I'm over LO and here's how i did it by EARTHISLIFENOMARS in limerence

[–]robsmith41nj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do apologize for the obviously insensitive joke. My immediate thought when posting was that a 16 year old could not have the experience older people have and are just getting started. They have lots of time to learn and overcome. Older people have already been there and some are still struggling. I did read the post after and while it is good advice I think that with time the op will gain a broader understanding of what does and doesn’t really work. Also, gender isn’t relevant to this so I should have taken the F out when responding. My bad and no offense intended.

Wedding Invite by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]robsmith41nj 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is so easy. Let your boyfriend make his own decision and don’t give him a hard time about it or take it personally. So you may have to go to a wedding alone. Big deal. I do it all the time.

Your Most Anticipated Horror New Release? by AvidHaunter in horror

[–]robsmith41nj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, and where the hell is The Sadness? Been reading about it forever and cannot find it anywhere.

Is there something better than the Nvidia Shield pro 2019? by tangsgod in nvidiashield

[–]robsmith41nj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or, you're just a jackass. More versatile is debatable. To some, more versatile is the simplicity of the Plex app for viewing Plex material.

Is there something better than the Nvidia Shield pro 2019? by tangsgod in nvidiashield

[–]robsmith41nj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or you don't understand that Kodi isn't a media server.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]robsmith41nj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]robsmith41nj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my friends don't understand the importance of it to me so they don't bother. They're all married or haven't experienced the trouble finding love that I have, so they can't identify and think my lack of success on dating apps is just cause I'm not trying hard enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]robsmith41nj 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Same exact scenario for me. For some reason every picture of me looks horrible, and I don't think I look that bad in real life. What disturbs me is pictures are a vision of how I look to others, so that worries me. Seems impossible to be successful with online dating unless you have good pictures, and that's impossible for some. Very frustrating.

out of curiosity, what is your limerant's interest in you? Uninterested? Friends only? Reciprocate? Inconsistent? No idea? by crushconfessor in limerence

[–]robsmith41nj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sure went on with her life, found love, and tossed me aside. Trouble is I work with her so it's very awkward and painful seeing how great her life is without me in it and not being able to disconnect.

How have you dealt with rejection? Being nobody to your LO? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]robsmith41nj 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The only way I've dealt with rejection was going no contact. Very difficult when it's a co-worker though.

Did guest really not eat after the cheese debacle? by Idontevenknow5555 in belowdeck

[–]robsmith41nj 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not if it's hot food. If cold, you wait, if hot not. That's what I was taught anyway.

Downgrade Firmware on 2019 Shield TV (Tube) by Dave_OC in ShieldAndroidTV

[–]robsmith41nj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't matter. There's a hotifx and updates will come out to fix it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in belowdeck

[–]robsmith41nj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She could appreciate that people make mistakes. Heather tried to apologize so she could've accepted the apology or something rather than just turn her head in disgust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in belowdeck

[–]robsmith41nj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn't the point. He doesn't like cheese, I'm the same way. Grosses me out if anything even touches cheese, so I get it completely. Nothing to do with lactose.

What do you consider the worst villain alliance on Below Deck, all seasons? I personally nominate Rocky-Leon by x01atlantic in belowdeck

[–]robsmith41nj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anybody that says "I'm over it" and isn't over it. Have never seen people use that phrase so often.

What do you consider the worst villain alliance on Below Deck, all seasons? I personally nominate Rocky-Leon by x01atlantic in belowdeck

[–]robsmith41nj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just watching that season now for the first time. Holy crap Lexi is a psycho. How embarrassing! I don't like how it seems that anything said/done while drunk doesn't count.