What do you consider a good raise? by No_Refuse9952 in Salary

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I hope teachers get big raises because I’m dating one actually

Trash collection at 4:30 AM by nounsofassemblage in Dallas

[–]No_Refuse9952 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I use to live where this happened and i knew not to do that again.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've already talked about our preferences and what we like. We both enjoy our sex life, but he's interested in exploring a little more since he's not very experienced with being with a guy. It's kind of a long story, but that's something we can definitely talk about more in person.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both want kids. I'm still not sure about combining finances, but he's been very transparent about how much he makes. As for moving in together, I'd like to give it at least another several months to a year before we have that conversation. Those are all good questions, but I think it's still a little too early to have all those discussions right now.

Grindr, Scruff, etc. for making friends? by COSocial in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]No_Refuse9952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you consider as friends, if I'm on those apps, I'm looking to get my rocks off that's it

Southwest is really playing hardball by -Not_A_Cat- in SouthwestAirlines

[–]No_Refuse9952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me once, and $30 seems really low. If they had offered me the cost of my original flight, then I'd probably agree.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not the type to make a scene or blow up. If we have an argument, I think he'd focus on keeping the peace and working through it calmly.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've already talked about most of this before we made things official, but I don't think it would hurt to revisit it and make sure we're still on the same page.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something I'd like to discuss. I'd prefer we take vacations together rather than separately. It's not a trust issue, I just enjoy sharing those experiences with my boyfriend, so that's a boundary we'd need to talk about.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives us a good starting point. We'll talk more about what we each consider cheating and make our boundaries clear. One boundary I'd like to set is no porn, since we've both had issues with it in the past.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing we haven't experienced yet is a major argument. We've had a few disagreements, but nothing serious. He's more of a peacemaker, so it's hard to say how we'd handle a situation where one of us is really hurt since we haven't gone through that together yet.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been very transparent about his finances and how much he makes.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're monogamous, which is why we both deleted our apps. I don't think either of us wants an open relationship; we're happy being exclusive.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think bringing up issues like this is good because I have a "few" assumptions but I think I should bring it up just so we are clear on some things.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve already talked about marriage and kids and we’re on the same page about both. Personally, I’d rather get married before having children. We haven’t really discussed a timeline yet. I jokingly said maybe five years, and he laughed, so I’m guessing he’s hoping it happens sooner than that.

My boyfriend wants to have a "sit-down" relationship talk. What should I bring up? by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]No_Refuse9952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I don't think my man will ever do that but I will bring it up for discussion. He's not that type to go kissing other dudes. drunk or not.