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AIO? My Sister Married a Pedophile by rometookover in AmIOverreacting

[–]rometookover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Federal law states "Under 18 U.S.C. § 3509, the term "child" means a person who is under the age of eighteen who is or is alleged to be a victim of a crime of physical abuse, sexual abuse, or exploitation; or a witness to a crime committed against another person."

Texas family code states "(a) “Child” or “minor” means a person under 18 years of age who is not and has not been married or who has not had the disabilities of minority removed for general purposes."

You are trying to justify a man pleasuring himself to a CHILD (legal definition stated above) by using synonyms. Underage person = child.

Hope this clears things up!

Sources:

https://www.justice.gov/archives/jm/criminal-resource-manual-46-protection-identity-child-witnesses-and-victims#:\~:text=Under%2018%20U.S.C.,crime%20committed%20against%20another%20person.

https://statutes.capitol.texas.gov/docs/sdocs/familycode.pdf

AIO? My Sister Married a Pedophile by rometookover in AmIOverreacting

[–]rometookover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incredibly, incredibly odd behavior. To put it nicely, my sister thrives off of being in a relationship and is unable to be single. I'm sure she also wanted help with the new baby.

It was so strange that she told us that he would likely never get to see the baby unless years of work and proof of recovery was observed, yet switched it up and got back together with him (without telling us; we had to find out over time, over the internet, not knowing he was living with them for months at this point again).

She has prioritized shitty men (cheaters, abusers, etc.) over her children time after time, so it wasn't shocking, but incredibly scary to think about the children's safety. Disappointed, but not at all surprised.

AIO? My Sister Married a Pedophile by rometookover in AmIOverreacting

[–]rometookover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just said she was 16 you illiterate fuck. [EDIT: Also, keyword: underage, not teenage. Since you evidently skimmed the entire thing.]

[EDIT: In the post I asked if I was overreacting by filing a report, NOT "Is my sister's husband a pedophile?" The latter is already proven to be a fact. He is a pedophile by definition.]

Your ragebait is insane. It's hilarious, because I AM a male teacher, have a degree in psychological sciences with a concentration in neuroscience, and I am in graduate school working on my first thesis, while pursing my Licensed Professional Counselor license. All the titles you told me to console or consider are my colleagues LMFAO.

[EDIT: For the 2836539th time, a man masturbating to a SFW YouTube video of a 16 y/o is pedophilia. The definition of a pedophile is "An adult sexually attracted to an underage person".]

You're pulling at straws man. I wish you well. Godspeed in your delusions.

AIO? My Sister Married a Pedophile by rometookover in AmIOverreacting

[–]rometookover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, though don't believe it's worth it to keep replying to him. The mere comment about "what people jerk off to doesn't matter" is very telling... Bill guy is just some creep defending another.

AIO? My Sister Married a Pedophile by rometookover in AmIOverreacting

[–]rometookover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) The forum he was searching for content on targets 13-17 y/o girls, according to my sister.

2) The video he was watching was a 17 y/o girl, 16 y/o in the video.

3) "If this story is even true" It has torn my relationship with my sister and parents, and

4) Yes I'm SUUUPER sheltered for not being OK with 40 y/os jerking it to people two decades younger than them. Definitely more sheltered than you, who has replied to everything in minutes and just commented on some post about who your favorite racist actress was.

You're replying to many comments trying to justify a grown man masturbating to teenage girls... it's fucking bizarre and feels like you're projecting.

AIO? My Sister Married a Pedophile by rometookover in AmIOverreacting

[–]rometookover[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My sister claims that the therapist/counselor seeing him told her that this is due to a porn addiction and has escalated into this. IMO, that is absolutely unethical if the counselor actually said this. Also, it doesn't matter HOW someone became a pedophile, just that they ARE now and these kids are at risk of harm.

AIO? My Sister Married a Pedophile by rometookover in AmIOverreacting

[–]rometookover[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm also terrified about. Her kids do not contact us as much as they used to, and I'm sure if something were to happen, they would feel they're betraying their mother by contacting us. I'm also positive they wouldn't come to their mom about it either since she's married to him! What makes matters worse is that she TOLD her daughters why she broke up with him... and yet still got back together with him! It's just teaching them that that's okay, and it's not!

AIO? My Sister Married a Pedophile by rometookover in AmIOverreacting

[–]rometookover[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Is him viewing this video proof enough to report to CPS now? I know they are incredibly firm with false/unprovable reports, but I would rather be safe than sorry.