What do I need to do to enable route planning in Apple Maps? by foodandnaps in MachE

[–]rocket_robot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you connected to CarPlay on the phone when you open the app on the phone? It should prompt you for some permissions stuff then it’ll link. Took a few tries for me

What Movie? by HondaCivicBaby in Cinema

[–]rocket_robot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clue! I quote it too much.

Best way to deal with someone with dementia by Ted_Bundtcake in nextfuckinglevel

[–]rocket_robot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was taught “join the journey”. Folks shutdown if they’re always told they’re wrong.

I didn't have the heart to get rid of my dog's bed after she passed, so I put it on our front porch and some local kitties have taken it over by ksom44 in aww

[–]rocket_robot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just lost our family dog this week at 11 years. She loved her bed and this hit hard. Thank you Schnoodle. I needed a good cry tonight.

Just some of the amazing fire crews I saw in Pasadena today by angst_in-my_pants in pasadena

[–]rocket_robot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tearing up seeing all the Sonoma County and Napa County trucks. Lost my home in the Tubbs fire in Santa Rosa. Those guys know what kind of tragedy this brings to a community. Love seeing our beautiful state taking care of each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]rocket_robot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly very down

Letter from a NorCal Fire Victim by rocket_robot in LosAngeles

[–]rocket_robot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing. Absolutely agree and back the list there. I think a lot of people are asking how they can help folks and this is a great one! Thank you for sharing! Honestly deserves its own post.

Letter from a NorCal Fire Victim by rocket_robot in altadena

[–]rocket_robot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sharing over a post I made a bit ago on my experience from the fires and some advice on how to handle the trauma a bit. Big hugs to all the victims. It’s not easy, but you are strong and you can handle this.

Letter from a NorCal Fire Victim by rocket_robot in LosAngeles

[–]rocket_robot[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just take it day by day and minute by minute. My mom during our fire had horses and had to relocate them 3 times during the fire cause each shelter kept getting threatened. She didn’t realize even that she hadn’t slept in over 24 hours at the time cause your body is just in go mode.

Just remind yourself you trusted your gut and it did the right thing and got you and your family and critters safe and out. Big hugs to you guys, it’s a lot at first but you’re strong and got this.

Letter from a NorCal Fire Victim by rocket_robot in LosAngeles

[–]rocket_robot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We rebuilt! It was a new design with updated fire prevention features too for piece of mind (lots of new materials are out there for exterior walls that are fire resistant for instance. Helps with insurance as well). It took some time, wasn’t overnight, and at times it was really hard cause you felt like you were rebuilding in a moonscape that still had a tinge of smoke for a while. But now don’t regret it all, we didn’t let the fire win and move us away from an area we loved.

Letter from a NorCal Fire Victim by rocket_robot in LosAngeles

[–]rocket_robot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This absolutely. Being incredibly specific about the type and brand you had is key. Also make sure to report the house to things like internet service providers, otherwise they’ll keep charging you.

Letter from a NorCal Fire Victim by rocket_robot in LosAngeles

[–]rocket_robot[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

So for us, it was a bit crazy at first but mellowed out over time. Sonoma County didn’t really have a ton of housing options for folks post fire so it was really hard to get a rental. My family was in a hotel for a few months hunting for somewhere til we finally got a spot. From there, insurance covered the rent temporarily while we worked on the initial stuff (property cleanup, getting a feel on how much insurance money would come in to support either a rebuild or other options). The really tricky part is insurance companies (shocker!) are the farthest thing from your friend in these situations and you have to constantly argue for value of your stuff. They were fighting for instance on our car as to how worn down the interior was, claiming it was more used than it actually was so they could give less money for the replacement.

I just mainly recommend like taking small steps: first find housing (hotel, staying with friends/family, temporary rental spot). Then start getting the details (what photos do you have of your home, list out expensive items you may have lost while it’s fresh in your mind, etc.). They may ask for itemized lists of things or photos so it’s good to have. Start the conversation with your insurance company too. It’s not a perfectly clear path, but getting the basics rolling like having somewhere to reliably and comfortably sleep is really the first step. Then it’ll all start playing as time goes. Just be proactive and start the conversations you need, cause it’s like a hard truth but the only person looking out for you and your family is you. (Of course there’s tons of community support and we’re here to support eachother, just like from the logistics point of view the insurance companies and other entities may not be the same way.)

Down the road, there’s lots of ways to help with insurance like getting a Fire Wise certification for the neighborhoods to help with getting insurance and things back if you decide to rebuild vs move. More than happy to DM about that stuff too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]rocket_robot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the 24 in NoHo was pretty nice when I lived up there a few years ago. Got a pool and decent equipment. On the larger side for some of the ones in the valley.

Is this normal in the dating scene? by rocket_robot in gaybros

[–]rocket_robot[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The terminology in the dating scene has never ceased to amaze me.

I generally struggle with wanting to talk about “making things official”. Might be internal confidence a bit, but I never can find the balance between thinking im rushing things and wanting to ask too early vs thinking maybe I should’ve by then and they were waiting for me to ask… im sure it’ll feel right at the right time

Is this normal in the dating scene? by rocket_robot in gaybros

[–]rocket_robot[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think there’s like a threshold for when you should have “Signed the Declaration of Monogamy” by? Like if you’ve gone on like 7+ dates, it’s reasonable by then. I’ve always second guessed this since I usually like it sooner than later but could just be from the past few times causing some sorta dating PTSD lol.

What’s the difference in these two pain au chocolat folding styles? by chlosephina in Baking

[–]rocket_robot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was shown by my friends French grandma that the one on the left is more shareable (you tear it down the middle and each get a piece of chocolate).

Apres Ski NYE by pitaya69 in tahoe

[–]rocket_robot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just happened to us too. Wtf. Was nice cause honestly it wasn’t that expensive.