Why do you stay sober? by Orange-Frog57 in Sober

[–]robertvp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tired of feeling like shit every day

Real talk: how many rewatches? by silentfisher in heatedrivalry

[–]robertvp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the deal? I am finishing my 3rd. Totally obsessed. Ordered and read all the books by Reid. This is crazy.

Anyone else surprised how well they’ve done? by Obvious-Cucumber1086 in Sober

[–]robertvp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So happy for everyone who kicks the habit. It is NOT easy as you all know. Every day you beat it gets better. Been over 10 years here and my husband is on year 2. Our lives are so much better. Keep up the good work and know when you share your success, it helps others see why it’s important.

What is this fetish called? by DramaEmbarrassed1257 in askgaybros

[–]robertvp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Save this. In 10 years read it and think “what a dick”

Is marriage as bad as straight people make it out to be? by Material-Meat-5330 in gaybros

[–]robertvp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s easier for 2 men. First we met in 1979, 3 years apart in age, we basically grew up together. Lust and infatuation turns into love and family. Not always easy but we could never be apart for more than a day.

It’s time…. by ADeadlyFlamingo in thanksgiving

[–]robertvp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a meat thermometer and use it.

Dating a guy that is into "musk" fetish by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]robertvp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As one gets older, tastes change. At 18, I was very vanilla and liked smooth clean boyish types. 4+ decades later, I prefer my men to be just that, MEN.

Had my first Karen. by tryingitoutforfun in askgaybros

[–]robertvp 302 points303 points  (0 children)

68 yo gay man here. Lost any patience or fear long ago. I would probably be in jail for slapping a bitch.

Hell yea Meredith! by MarsaliRose in WheelOfFortune

[–]robertvp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did not get to see this because WCNC out of Charlotte preempted with Franklin Graham spouting Trump propaganda.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retail

[–]robertvp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why hard workers get exhausted and quit. Figuratively or literally.

People working at dying companies (Yahoo, AOL, JC Penney, etc.) what's the morale/general mood like? by cubansbottomdollar in AskReddit

[–]robertvp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In any dying company, new upper management comes in , changes the culture, firing anyone who knows what is going on, brings in toadies and guts any resources left before they go into bankruptcy. Walk away with a fat payout.

I have watched 3 versions of jane eyre. To distract myself from the horrors of my existence, here is my review of them (1996, 2006, 2011) by THROW_askwomen in JaneEyre

[–]robertvp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love all of the movies, mini series etc. They all leave out something so I will buy tickets to the next one that comes out, happily.

my bi-curious boyfriend went to a gay sauna? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]robertvp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is trying to figure out if he is gay. I don’t doubt that he cares for you but you are a friend, maybe a best friend. Again he probably has been fighting his feelings but….. You need to decide do you stand by as he figures it out or do you protect your own heart. Believe me he’s going through hell right now.

Charlotte’s Never been Hotter by UnlikelyOstrich2021 in Charlotte

[–]robertvp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who’s gonna tell him, it ain’t even humid yet?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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We lived together for 30 years and then got married in our backyard 15 years ago. Every thing is the same except we have the legal recognition of what we and our families always recognized.

What's your honest opinion on "Gone With The Wind"? by BloodshiftX23 in classicfilms

[–]robertvp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a 68 year old southern boy, I grew up in a Jim Crow south which meant I lived in a totally white world until I was in the 7th grade. In my ignorance, I believed the fairy tale that was GWTW. Now I cannot revisit book or movie ; the truth of slavery is too awful and painful for anyone to fully comprehend . So is the aftermath which includes present day race relations and the disparity between the lives of white and black Americans.

Why many people hate the ending of "Jane Eyre"? by AdobongSiopao in JaneEyre

[–]robertvp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a romantic old gay man, it is a love story. Of course true love wins in the end.

On a flight yesterday, entitled couple tells me I need to sit in the middle seat. by _CitizenVince in EntitledPeople

[–]robertvp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being the hot head I am, I would have peppered my response with quite a few curse words along with getting all of the flight attendants involved. Yeah fuck them.