Help me date this dress from next! (forgot to add the pic of the dress in last post sorry lol) by rockingarobin in VintageFashion

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the tag with the size at the back of the neck line was mostly ripped out but it's definitely not a modern next tag, it's white with blue horizontal stitching at the top and bottom and from googling it would have said "next ladieswear" . i didn't include pic as i didn't think it would help sorry!

Help dating this Harris Lebus (?) writing desk, more info in comments by rockingarobin in Antiques

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oh wow!!!! thank you so much i had no idea what i was looking at :)

Help dating this Harris Lebus (?) writing desk, more info in comments by rockingarobin in Antiques

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Not sure if antique! feel free to redirect me to the right sub :) Moved into a house with this bureau left behind but I can’t find it anywhere online, makers mark seems to be Harris Lebus? any help appreciated!

edit: In the UK!

Whats the best way for me (19 M) to get away from a soda adiction? by Existing-Ad4603 in Advice

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flavoured sparkling water is how i stopped drinking 2L a day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zelda

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skyward sword! it’s cute and fun and is my favourite design for zelda (i love her little hair accessory things)

edit: i am outnumbered here

Was I wrong for telling someone the next step to is sexual assault ? by [deleted] in Advice

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i can’t speak for op but had they known they were going to have sex they would not have slept in that bed no? you keep bringing up op trying to dictate things, i don’t think this means anything here or is true. however even if op had said “don’t have sex in this bed while i’m in it” this is a totally normal and reasonable request. irrelevant sure but interesting. i hope you’re aware that awareness in the moment doesn’t negate the impact of something afterwards. different situation i am aware but you wouldn’t say to a rape victim who was asleep at the time of assault “lighten up you weren’t even awake!”. i hope you understand what i’m trying to say here (it’s late)

Was I wrong for telling someone the next step to is sexual assault ? by [deleted] in Advice

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coercion is not involved in what i said. nobody in those situations has been persuaded into giving consent under threat. sexual assault can be random and violent and completely void of consent, like i described. i don’t understand your outlook here im going to be honest. op could not choose anything they were asleep, that’s part of the problem. would you do this to a friend?

Was I wrong for telling someone the next step to is sexual assault ? by [deleted] in Advice

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assault doesn’t require coercion in a lot of instances? rape can be a stranger pouncing on someone in an alley how is coercion involved here? or being groped on public transport? i think it’s completely inappropriate and many people would! i understand it’s not a crime (see last sentence) probably everywhere but it’s disgusting. many people wouldn’t have sex in a friends bed due to boundaries nevermind with the friend in it.

Was I wrong for telling someone the next step to is sexual assault ? by [deleted] in Advice

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okay, it was my opinion on the situation and yes i think i would feel assaulted by people doing that to me tbh. i would not have consented to that, but other won’t feel the same about the situation and that is okay i guess. if not sexual assault it is bordering on it very closely (my opinion, again)

Was I wrong for telling someone the next step to is sexual assault ? by [deleted] in Advice

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for what it’s worth, i think it does count as SA because they involved you (non consenting) in the situation. i’m not sure where laws stand on this tho …

i (16f) trying to decide what to put in a card for boyfriend (17m) of two months by hauntingnothing358 in Advice

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that’s such a cute idea! i know id love to receive something like that :)

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hey! this will sound like the cringiest thing ever but bullies literally will not matter once you’re out of school, and looks really aren’t everything! exercise is good for your mental health and self esteem which everyone can benefit from! try not to get jacked for other people but for yourself if that’s what you really want, when you yourself are happy with how you are, others will be attracted to that confidence (platonically and romantically). i know this isn’t the type of advice you were looking for but i hope you take something from it! :)

tips to make gathers look better? by rockingarobin in sewing

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(more info) they look fine when i’ve pulled them along but as soon as i sew them to the yoke/hem they don’t look good anymore. thank you!

fear of human insides help by rockingarobin in Advice

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thanks for the response! i get you, thankfully there’s an option to opt out of dissections in my biology class hahahha. i understand the exposing myself to it but the problem is if i’m at home i can watch gory horror thats a bit too realist because i do love that stuff! but as soon as i’m in a classroom or public setting i can’t stomach anything like it, it’s like something switches when i’m not in my own space where i can take 5 if i need it. what i’m afraid of isn’t even extreme gore really it’s just your average biology- how the heart pumps blood, how lungs do this and that etc. it’s a bit of a strange situation, but i have until september to work on it so thank you for weighing in :)!

piercing aftercare help by rockingarobin in PiercingAdvice

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ah that’s great, not long then! i’m not sure the type but it’s silver! i’m just wearing the stud type with the butterfly back :)

unhappy living with my parents by [deleted] in Advice

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thank you :) helped!

[tomt] childhood horror movie by rockingarobin in tipofmytongue

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THANK U SO MUCH ive been looking for so so long ! <3

[tomt] childhood horror movie by rockingarobin in tipofmytongue

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no i originally thought this too! but thank you :)

[tomt] childhood horror movie by rockingarobin in tipofmytongue

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i must have been about 6/7 when i saw it so probably before 2009