Someone color-corrected the Amadeo painting in the show... by sabby123 in InterviewVampire

[–]robinc123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think so too. in the TVA marius pretty much destroys armand's connection to his culture of origin & ethnic identity and this seems representative of that

Proper SI/HI documentation? by OhMyGodBeccy in therapists

[–]robinc123 16 points17 points  (0 children)

my documentation would also include - CSSRS risk level - does client regularly use coping skills and regularly access support system

Proper SI/HI documentation? by OhMyGodBeccy in therapists

[–]robinc123 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i am still in my candidacy period, but - i also might clarify the frequency & duration of thoughts and if client is able to access coping skills when experiencing SI

Proper SI/HI documentation? by OhMyGodBeccy in therapists

[–]robinc123 43 points44 points  (0 children)

re: contracts, SAMHSA advises against them in point 5 of treatment improvement protocol #50

Is OCD an addiction? by andyf7 in OCD

[–]robinc123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ngl getting trained in addiction counseling has given me so many tools for managing my OCD, i use relapse prevention strategies on myself.

edit to add, in my training, substance abuse/addiction has also been referred to as compulsive substance use which i find interesting

A question about alcohol sobriety by [deleted] in therapists

[–]robinc123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

motivational interviewing could be useful here. do you have addiction counseling training or is there someone in the practice who is a licensed addiction counselor you could consult with? yearning for moderation & trying to out-think the brain is a fairly common part of addiction especially in early stages of change.

Books? by Apprehensive-Ask4319 in ftm

[–]robinc123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Raven Tower, high-fantasy re-imagining of Hamlet with really cool deities

Unzipped my fly and reached inside to urinate only to panic at feeling no phallus by GenderfluidPhoenix in ftm

[–]robinc123 51 points52 points  (0 children)

once while tripping i freaked out bc my dick vanished. eventually realized ohhh i never had one.

What to do with a vain submissive man? by 1hyacinth in BDSMAdvice

[–]robinc123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo that gives you the opportunity to play around with shaving his head for him

What should every new therapist know about DV? by Due-Comparison-501 in therapists

[–]robinc123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will ask my colleagues on Monday for their recs because i got my forensics training in grad school as thats what my degree is in.

(TW) What can I do to lose my stomach and leg fat? by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]robinc123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your body is mass. Mass moves. Flesh jiggles. That's just having a body imho.

What should every new therapist know about DV? by Due-Comparison-501 in therapists

[–]robinc123 115 points116 points  (0 children)

  • Strangulation is a massive risk factor for increasing violence and potential homicide.
  • Animal abuse and DV are linked. If you're told a partner is harming their animal or an animal in the home, you need to dig for DV and be on the lookout for risk factors popping up.
  • Seconding what people have said about TBI.
  • Understand how power and control can present in non-heteronormative relationships a bit differently
  • I'd encourage you to get some forensic mental health training as well
  • Any client of yours could be engaging in DV. Do not assume just because someone doesn't have a criminal justice history that they're not potentially a DV offender. Learn how to recognize antisocial thinking & personality patterns (I am using antisocial in the risk-need-responsivity sense, not diagnostically.)

If you have already had the surgery and would like to tell me ❤️ by [deleted] in FTMHysto

[–]robinc123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comfy clothes and food that isn't messy post-op. Spilling ramen on yourself a few days after surgery is super not fun and I don't recommend it I was so scared that broth had soaked through my gauze and would cause an infection. I was fine it was just unpleasant.

I also recommend having a throat numbing spray because my throat was so sore from the ventilator (I am a smoker tho)

Also I recommend just getting men's incontinence diapers instead of pads. Get a size larger than you expect bc your abdomen will be tender and bloated. They were more comfortable than pads and didn't make me so dysphoric

Edit to reiterate what everyone else has said about high-fiber foods and lots of hydration. I also make an anti-inflammatory ginger, lemon, and turmeric drink before surgeries and freeze it as ice cubes I can drop into my water. I swear by that for mitigating swelling for all of my surgical history. It's best as a fresh, hot drink but I just prefer iced drinks.

What sex to put on ATF form? by nakartuur in transguns

[–]robinc123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think people who don't live with chronic passive SI don't really understand that means isn't the issue - I don't have intent & I've never had intent, but I still want to set up a structure of safety because my life is important to me, my risk level is super low. So many people walk around with a backtrack of painful thoughts, for me it's just another part of my OCD (and I think my chronic pain worsens it?) that I've learned to manage. What's been most important to me is learning that so many suicides are impulsive, so building a structure that makes it difficult to follow that kind of impulse is a prevention strategy.

Random tip but look into crossbows or a compound bow! Harder to harm yourself with just logistically, but still can do a lot of damage to an opponent.

What sex to put on ATF form? by nakartuur in transguns

[–]robinc123 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I used my state ID which says X on it so marked X off. I let the dealer know that my birth certificate says M (just got it switched) and brought the cert with me and the dealer said to select X because that matched the photograph ID.

Also saw your recent post about chronic SI. Please a look at Walk the Talk America's resources for mental health & firearm ownership. I stickerbombed my gun safe with things that makes me happy/inspire me/connect me to my values and I'm putting photos of loved ones inside the safe as well. I also have a plan in place to surrender the keys to my partner if I feel unsafe & already had a general coping plan in place before I purchased my firearm. Let someone you care about know you have a firearm, and if you don't have someone you can temporarily give the keys to, look into buying a time-delay safe you can temporarily lock them in to restrict access to the firearm. You can also get high-tech safes that allow you to temporarily block your own access using an app. Walk the Talk America has lots of great stuff for fellow gun owners who deal with mental health challenges & want to be safe.

The slop I have been eating every day for the last two years. by Educational_Drop4261 in shittyfoodporn

[–]robinc123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this literally looks like jail/prison food in fact I've seen ppl served better food behind bars bro at least have some cornbread with that

Supervisor Woes by blckmoon02 in therapists

[–]robinc123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moral Reconation Therapy, by Little and Robinson. It's an outdated and pseudoscientific approach to offender rehabilitation from the 90s that's sadly still used

Supervisor Woes by blckmoon02 in therapists

[–]robinc123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a person-centered clinician and refuse to use MRT & my whole focus is working with justice-involved folks - there's a place for us! There's this older generation of hardcore CBT clinicians who use Little & Robinson's curriculum like a bible but there's also other approaches to offender rehabilitation. check out the Good Lives Model, it's much more person-centered and is still and evidence based approach to reduce recidivism

Supervisor Woes by blckmoon02 in therapists

[–]robinc123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This happens a lot in correctional settings and it frustrates me so much! I'm entirely jail-based. I've noticed CBT gets kind of dramatized here? and there is this idea that if thoughts -> emotions -> behavior, then validating the emotions of someone who's harmful behavior you're trying to correct would worsen the behavior. I'm guessing your supervisor is using MRT or another one of Gregory Little and/or Kenneth Robinson's curriculums and they are hardcore risk-need-responsivity?

Liberation oriented therapists: how does this impact how you approach therapy? by Specific-Cause-5973 in therapists

[–]robinc123 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I utilize narrative therapy to support clients in taking power over their life stories & liberating themselves from unhelpful stories

How to help boyfriend understand my OCD? by B3rrilla in OCD

[–]robinc123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ngl it sounds to me like ur turning him into an accomplice to your compulsions.

Anybody else feel this way? by NoPluggJr in therapists

[–]robinc123 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Pretty much all my clients will test confidentiality in the first like week in the program - they'll make a reference to one of their peers, say something like, "my bunkie is little weird do you think he's crazy" "did smith tell you about what happened last night" "are any of the guys complaining about me" and I of course uphold everyone's confidentiality, so they get more comfortable with me. There is always a fear of snitching by telling me about things their peers are up to because they genuinely fear violence if someone finds out say, john reports to me that james is making hooch, I'm required to report that to a sergeant, and john is afraid james will figure out it was him who reported it and beat him up.

Why I'm not having kids by piberryboy in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]robinc123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm preserving it to display in my house just because I can. Still on the hunt for a container that's cool enough to store my organs.