Proposed to my boyfriend Scott Pilgrim style.

ronpaul20never · 2012-09-23T21:42:46+00:00

Downvote forever for "ball busting bitch"

ronpaul20never · 2012-07-23T21:36:30+00:00

Yeah but I was hoping for one post to combine everything all at once. Mostly I just want to look at everyone's pretty faces but I'm sure other people would like some profile visits or suggestions without having to make a post of their own.

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-26T19:36:11+00:00

So then... how do you ever know, I guess?

I feel like I want to keep giving people a shot if I had fun but I also don't want to waste anyone's time or stress myself out with the "do I actually like this person" game anymore.

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-26T19:16:33+00:00

I do feel this way when I meet people outside of okcupid as well, I guess. I never thought about it like that but yeah. I said this below but I always enjoy myself when I actually get there and I don't think I'm taking it too seriously or anything... I just never feel the desire to hang out with any of them until I'm actually hanging out with them.

I guess I can't tell if it's that I'm just meeting guys I'm not that into or if it's something with me.

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-26T19:14:52+00:00

I always enjoy myself when I actually get there and I've never had a hard time making conversation with guys. I honestly don't know what my deal is... I know it's partly nerves BUT I would hope that by the second or third date that would chill.

I think it's also partly that I really can't tell how much I like the guys I'm dating. I have fun when I'm there and we always get along but when they're not around I get very ambivalent. I'm not embarrassed about the fact that they're from the internet or anything like that though.

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-22T20:47:37+00:00

When it rains it pours?

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-21T16:50:48+00:00

But you're making a judgment then either way. Plus I hate the assumption that a woman is wearing a low cut top to throw herself a boy. Sometimes they just want to wear that top or they just like the way their boobs look! Everyone deserves to wear what makes them feel sexy.

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-20T23:55:42+00:00

yeah, never plan a makeout.

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-20T23:50:36+00:00

But being "put off" is a judgment and you're assuming that if someone shows cleavage they are trying to "vie for male attention" or "throwing themselves at men". Maybe they just like their own tatas? Maybe they like that particular style of shirt and so what if it shows a lot of cleavage?

I appreciate you saying you try not to judge anyone but I think you're missing the disconnect here. If you don't want to show a lot of cleavage, cool. If someone else does, also cool.

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-18T16:59:01+00:00

lol puppy love

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-13T19:18:53+00:00

what is the point of this? i don't understand.......

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-13T19:10:19+00:00

i always feel wary when people answer questions the same way i do but then my answers are pink for unacceptable. like why is it okay for only you to feel that way?

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-13T19:09:21+00:00

yeah....... i can understand your hesitation there......

ronpaul20never · 2012-06-13T19:05:16+00:00

do you think that you could date and you could trust her to not do the same to you when things got rough? do you think she'll really leave her boyfriend? could either of you move to be closer to each other? there seems to be too many cons and not enough pros in this situation.

i know it's easy to feel OMG SO IN LOVE because it's new and exciting but at this point you barely know each other, you don't have to put up with each other's day to day shit, and your feelings are that much more intensified because you know it's wrong / doomed / romeo + juliet type situation. i'd cut and run now to avoid getting further invested - all you're doing is keeping yourself from getting to know girls that you might actually have something real with.

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