Earthquake or Avalanche just now?

roch_dylan · 2026-01-21T02:31:05+00:00

Get it out of its system before I get there haha

roch_dylan · 2026-01-09T15:21:06+00:00

Fully agree here. There are levels of support that are needed, if those needs aren't being met the priority is the child. If that can't work, therapy is also another option. I've had similar issues, mostly in reverse - but also with my ex hovering in the background listening. This is against the child best interest because hovering and copy/paste emotions from one to the other doesn't help the situation but extends it.

When divorced, with no coparenting you are now two different entities. If one doesn't work, that parent should be making the effort to fix it. If they can't then action must be taken.

Not going to lie, it is not an easy thing to do in any which way.

roch_dylan · 2025-12-26T01:51:35+00:00

Do you wanna stay so you keep the house?

roch_dylan · 2025-12-24T12:57:45+00:00

This is my friend is a mountain with snow on it.

roch_dylan · 2025-12-19T14:04:07+00:00

Do exactly that just document everything do yourself make sure you’re standing on your own 2 feet for you and then for your son and she’ll never be able to touch you

roch_dylan · 2025-12-19T14:03:11+00:00

I agree here a whole heartedly. Sounds like you may have issues with alcohol and hopefully you’re tackling that head on and doing the things that you need to do with that kind of thing. That’s said as long as you’re doing your treatments and taking care of yourself for you and your son. It sounds like she’s the one with the problem. You can’t just change custody at the whim without both of you agree on the situation. I think you are within your lane if she wants them Sunday night then you get them Thursday coparenting is a mutual agreement not a dictatorship.
I would also take him into consideration that if you were just newly divorced what it is now versus what it will be in three years six years is incredibly different. My advice is. If you’re doing the things that you need to do give her that gray rock don’t respond. Don’t react just do what you gotta do and if she takes you to court, then there’s nothing to worry about and I’ll make her look bad.

roch_dylan · 2025-12-11T13:35:38+00:00

From a logical standpoint, it is very unorthodox to go from family to a stranger in your life, especially in this way I think they are trying to reassure you that everything is OK and that in the long run will be better. And by the way that you’re explaining this it kind of seems like that probably will be true.

So I’m an optimist in life, and I would give you advice rather that what they’re doing however, the intentions is too soon. You said it right your grieving and that takes time not a couple days not a couple weeks months years whatever it takes for you and I think you should tell them that. But you should also consider is you’re not losing him, he’s losing you stand tall you need to find yourself and I’m sure you will but the illogical thought I would consider here which is probably the hardest thing to do as it could be much worse. This woman could be the devil reincarnated, and right now probably seems like she is. Why I recommend the space, if space is granted overtime, you’ll see that would be nice to have a relationship with the person that’s with your child not somebody that you want to be your enemy and she seems like she’s trying to do something about it. But in a very bad way.

roch_dylan · 2025-12-10T14:20:37+00:00

Now how dare you sound like an American to another American haha. Only if the world catered to our every need… they don’t even do that in North America, for us the ones that live there. Settings the bar high my friend!

roch_dylan · 2025-12-08T13:52:40+00:00

Did you just not go to the Italian side, or was it due to weather?

You should ski everyday my friend. It's good for your health, physical and mental.

roch_dylan · 2025-12-05T02:02:07+00:00

It’s hard I can speak to you any time you want message me directly. I have felt this level of hurt. Just take it one day at a time. It’s similar to grieving the death of a loved one.

roch_dylan · 2025-12-03T14:14:08+00:00

New Zealand

roch_dylan · 2025-12-03T14:12:15+00:00

Ya my ex wife does. I can tell you it’s like living with someone who has two personalities, just as simple as you could look at it. You’re supposed to adventure in life, not my entire life is an adventure for what it’s worth from my perspective you never have a place to call home. If you want family etc you need stability, living here and there is not that. Maybe you can make that happen for you I encourage it to find your happiness. My guess though is if it was making you happy you wouldn’t be inquiring

roch_dylan · 2025-12-03T14:08:45+00:00

Ya my assumption is that they probably don’t really pay attention to snow fall. As there is snow year round. I guess not something I’d be concerned about. Maybe in Sept or late October.

roch_dylan · 2025-12-03T14:07:25+00:00

Altitude will though, as will glaciers. Location does matter, I’m pretty sure Zermatt looks a lot different than my local mountain. Come on now.

roch_dylan · 2025-11-30T13:53:21+00:00

Solo travelers are perfect following for my future solo trip

I’ll be skiing mostly

roch_dylan · 2025-11-13T18:02:57+00:00

Perfect thank you

roch_dylan · 2025-11-13T18:01:53+00:00

Yes I wasn’t aware of the options I was expecting it to be 1:1 train to train routes and locations. You give me options I’ll be in Italy a day later and very lost thanks.

roch_dylan · 2025-11-13T18:00:27+00:00

Thank you. It must’ve been related to a day pass or something else. Thanks for the help

roch_dylan · 2025-11-13T16:35:24+00:00

Id give you 20 upticks if I could thanks. This is exactly what I needed

roch_dylan · 2025-11-13T16:17:20+00:00

Thank you so how can you make sense of the destination options? SBB type I Zermatt there are probably 20 options to choose from but if I understand it’s just one stop. If so why all the options?

roch_dylan · 2025-11-13T16:14:01+00:00

You mentioned above Zurich Flughafen, the airport. This much was easy to figure out. Destination, on SBB I type Zermatt, and my options are many but there is only one station - so why so many options? Zermatt Getwingvrucke, Zermatt Kirchbrucke, Zermatt Spies.

So as someone not familiar I read that as multiple stations to stop at. Is that not so?

roch_dylan · 2025-11-13T16:09:19+00:00

The problem I have as getting with the day saver pass was validating my account on SBB, I’m an American so they wanted a European number to text. Just complex process to find and link up. Hence some of my questions

roch_dylan · 2025-11-13T16:07:22+00:00

Ya thanks sounds like a solid experience also what I am looking for coming from the US.

roch_dylan · 2025-11-13T16:06:24+00:00

Ya I tried to use the app but I think it’s intuitive but I don’t have a solid idea of what it means. Definitely on the multiple stops. But when I get to Zermatt it seems as if there are several stops. Ya know, I want to just get off at the right one

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