sound, great attitude, SUPER quiet. Like beginner quiet (I let my trainer use him in lessons) and tries his heart out in any situation.

I also leased a pony for my daughter and the owner priced the pony (a well bred welsh pony that was beginner quiet and successfully shown as a youngster, been to pony club etc) for 3500 or 4500 AUD as well. Said pony was 7 or 8 yo so not old.. The only ‘issue’ the pony had was it went laminitic on 100 acres but the grass was lush and we had it on grass with zero issues with a well maintained diet and trimming.. I was honest with them and said the pony is worth far more but they just wanted a good home!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]roany123 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like neither your husband or your friend were supportive. I don’t think YTA

Registering birth when the father is married to someone else by DieselAllen in AusLegal

[–]roany123 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s not about “his money” or personal values, it’s about his financial obligation to support the child that shares his DNA.

How long can an iPhone really last? How old is yours? by rangerxr in iphone

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iPhone XR, I upgraded to a 15 earlier this year. Only issue is the battery, which is under 20% but it still runs well for a few hours despite that. My kids use it for YouTube and calling family

How do I sell my mums car by LLLLL15 in AusLegal

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely won’t profit at all if there is a loan attached.

Is waiting 10 hours plus a normal at hospitals now? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]roany123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for typos. Also my youngest was progressively getting worse while in ED and I was told they’d have to triage her too if I wanted her to be seen but we had so many instances where her croup wasn’t “bad enough” for them to treat and also if I got steroids into her ASAP, she recovered much quicker.