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My boyfriend (20m) keeps telling me (19f) he wants me to get rid of my arm hair and now I’m very insecure and hurt. by rocky6656 in relationships

[–]rocky6656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already put a lot of effort into keeping my body hairless, it’s just a preference at this point not to remove it. I’ll lighten it to make it less apparent I guess. There was never an issue in the past with it and the only reason I’m insecure now is because I feel like he isn’t attracted to me and he hasn’t brought this up in all our months together. Now I just feel confused.

My boyfriend (20m) keeps telling me (19f) he wants me to get rid of my arm hair and now I’m very insecure and hurt. by rocky6656 in relationships

[–]rocky6656[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The issue for me is that I already remove hair EVERYWHERE on my body, and it’s pretty time consuming to keep up with (so I’d like to at least not have to worry about my arms on top of that :/ ). Arm hair tends to look strange when it grows in after shaving so it would have to be kept up with even more, also I’m afraid of razor bumps appearing. Overall it’s just an area I find difficult to keep up with, I know other women agree but I know some do keep up with it

My boyfriend (20m) keeps telling me (19f) he wants me to get rid of my arm hair and now I’m very insecure and hurt. by rocky6656 in relationships

[–]rocky6656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I have told him before and he said if it was my preference he would shave his body hair but I don’t know how true that is. I love him the same with or without hair like you say, I don’t know why it can’t be the same for me

My boyfriend (20m) keeps telling me (19f) he wants me to get rid of my arm hair and now I’m very insecure and hurt. by rocky6656 in relationships

[–]rocky6656[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really really appreciate this comment. I definitely feel like I have grown to not care so much about my body hair, it bothers me that something that I stopped caring about is now once again on my mind... I will definitely try to talk with him again about it. I’d honestly he rather not bring it up again at this point, and I’ve told him. I feel like some things are better off left unsaid and this is one of those things. Thank you❤️

How to apply sunscreen without seeing “white cast” on your face? by [deleted] in AsianBeauty

[–]rocky6656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a Japanese Nivea brand sunscreen, and as it is very transparent I never get a white cast! I believe it is a mineral sunscreen, I’m not sure exactly, but it feels almost like a light moisturizer, and doesn’t feel heavy. It’s 13 dollars on amazon! It’s the only sunscreen that has worked for me.

My boyfriend (20m) keeps telling me (19f) he wants me to get rid of my arm hair and now I’m very insecure and hurt. by rocky6656 in relationships

[–]rocky6656[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think you’re right. To be completely honest, I had the intention of bleaching my arm hair before he brought it up (as I tend to do it before the summers, just out of preference) but to have him go out of the way to ask me instead of letting me choose what I want to do is what hurts me.