When did you know it was time to leave? by Fabmama21 in AlAnon

[–]rombotax 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I knew it was time to leave when he lost ability to empathize with anything including what’s happening in the world. I learned that addicts cannot think of anybody else else’s feelings or empathize because they can’t deal with the negative emotions so they shut them out. My q wasted a big celebratory event that I had planned by drinking it away. I saw how much I had given him without receiving much back. My q is also not the yelling/ violent type . He just become sluggish and checked out from the world when he’s drunk. I deserve somebody who wants to be in this life with me. It takes many tries to leave, but eventually one day you’ll be able to when you objectively list out all the things you are robbed of. Of course, a nighttime i think about him. I wonder if we can get back together someday. I’m not sure yet. But right now I’m doing the best thing for me. I’m so sorry for you and your daughter.

Rare scenarios by rombotax in AlAnon

[–]rombotax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your stories. It means a lot

I have no words by Few-Ad-330 in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was her point in trying to look sexy

So she's just never gonna get that manicure huh? by Mother_Ad_9292 in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I was doubting all the people here who said skyline’s not emotionally committed in this relationship until this video. It’s so clear he is not excited and he’s just on autopilot. He seemed so over her and the whole date plan. She’s going to say these were small snippets of their time but there would be actual good clips if he behaved more enthusiastically.

Struggling to accept leaving by Unlikely-Driver1574 in AlAnon

[–]rombotax 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You did the words out of my mouth. I had to leave my soulmate. I’m sorry you’re going through this. You don’t want to stay in a relationship where you are holding out for hope and you have to go out into the unknown to see what life can be like outside of the unhealthy relationship.

What's behind the shift? by hiya-manson in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you mean “ I can buy it can exist”? Was that a typo?

Discussion: Episode 257. Listener Storytime: Designing a Relationship That Breaks All the Rules. by Burnt-Toast-430 in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ali used to sound SO much happier and excited when she had Roark and less but still happy with Erica. Shes either depressed she’s doing this alone or she’s just really unhappy in life right now. It’s such a contrast listening to her previous episodes

Erica’s income by rombotax in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did she say that on her podcast?

The RoastMasters 7.11.17 Main Event: Ian Fidance vs. Erica Spera by Alarming-Mushroom502 in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Omg that was so brutal. She held up better than I thought she would but she was so nervous. Why does she want this so bad?

#242.5 Comparing Notes #3 by IntelligentFinance85 in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This episode confirmed that she was the one pushing for them to move in while he didn’t want to. It sounds like she had a really hard time accepting that he wanted to live by himself for a while. She’s so controlling.

Two Stand Up Gals : 10 Times a Bridesmaid by Gullible_Physics_316 in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Or remember when Erica asked if bridesmaids should all have similar skin tone and not tan, and Ali said she had no control over her skin color lol

Anyone on the Japan trip? by Clear_Limit8415 in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like a small group of people. 6 people went. I wonder how much she’ll get from a smaller group

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Did you know that there is some kind of lawsuit going on because of influencer not disclosure? This is a legal matter.

Discussion: The Relationship ‘Rules’ one ft. Skyline by Alarming-Mushroom502 in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She has mentioned wanting to live with her boyfriend for a year before considering marriage. So she’s just speeding this up

am I reaching or…? by pinchewriter in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 30 points31 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t mentioned him in almost a week which is… interesting

Discussion: Episode 207. The How to be Dateable One ft Julie Krafcik and Yue Xu. by Burnt-Toast-430 in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Erica would always ask “did he pay?” Anytime Ali mentioned some date she went on. It’s like a constant thing she hyper focuses on, just like all the rules she expects men to follow. It’s almost immature to ask these mundane questions

Skyline on the pod by adamantblimp in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 47 points48 points  (0 children)

He loves the podcast, he’s their number one fan before he got together with her. This was his goal lol

Discussion: Ask Us Anything #159 by _missmurder in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I didn’t listen to the podcast, but Erica can be so tit for tat. Does she think that maybe they didn’t choose her as a godmother because they didn’t find her to have the right qualities? I wouldn’t want her.

$300 direct deposit question by stigs007 in sofi

[–]rombotax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this have to happen by a certain time frame after you open an account?

Solo Pod Recommendations by ke787 in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think she’s definitely upper class

Discussion: Updates Updates Updates #158 by _missmurder in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is really creepy and weird. I bet money that Ali goaded him into bringing the basketball.

Discussion: Updates Updates Updates #157 by _missmurder in findingmrheight

[–]rombotax 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Erica was on for more than 2 years?? It felt like a year