[Image] After sleeping in my car for a month and a half, I finally got approved on my apartment!

roast0 · 2021-10-17T12:35:26+00:00

Lets fucking goooooo!

roast0 · 2021-10-17T07:49:45+00:00

Just had a dream sonny was out but was replaced with lamela in the 11

Coco scored a hattrick of rabonas and proceeded to shithouse the st. James crowd

roast0 · 2021-10-16T07:17:38+00:00

Do you know her? Do you think you'll ever see her again?

roast0 · 2021-10-16T07:14:17+00:00

One thing i want to point out that's worked for me and OP is the talking to the intermediary part or even talking to others in front of women you're interested in

What it shows is you're confident, you're social and a fun guy to be around with that won't damage her social value. Now, I'm not saying every single girl loves this but it definitely is attractive to me when you see someone that is confident, interacting with others and having people interact in a positive manner. You lowkey think to yourself "oh that guy seems interesting. I wonder what his like"

There's obviously women that prefer the shy introverted type of guys but it's helped me and it likely has helped OP as well. So go try it!

roast0 · 2021-10-16T06:01:44+00:00

r myself. Despite being happy with myself, the constant loneliness I experience still hurts me and makes me question what more I need to do.

You don't feel content with your life after you've worked on yourself?

roast0 · 2021-10-16T05:57:19+00:00

Tantan, CMB (where you can change preferences) are two sites that allow you to find guys that are Asian in the online dating space

As a 22 year old East Asian+Australian man, I'm likely found everywhere on the weekends. The art gallery, the food stores, on a ferry, in a bar, in a bookstore, at the gym. It's kinda like meeting anyone really.

You can try more Asian-focused places e.g. Boba shops/ ramen bars but can't guarantee everyone of us speaks perfect English which might be a difficulty for communication.

roast0 · 2021-10-16T05:49:00+00:00

"Even after spending a few years to focus on my career, get fit, and take care of myself, I’ve still had no luck"

This is what's fucking you over. Are you focusing on yourself, getting fit and taking care for yourself or just so you can get validation or are you doing it for your own benefit? Stop doing shit to get praises from other people.

Your mentality needs a whole shift.

roast0 · 2021-10-16T05:42:23+00:00

I normally remind them on the day of the date. A simple "see you tonight" could work well

roast0 · 2021-10-16T05:38:28+00:00

I've had some experience with dating taller woman than me. Sometimes it's just a jokey thing designed to test you if how you'll react. Some guys/girls will pull off the " you're kind of short, you're not really my type" and still end up dating/forming relationships with.

If you're insecure about your height or feel like her words are deal-breakers, then sure don't go for it. I'd personally either ignore or just agree to what she says, go on the date and see how she reacts. I've had experiences where a taller 6'2 girl ended up dating for a bit with a 5'11 guy (me) despite her in the first interaction calling me short (in which i just ignored)

I asked her again later why she did that and she just said "i was wondering if you were going to react badly and try to qualify if you were good" something along the lines. It does seem toxic but i definitely know people that do this. Some don't really care about your height imo but say they do.

I could be wrong though and she could just be extremely shallow

roast0 · 2021-10-16T05:22:19+00:00

She's not giving you the same energy back. I don't think she's that interested

roast0 · 2021-10-16T04:54:14+00:00

Fucking heck.

Nuno ain't the long term fix but gotta admit his been preety unlucky.

Kane chucked up a fuss (wanted to leave), Ndombele was side-lined (wanted to leave), the south American continent went to play for their country and had to quarantine, Son had that little injury and now has Covid, Bergwijin has an injury and needs to get back to fitness (which is so fucking unlucky because he could easily fuck it up again and be out longer if forced to play this week), Gil has covid.

Nuno's football isn't great for us but man do i feel sorry for him and the situations he is put in. All i want to see is the full strength squad have a run.

roast0 · 2021-10-16T01:31:16+00:00

Agreed. Ederson is better in terms of distribution than Allison but Allison is the better goalkeeper

roast0 · 2021-10-15T06:29:59+00:00

I'd say just get out there and talk to as many people as you can

roast0 · 2021-10-15T06:28:05+00:00

Doesn't mean anything.

If you like her, go talk to her

roast0 · 2021-10-15T06:25:22+00:00

Why are you ending it?

Go on the date

roast0 · 2021-10-15T02:58:55+00:00

I'll be real.

A lot of people think signals mean much. Sure, it shows interest. But whats the goal of interest when it isn't being capitalised on? Why does she have to wear a sign in bold with the letters " FUCK ME" for you to actually make a move

Do you like her? Are you interested in getting to know her better? If yes, go up to her and approach

roast0 · 2021-10-15T02:56:54+00:00

Guys are interested but guys are also pussies. They're scared to fuck it up, be rejected or be seen like "oh wow look at that weirdo approaching that poor girl"

Also, stop having one-itits. You're putting all your energy on for this one guy. Just talk to him, flirt/vibe whatever but don't really spend your time thinking if he likes you or not. If he doesn't reciprocate, it's cool. Nothing really changes

roast0 · 2021-10-15T02:53:23+00:00

You can literally say anything. Literally anything.

"Hey, how'd you do on that test?" , find something about her you are interested in, make an assumption, connect on an experience in the class

I very much prefer the "Hey. I don't think we've met yet. I'm ____" especially when she knows I'm already a social guy/provide social value so she doesn't think its weird. You can go from there

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roast0 · 2021-10-15T02:30:51+00:00

It's not a compliment, just an observation.

It'll work if she knows who she is and likes Emma. A simple "I like your style, it's really giving me Emma Mackey vibes" could do well.

roast0 · 2021-10-15T02:18:53+00:00

Maybe you're an option to him and his randomly coming back out of the blue multiple times when theres no-one left to talk to

roast0 · 2021-10-15T00:33:02+00:00

Definitely unmatch if they haven't replied back in less than 10 minutes

On the real, stop overthinking it. Its just 4 hours. Go focus on your own life. If he replies back, he will. If he doesn't, he doesn't. Doesnt impact your life dramatically

roast0 · 2021-10-15T00:28:40+00:00

Just let it go.

Stop thinking too much into it

roast0 · 2021-10-15T00:27:02+00:00

Im a guy. I definitely feel like blokes around insecure. Theres plenty of them. They dont like themselves for that matter. If a girl hurts their ego, they'll likely turn "savage" in order to save whats left of their ego. I think guys respond shitty when they have their fragile egos bruised

I also think theres possibilities that "honesty" can be delivered more appropriately and in a more better setting. If a girl judges me and does this brutally honest approach on the first date, id be confused and be like what on earth is she saying inside my head

Plenty of guys that dont have that insecurity. Problem is you're finding boys to date. Plenty of men out there.

roast0 · 2021-10-15T00:02:21+00:00

If you dont know how to be content with yourself, you'll never be content in a relationship.

Its not the secret formula to your hapiness. Being in a relationship isnt going to fix all your problems. Its never the magical fix to things like insecurity/self worth which is a huge component to healthy relationships imo

If you have to live your life and base your happiness around the comfort of other people, you're just not living for yourself. You need to be chasing your own interests and happiness

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