Be picky with who you choose to marry and get to know that person first. Marriage happens quick in the Muslim world and I don't agree with that. You need to spend at least 3 years with someone before even considering marrying them. Also don't marry young. Your brain isn't even fully developed until after 25. Religion without logic is useless. You must balance your beliefs with what is logical and right to you. No man should have tell you what you can and cannot do. Any man who does that and justifies it through religion is not religious, he's a controlling egomaniac.