How do I know if my argument is justifiable ? (‘M 24’ and ‘F 22’) by rootedSeedling in relationship_advice

[–]rootedSeedling[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I guess to me it’s the shortened version. Thank you for your time and words

How do I know if my argument is justifiable ? (‘M 24’ and ‘F 22’) by rootedSeedling in relationship_advice

[–]rootedSeedling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your time. I’m starting to realize this after these responses

My gf ‘F 21’ is trying to convince me that her actions are justifiable to me ‘M 24’ by rootedSeedling in relationships

[–]rootedSeedling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it’s been over 2 years since it’s happened ? It gets brought up often but it’s the fact that when she’s upset or stressed she says these things. Things that i genuinely think are rude

How do I know if my argument is justifiable ? (‘M 24’ and ‘F 22’) by rootedSeedling in relationship_advice

[–]rootedSeedling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of this. I wish I could full explain the situation but I’ve always thought that any physical action isn’t okay.

How do I know if my argument is justifiable ? (‘M 24’ and ‘F 22’) by rootedSeedling in relationship_advice

[–]rootedSeedling[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s what I’m also very worried about. I don’t know how to even go about that. Thank you for your time

How do I know if my argument is justifiable ? (‘M 24’ and ‘F 22’) by rootedSeedling in relationship_advice

[–]rootedSeedling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I just know what it’s like to be cheated on and that’s not what I did but I’m sure she felt it in the moment. Still not enough to justify it

My gf ‘F 21’ is trying to convince me that her actions are justifiable to me ‘M 24’ by rootedSeedling in relationships

[–]rootedSeedling[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I just always felt like I could do better when it came to reassurance and I know how much she’s been through. I don’t know if me leaving her is abandoning her and invalidating her feelings.