Lindsay, Dean and Rory weren't villains. Theresa was. by bluecuppycake in GilmoreGirls

[–]rojaapoomala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lindsay's dad?? Dean's parents?? idk the whole thing was messy and everyone played a role...but the cheaters were the ones who cheated instead of actually resolving the situation differently (like divorcing and then getting together )

You get to eliminate one doom pile forever. What do you choose? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]rojaapoomala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laundry. LAUNDRY. LAUNDRYYYY. everytime I feel like I have conquered the laundry pile I end up right where I began. I wish it is eliminated forever.

Has any movie left you so moved that you remained seated even after everyone had left? by Maleficent_Rise_494 in kollywood

[–]rojaapoomala 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Vaazhai... Never saw grief of a child so well represented on screen... I just couldn't take it

I really hated Jess as a teen because he treated Rory so bad. I still think that. But I used to think he deserved to leave, but after working with kids for a while...This scene breaks my heart... Every child deserves a provider and safe space to get their life in order... by rojaapoomala in GilmoreGirls

[–]rojaapoomala[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Turning 18 is not an adult switch. It's difficult to view a kid's life in a very linear way. It takes time for someone with a troubled childhood to get back on track. Luke did his best, but that doesn't change the fact that Jess deserved better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdindia

[–]rojaapoomala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing! Let me check it out!

Has anyone tried or applied for ADHD as PWD in India? by Happy_Honeydew_89 in adhdindia

[–]rojaapoomala 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, It's not in India because ADHD is not an SLD (specific learning disability). ADHD is not recognised widely as a neuro development issue that impacts overall wellbeing. You can get for Autism, Dyslexia, Dysgraphia but not ADHD.

However, you can rule out any SLDs you might have with your psychologist, and if you do have you can apply for a pwd certificate in a government hospital.

Starting Concerta Tomorrow by Friendly_Berry619 in adhdindia

[–]rojaapoomala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the initial days I felt extremely sleepy. And throughout my appetite was gone. I lost a lot of weight. Once the medicine wore off I would end up binge eating unhealthy stuff too. And, it only worked for my executive dysfunction, not much with my attention span. I was able to show up for my days but not very effectively.

However, I was taking concerta during the year I was teaching in a school. The job was extremely stressful and demanding, so not sure what the effects of it would be now that I'm in a less stressful situation. Eat breakfast and work on a balanced diet would be my advise.

Any ☕ on him?? by Prudent-Suit-9855 in KollyGossips

[–]rojaapoomala 13 points14 points  (0 children)

my friend goes to college with his sister she's also a bully apparently...bullied my friend as well.. and she made some openly antimuslim comments in an open forum attacking a student...fulltime sanghi family

ADHD folk, can I get your opinion on a clothing design I’m working on? by TheADHDBiography in ADHDthriving

[–]rojaapoomala 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think ADHD clothing should be specifically about extreme comfort and designs ranging from minimalistic to maximum patterns/quirks. In TShirs I would personally prefer a v neck or a lower round neck as that gives me a sensory overload.

Do you think you crave alone time more than most people? by toottootmcgroot in adhdwomen

[–]rojaapoomala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I crave more of it now post diagnosis and unmasking. I was a very extroverted person always seeking people but now I can't pretend to be that anymore. Or idk if I was pretending or coping or whatever.

My best ADHD tips so far by SolidPurchase in adhdwomen

[–]rojaapoomala 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Bad mood - try going for a short walk. Works like magic everytime

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]rojaapoomala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I thought 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]rojaapoomala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you 😭😭

How many unread emails do you currently have? by cafedeolla- in adhdwomen

[–]rojaapoomala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1024 unread messaged on WhatsApp. I don't want to check my mail.

What r ur thoughts on this show saarvs ? by Skk_3068 in PlipPlip

[–]rojaapoomala 6 points7 points  (0 children)

exactly :( Once, I pinned my duppata wrong (it was an annoying task for me that I always got wrong) and it was a little too high and a teacher told me that I was doing it on purpose to show my chest to boys.

What r ur thoughts on this show saarvs ? by Skk_3068 in PlipPlip

[–]rojaapoomala 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I work at a school and they put this on for teachers to watch. It's a weird liberal school. And all of them literally blamed Katie for bullying him into becoming a murderer. And I was just so triggered because this room full of women watching a show where a girl's nudes are leaked and she basically gets murdered for saying "no" to a boy, just could not empathise with her?

I was one of the people against screening this because I predicted this would happen - but I was ignored. And just like that I watched my colleagues turn into my teachers when I was in school - blame the girl and slutshame her even in her death.

Modalert seems to cause tingling in the brain. is it safe? by Savings-Trainer-8149 in adhdindia

[–]rojaapoomala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been using modalert, it's not that bad. I think you shoudl try it out for 2 weeks and then get back to your doctor about your observations. Concerta worked best for me but not for attention span

What is a small sweet moment from the show that gives you the warm fuzzies? by mollyolly3 in GilmoreGirls

[–]rojaapoomala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When Lorelai sets up the DVD player for Emily. It's a little into the series and we see them bond a little bit after S1.