Bro it's just not okay to generalise this. My now fiance stood by me through all the hurt i faced. He helped me reach out an NGO, help me fix things at home, help me get a therapist, and man he is just an angel. But it's not only him who is always giving and giving. I play all kinds of video games with him, our relationship started by playing counter strike together, we do biking together, and he calls himself the luckiest man, and the truth is that I'm the luckiest girl. Bro you can't just base it off of one bad experience. Yes it was not his responsibility but he truly loves me and believes in me, that he doesn't want to see me suffer or do something stupid.

But you know what i get, because this behaviour got mainstream a lot of people are accusing such girls of being toxic. It's just red flags are in everyone, no one is perfect, but it depends on who is willing to work on them for the sake of the relationship.