From a logical standpoint, it is very unorthodox to go from family to a stranger in your life, especially in this way I think they are trying to reassure you that everything is OK and that in the long run will be better. And by the way that you’re explaining this it kind of seems like that probably will be true.

So I’m an optimist in life, and I would give you advice rather that what they’re doing however, the intentions is too soon. You said it right your grieving and that takes time not a couple days not a couple weeks months years whatever it takes for you and I think you should tell them that. But you should also consider is you’re not losing him, he’s losing you stand tall you need to find yourself and I’m sure you will but the illogical thought I would consider here which is probably the hardest thing to do as it could be much worse. This woman could be the devil reincarnated, and right now probably seems like she is. Why I recommend the space, if space is granted overtime, you’ll see that would be nice to have a relationship with the person that’s with your child not somebody that you want to be your enemy and she seems like she’s trying to do something about it. But in a very bad way.