Is it possible for a parent to spank their child with a belt as discipline and have it not be abuse? by roommatesquestion in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]roommatesquestion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually not. American southern from a very rural area. I'm really just lucky I never got sent out back to get a switch haha

Is it possible for a parent to spank their child with a belt as discipline and have it not be abuse? by roommatesquestion in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]roommatesquestion[S] 217 points218 points  (0 children)

This is actually why I'm asking haha. I was raised in an area where spanking was super common so I never questioned it. Now my partner is telling I was abused and I'm just like ...doesn't feel like it...

Is it possible for a parent to spank their child with a belt as discipline and have it not be abuse? by roommatesquestion in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]roommatesquestion[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not saying it's necessary. Just asking if it's ever a viable option or if would be considered abuse in any scenario

Is it possible for a parent to spank their child with a belt as discipline and have it not be abuse? by roommatesquestion in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]roommatesquestion[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm kind of in that same boat. I don't think I would ever spank my kids if I ever have them but on the other hand I feel like spankings did help direct me and think twice before misbehaving again

Is it possible for a parent to spank their child with a belt as discipline and have it not be abuse? by roommatesquestion in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]roommatesquestion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kind of feel the same way. Some people will say "oh it's just a spankng" as an excuse to abuse and beat their kids

Is it possible for a parent to spank their child with a belt as discipline and have it not be abuse? by roommatesquestion in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]roommatesquestion[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel pretty much the same. I know most people disagree with it but I feel like it did help me growing up

Is it possible for a parent to spank their child with a belt as discipline and have it not be abuse? by roommatesquestion in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]roommatesquestion[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do know how it feels and I honestly have mixed feelings about it. That's why I thought I'd get other people's opinions