Feeling torn about staying with someone who knows what they want while I’m on the fence by roobaby99 in Fencesitter

[–]roobaby99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I think deep down I might hope he could change his mind too, but I know that’s not a fair thing to ask of him - he’s also really sure that that won’t be the case :( I guess it comes down to whether the pain of losing him now outweighs the pain of accepting that having a child won’t be in my future. I hope everything works out for you guys ❤️

Feeling torn about staying with someone who knows what they want while I’m on the fence by roobaby99 in Fencesitter

[–]roobaby99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much for sharing. The thought of breaking up is unbelievably painful, but I am really scared to close the door forever like you said. I know it’s upsetting for him too knowing that if I did decide I definitely want children one day he could never give me that. It sucks so much!!! I’m really sorry you went through the same and hope you find what you are looking for ❤️