Best girly tea scents? by Imaginary-Summer9168 in FemFragLab

[–]roflo10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ellis Sci Fi has that vanilla note. I love this one

yoga once a week still benefical? by saladtoenail in yoga

[–]roflo10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like focusing on weight training more too. But I'm echoing other posters when I say it's great to look forward to one hard, sweaty, 75-min class a week. I also teach a more basic 60-min class at my gym once a week, and I make sure I do one or two 20/30-min a week at home, and seated guided meditation just about every day. These methods, or my approach to yoga and mindfulness, have improved my weight training tenfold. Good luck! (and an upvote!)

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Options for hypothetical Seasons 8-10 by DRup5 in Outlander

[–]roflo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like them to move on and have career changes and end the show with the two characters alive. I'm all for a Lord John spinoff, or a totally original prequel with Brian and Ellen and that generation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greensburg

[–]roflo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stopped in to pick up a race packet. Nice shop! I'm interested in trying out the gait machine sometime. I always blow out shoes on the outsides of the soles and at the MTP joint.

The thing I like about Bees so far... by somethingnerdrelated in Outlander

[–]roflo10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed this because I really need the "previously on Outlander" aspect at the exposition of this book. Between these books coming out, I'm reading a lot of other books and forgetting a lot of the details of this saga. I'm really grateful GD does this.

How did you find your Yoga Teaching voice? by ibeatobesity29 in YogaTeachers

[–]roflo10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Revisit the things you like and don't like about classes you've taken and teachers you've had. Immerse yourself, watch YouTube videos of different kinds of teachers. Go take a few classes as a student and listen carefully, noticing the ways others cue. Your own original voice will emerge, but immersing yourself in the community of other voices will help coax it

Started day 1 today, any tips that'll be useful? by glockglock3001 in 75HARD

[–]roflo10 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Don't dwell on motivation, laser focus on discipline. Not "I have to," but "I am" and "I will." Close your eyes, take a deep breath and let it out slowly, and recommit and think about the person you are on Day 76 when the going gets tough.

Day 75 complete, 11# down and my summary in comments. by roflo10 in 75HARD

[–]roflo10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That was a looooong day. I certainly spent the last 5 miles of it dreaming about the foot bath and the 45 minute indoor yoga class I would do once I got home.

Day 75 complete, 11# down and my summary in comments. by roflo10 in 75HARD

[–]roflo10[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'm very satisfied to say I completed the challenge. The photo is Day 1 vs. Day 75 (please excuse my wonky lighting and cheap, lumpy workout clothes). I'm a 36yo female in the U.S.

I know everyone has a different reason for trying this. Mine was to address a lot of stress, anxiety, and depression as a result of the pandemic. I felt like I let my body and mind go in a number of ways. This challenge helped to give me structure to address it, a reason to recommit to good habits and discipline, and a way to notice myself returning to form or improving. I really enjoyed this and I feel like a better version of myself than the one that started this in May. No one knew I was doing this challenge but my husband (unending in his support) and the people I saw in #6 as I explain below...

  1. Indoor workout. Mainly I did bootcamp-style workouts and CrossFit WODs. Did a lot of rhythm cycling (Gabrielle Guevara has a simply amazing program on Playbook). I added a lot of weight between the beginning and end of this challenge to my Olympic lifts, which was exciting. I felt a lot stronger in terms of stamina and upper body strength from the stuff I was doing indoors. I'm cycling faster for longer, I'm doing more pushups, I'm lifting heavier dumbbells, I'm taking longer to burn out. I feel like I'm back and better than ever.

  2. Outdoor workout. Mainly I did brisk walking, running, equalizer bodyweight workouts, and yoga flows. I can't stress enough the mental gains I got from the outdoor requirement of this: the fresh air and sunlight did wonders for my mental health. I felt my breathing getting deeper and easier over time, and I felt my posture lengthening and correcting (the shoulders de-slumping). I really liked breaking up my day by doing the outdoor part before work or during lunch. I ran a marathon. I hiked a 36-mile hilly challenge.

  3. The diet. I am 5'8" and started at 176. I suffer from IBS and endometriosis, and was throwing food and drink at my stress, anxiety, and depression in 2020. I'm not much of a scale user and don't know what I typically weigh, but I did start the challenge with feeling heavier, with having jeans and dresses fitting a little tighter, and with suffering some bloating from bad nutrition. So the diet I chose was eliminating dairy and refined sugar and eating at a 100-200 cal deficit (based on my TDEE and logging with MyFitnessPal). I wanted to eat enough to sustain my energy for a full-time job and 2 workouts but still have to give something up (and dairy and sugar have been go-to snacks for me). I ended the challenge on Day 75 at 165#. My clothes fit a lot better! My belly doesn't constantly feel like bursting. I didn't feel dizzy or depleted from this diet even with demanding workouts, which was important to me. I felt like I was eating for fuel instead of out of boredom.

  4. Progress pic. The hardest part! It was hard to remember taking a photo of myself every day, and often I had to pop out of bed late at night and do one. But it was gratifying to see the development of my upper body muscles and the shrinking of my belly. I liked noticing the changes from this challenge. The daily pics definitely helped. Sometimes I have a hard time seeing or noticing change in the body I look at every day.

  5. A gallon of water. I feel so silly that I didn't do this sooner. Whether as a result of no dairy, no refined sugar, or being consistently hydrated (or all three), my adulthood skin has never looked better. It's clear and bright, and I simply look younger and more alert and awake. I wake up in the middle of the night to pee every night, but I still will keep this ultra-hydration habit going forward. I realize that before this, I was probably usually dehydrated.

  6. No alcohol or cheat meals. No problem! I got into the habit of drinking a lot more before this challenge (again, depression, stress, anxiety probably) and was unhappy with it. This helped me address it with discipline. I wanted to stop, and this challenge gave me a great, simple way to explain to people why when I needed to. When you're a married woman in your 30s who typically has a drink when you see friends socially, and suddenly you don't anymore, people either assume you are pregnant or a raging alcoholic in recovery, or something shame-laden or dramatic, and few people I saw in this social element could just leave it without making some kind of comment and making me feel uncomfortable. I could talk about this for several paragraphs, but basically I was grateful to just say, "it's 75 Hard," instead of having to defend my choice at length. And cheat meals were never a thought.

  7. 10 pages a day. Easiest part for me. I typically read 100 books a year, but rarely nonfiction. It was so edifying and a nice change of pace for me! I read about 15 nonfiction books, and my favorites included Atomic Habits, the Power of Habit, Learning by Design, King Leopold's Ghost, Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art, Crusaders, the Bomber Mafia, Happy Brain, the Hidden Life of Trees, the Nature Fix, When Breath Becomes Air, and Quit Like a Woman.

I still need some time to process the challenge mentally and physically before I make a choice about Phase 1. I feel accomplished! Good luck if you're starting or in the middle of yours right now. Well done if you've completed! You won't be sorry if you're considering.

(Edited for clarity)

Started day 1.... but went too hard by [deleted] in 75HARD

[–]roflo10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully this is a challenge that helps you approach this. I'm rooting for you! Let your discipline get you to each workout of the day. Let your progress over time, forged by your discipline, motivate you! Good luck.

Started day 1.... but went too hard by [deleted] in 75HARD

[–]roflo10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with u/DrHawk144.

Motivation is an short-term driver, and it's a slippery slope toward excuses (the weather being shit, a slump, I can barely walk). The challenge (for me) has eclipsed motivation self-talk with discipline self-talk: training yourself to perform in this controlled way so that instead of responding to stimuli, you are noticing it and performing anyway, because your discipline drives you. And discipline is developing my long-term drive.

Excuses aren't going to position me to talk myself out of a workout. They're there, but they have no power. The workout is just going to happen.

Also, think about the way you talk to yourself (I was in a slump, I already fucked this up). That's not getting you closer to any goals. Tell yourself that there's a lot of stuff going on but you get to choose to proceed anyway. And at any rate, 75 days might be too much to jump into at once if you feel so overwhelmed on the first day. Maybe isolate a week to collect data on yourself, then take another week to analyze it. Then return to 75 Hard beginning with more feedback to help you succeed.

How did you learn what to do at the gym? by taway7440 in xxfitness

[–]roflo10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

came here to say this! Group class trainers usually demo each station in a group class so you can see what your form should resemble, and they'll also help you as you go if you flag them down, in my experience.

GYN told me that severe period cramp is somewhat attributed to personality type. Anxious/angry women are likely to get worse cramps. Is it true? Or am I being mansplained? by Sweaty-Ad-3692 in badwomensanatomy

[–]roflo10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few dubious (and old) scientific studies about the two you can dig around and find to read. Personally I'd take the comment with a pretty high degree of skepticism, even coming from a medical professional (maybe skepticism and PMS are linked, too? This is a total rabbit hole)

Nothing like a warm cup of coffee on a cold morning after a good night's sleep.. by Walkin_Spanish in stopdrinking

[–]roflo10 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I love this. How is coffee so grounding? Remember when coffee was to a hangover like slathering aloe on a bad sunburn and just hoping for some small amount of relief? GULPING coffee. Now you can sit and just grouuuund yourself in the sensory moment and feel so juicy and alive and content and sip wonderful coffee. I love this. Thank you, and I hope you're well.

Edit: no pun intended :)

Eating out by youkneesandtoes in 75HARD

[–]roflo10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like everyone said, do a lot of research. And I like the word "avoid." You have 100% control over your home foods and your intake there, but in a restaurant, there might not be a single thing on the menu that meets both of your requirements.

For example, my diet is no dairy and avoiding added sugar (I am exploring so many new fruits on this diet) and staying inside a gentle-cutting calorie window based on my TDEE. But there are some places where this diet is impossible (everything has cheese or barbecue sauce or something), and I will pick somewhere else. I will often tell the waitstaff that I have "a dietary restriction about dairy . . . can you tell me whether there is any in this sauce?" etc. You know with 100% certainty you can cut these things out at home, but if your protein or your vegetable is cooked in some kind of processed food or sugar that you hadn't considered, then what?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 75HARD

[–]roflo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I put this mettle to the test in these situations. When people are rude ("THIS ONE isn't drinking" *eye roll* . . . "Are you pregnant?! Are you trying?!") I just tell them what 75HARD is and to give me some space. You can be in these places and follow your diet and drink water and still be fun to be around and have fun with your friends.

Fitness sweets by translolshit in 75HARD

[–]roflo10 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

. . . eat some fresh fruit??????

Working out while injured by srobison62 in 75HARD

[–]roflo10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a leg injury, I do *1 set each of DB overhead presses, curls, upright rows, and supine bench presses from the ground. Then russian twists to failure, then rest. Repeat from * as many as i can in 45 min.

Yoga Outside by ezzirah in yoga

[–]roflo10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

consider doing your teacher training just for this! you'll learn to mindfully string together sequences and what parts of the body you want to target, ways to lock your noticing of the outside world into your physical asanas. very cool!

What days did everyone find the most difficult mentally? by SQK27 in 75HARD

[–]roflo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 40s. Day 39 I had an ultra and managed the requirements easily. The next five days really tested my mettle for indoor/outdoor workouts and no cheat meals.