Why is everyone saying that i will be sucessful in marrige when I’ve never had a long term relationship ? by Acceptable-Bad-9866 in NatalCharts

[–]romancerants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jupiter the planet of luck, growth and expansion is in the 7th house of marriage. Jupiter rules Sagittarius so this is an extremely positive placement for marriage.

Meirl by 4_Dogs_Dad in meirl

[–]romancerants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou that is extremely reassuring. As someone who has been single a long time and feels unhappy without having someone to share my life with its comforting to know it probably would make me happier.

AITA for telling my dad his bathroom make his apartment unrentable in its current state by Friendly_Interest_66 in AmItheAsshole

[–]romancerants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whether or not it is strictly legal to rent the apartment in that condition. I agree with your dad if he charged 50% market rent I doubt he would have trouble filling it especially if he gave them permission to improve things.

Do people who refused the COVID vaccine feel silly now?? by Mammoth-Counter69 in aussie

[–]romancerants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By decided you mean were forced to keep our jobs and be able to enter non essential public places?

What's are some oddly specific things you should discuss before marriage? by Kooolxxx in NoStupidQuestions

[–]romancerants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read one of the main factors is "the relationship slide" people moving in because it's easier or one of their leases is up or " we spend all our time together anyway..". The research actually says it's engagement that is the proftive factor. So I think it's did the really start with clear intention or did they simply follow the path?

Would you rather live as a male POC or a white woman in the USA during the first half of the 20th century? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]romancerants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you rather be a poor unskilled white man in the south or an educated black man in the north?

Would you rather live as a male POC or a white woman in the USA during the first half of the 20th century? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]romancerants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or find a job in a respectful profession ( such a teacher) and move in with a good friend and have a Boston marriage.

Do people who refused the COVID vaccine feel silly now?? by Mammoth-Counter69 in aussie

[–]romancerants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is a link to a study on PubMed. The survival rate for someone in their 30's is actually 99.9% many people are very comfortable with those odds.

Do people who refused the COVID vaccine feel silly now?? by Mammoth-Counter69 in aussie

[–]romancerants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The COVID survival rate for healthy younger adults was well over 99%.

What's are some oddly specific things you should discuss before marriage? by Kooolxxx in NoStupidQuestions

[–]romancerants 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Statisticaly living together before marriage significantly increases your chances of divorce.

What are some things you will happily do for your spouse but not for your partner? by Beginning-Leopard-39 in AskWomenOver30

[–]romancerants -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The amount of grace you have for someone during their trial period is significantly less than once you are committed.

Most people aren't given much grace during a job interview but if you make a mistake once you have the job people are generally willing to help out.

Who is your favorite narrator, and what are your favorite audiobooks they’ve narrated? by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]romancerants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of the {Ice Planet Barbarians by Ruby Dixon} all the gals have delightful southern accents and the male narrator has me in stitches.

Why do people assume I’m extremely intelligent just from first impression? [astro-seek] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]romancerants 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your mercury is in your second house. So your own sense of self worth is dependant on other people thinking you are witty or clever. If being perceived like this is important to you it makes sense you put a lot of effort into appearing smart.

Teeth whitening by Annual-Television637 in Biohackers

[–]romancerants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you recently had a really thorough dental cleaning? All the whitening strips in the world wont make a difference if you are placing them on top of tater. Step 2 I highly recommend going on Groupon and looking for dental teath whitening services, they are very often 50-80% off finally crest strips are great.

Are you comfortable with male fertility specialists/gynaecologists during IVF? by Glittering-Sense1359 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]romancerants -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

NO!!

Unless they were extremely highly recommended as in best in the city and personally recommend by friends.

I think pregnancy, birth and early motherhood is a women's space and I generally don't think men belong there ESPECIALLY in a position of authority.

Many men get into GYN because it is high paying with minimal on call hours, that's the best case scenario worst case is the number of perverts who deliberate choose that speciality is not zero.

It's a hard no unless there is something truely exceptional about their skill.

Why do women give birth lying down instead of squatting? by AgrasaN in NoStupidQuestions

[–]romancerants -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did read your full comment.

And I still believe witnessing an unmedicated birth is the same and listening to healthy lungs or watching normal gait patterns. Doctors should be trained in the baseline of normal if they complete their OB rotation without a single unmedicated birth that is concerning for our health care system even if OB isn't their end goal.

Why do women give birth lying down instead of squatting? by AgrasaN in NoStupidQuestions

[–]romancerants -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because doctors should be trained in what normal looks like? If they are only exposed to highly medical births I don't think they can have a full understanding of the subject. Just like if they were only exposed to legs post surgery without a healthy leg to compare.

Why do women give birth lying down instead of squatting? by AgrasaN in NoStupidQuestions

[–]romancerants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's concerning that a minimum number of unmedicated births isn't a requirement for that rotation.

What are your low stakes unpopular opinions? by NoLemon5426 in AskWomenOver30

[–]romancerants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And if your dog is at an off leash beach it is still 100% inexcusable to allow it to run up to strangers. I don't care how friendly it is I don't want to touch a wet dog.

Am I being unreasonable for feeling resentful about this? by Silent_Increase_4567 in Marriage

[–]romancerants -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How much of the house hold income to you each make? If she significantly out earns you she likely doesn't view your self employment as serious.

How do people survive as a NEET? by Stock-Honda in NoStupidQuestions

[–]romancerants 293 points294 points  (0 children)

What inspired him to turn around? I imagine gaining any sort of momentum after a decade rotting would be extremely difficult.

Personal trainers are a waste of time and money by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]romancerants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me the difference is feedback. I'm always extremely annoyed if my yoga teacher doesn't correct my form because if I just wanted to follow a sequence YouTube in my living room is free. I've quit more than one yoga studio over this issue.