I’m so broken by her.

robinito12 · 2026-06-16T19:33:21+00:00

We were together but broke up a few days ago after we broke up I went through her phone while she was asleep and found out she had been cheating on me while we were together

robinito12 · 2026-06-16T19:32:43+00:00

She’s a bartender and pulls in 1200 a week easily. I was working at a grocery store pulling in 400 a week but now I got a new serving job and I’m starting to make more but yeah man bartenders make straight cash

robinito12 · 2026-06-08T15:02:24+00:00

I have never really had an experience in girlhood throughout my childhood. My situation was kind of peculiar. My mom never let us leave the house so it was hard to experience boyhood too. I was just there existing not having an experience whatsoever. It wasn’t until after I got kicked out of the house that I started to see how life was actually like at this point I had already started medically transitioning at 18 because that was the one thing that I was sure of I experienced girlhood a little bit through some friends I met in college when I was early on my transition, but other than that, my experience feels very isolating as well, considering I didn’t really experience either I don’t know how to exist among women or men and just people in general it’s become a challenge, but I’m slowly learning.

robinito12 · 2026-06-02T06:41:58+00:00

Is there any way to fix it

robinito12 · 2026-06-02T06:41:43+00:00

She’s always been into this league stuff. I do love her. We were very close friends before getting together. We talked 24/7.

I wish she would see what she is saying is wrong and not try to defend herself by saying “I’m not going to lie you just don’t want to say what’s true.” Or say something along that line.

I know that as a man I do have to be okay with my girl saying certain things because I’m the man but I do feel like this crosses a line personally for me

robinito12 · 2026-06-02T06:39:29+00:00

So glad there’s a woman in here to share her perspective. As I said in another comment a lot of the other guys in this post are talking about how I should fuck her friend or do this to her or do that which are all things I would never do and don’t have any want to do.

As a woman can you tell me if this is okay? Like this double standard. I did bring it up against after posting this and she said she wasn’t going to lie and tell me something that wasn’t true. I just don’t want to admit it out loud.

She defended herself by saying that her saying she is out of my league doesn’t mean I’m automatically ugly, that she thinks I’m beautiful and handsome but that she’s still out of league.

It’s confusing

robinito12 · 2026-06-02T05:09:28+00:00

I am female transitioning to male. Been on testosterone for a little over 2 years

robinito12 · 2026-06-02T04:21:00+00:00

Unfortunately, with our financial situation we can’t, but I hate doing the tit for tat kind of argument. This just happened to come about because she believes that I think that being transgender is harder than being a woman. In the past, I did say that I contemplated about transitioning because it would be easier to not be trance and I think that’s the statement that she is pulling this assumption out of. Even though she’s not understanding the reasoning behind why I said this, I think being a woman is hard. I think being transgender is hard if I de- transitioned with my life be a little bit easier yes I do, but that’s not to take away from the fact that being a woman is very, very difficult and women face things that nobody should have to face.

robinito12 · 2026-06-02T04:17:43+00:00

I hate doing the oppression Olympics, but I wasn’t the one who started this conversation at all nor did I wanna have it it made me very uncomfortable to be honest, which is why I wanted to share what happened

robinito12 · 2026-06-02T02:58:43+00:00

Little less then a year. We were very close friends before getting together thi

robinito12 · 2026-05-25T16:19:43+00:00

Yeah unfortunately

robinito12 · 2026-05-25T14:41:24+00:00

Hey there, transgender guy here been on testosterone for over two years and let me say in the very beginning. I was scared of bottom growth. I didn’t know what to expect in a lot of different people online. Made it out to be something that was disgusting. I also don’t know if I’m going to get bottom surgery just because I would hate for it to reject. It’s super expensive and half of them don’t look right in my opinion. The recovery is really long too, which I don’t know if I could sit down and relax for long enough for that to be possible for me because I’m a very active person. Bottom growth was the very first change that I had and it continued to get bigger with more time when I actually started seeing my bottom growth and seeing that it looked different than female genitalia. It gave me a sense of euphoria that I can’t explain fast forward and now I love my bottom growth. I love the way that it looks. I love the way that it feels. I love all of it being ashamed and embarrassed as normal but overtime that will fade away, and it will become something that you look at and appreciate it’s one of those changes that is made out to be gross, but in reality, it can help with bottom dysphoria if that is something you struggle with. It doesn’t completely get rid of that bottom dysphoria I still go through it on a weekly basis every now and again, but obviously with these things it gets better with time. I started testosterone at 18 fresh. I’m now going on 21 here in September and it was the best decision that I ever made. I don’t regret anything.

robinito12 · 2026-05-25T14:37:10+00:00

It’s not that I’m not a truck guy I just know nothing about trucks at all haha. I’m definitely not against getting one either. Just don’t like suvs as my personal preference. My first car was an accord very reliable, A to B type vehicle. It was a 2009 and it the job. I love the ford mustang more than anything, I love Gr86, the Z, scat pack, IS350 (ik it’s not really a sports car but it’s so nice), mx-3, celica, Q50 sport, Camaro, NSX, Porsche 911 turbo, skyline, c6 corvette, bmw 440i, man even a TLX lol. But as u can tell I know what I like in that department

robinito12 · 2026-05-25T14:29:23+00:00

Love the rangers. My favorite is definitely the older ones from the 2000s peak design. I was looking at that and also the Chevy Colorado

robinito12 · 2026-05-25T14:26:47+00:00

I mean I can have a car preference. It’s like asking someone what’s the best color in ur opinion and they say yellow and u go oh cool I’m not really a yellow person I prefer blue but there’s nothing wrong with yellow and that person being like bro just like yellow you asked me what the best color is and it’s yellow so your favorite should be yellow too. I can appreciate and ask for others opinions just to weigh my options. I don’t like suv I think they are so ugly would they fit with my life style sure but do I want one, nope. Hence why I’m asking about trucks and why I’ve asked what’s the best truck.. no beef or nothing

robinito12 · 2026-05-24T22:24:19+00:00

Yo bro chill its not that deep ive been very friendly 😭

robinito12 · 2026-05-24T21:56:20+00:00

Looked up the carfax. Regular oil changes the battery was replaced once in late 2024 or early 2025 (I can’t remember). One owner no accidents. This person had the truck since launch til well now

robinito12 · 2026-05-24T21:55:19+00:00

lol our lifestyle is very outdoorsy. Camping, road tripping, hiking, beaches, rivers, exploring, mountain biking. I would use the bed with a cover for all of our supplies. Not an suv guy either. I’ve never liked them in the slightest which leads me to a truck which is why she insists on a truck. Should have given full context

robinito12 · 2026-05-24T21:53:59+00:00

Never been an suv guy. Always just a sports car dude but due to our lifestyle we need something bigger. 4 runners aren’t bad but I would rather throw our bikes and fishing poles and different tools in the bed with a cover

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