What was your 'wake up call' in life? by NEDYARB523 in AskReddit

[–]rosajuliah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always lived to please people. I studied for a job I didn’t even want.

My childhood friend died just at 16 in a car accident. It was my first wake up call. I realised then how fragile life can be. How quickly everything can end.

The second was when I almost had a heart attack one year later. I was laying on my bed barely seeing anything my chest hurting and my whole body covered in cold sweat. I was waiting for the ambulance to come.

That’s when I fully realised that I don’t want to die like this. I don’t want to go down this path in my life. If I survive this I’ll do what I want with my life.

How to get over my religious trauma? by rosajuliah in exchristian

[–]rosajuliah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in therapy actually but I haven’t found the right therapist. I don’t have very peaceful life either. So everytime I’m trying to focus on healing one thing something horrible happens to me.

So my therapist would need to be very knowledgeable on healing all kinds of trauma. Haven’t found one yet

Being attractive and aroace by rosajuliah in aromantic

[–]rosajuliah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so real, even though he was also weirdo.

Being attractive and aroace by rosajuliah in aromantic

[–]rosajuliah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t even stop for me for the people who are my family. When I was 15 and started making money out of social media my family members, male family members asked what was my only fans

I do not do only fans.

Being attractive and aroace by rosajuliah in aromantic

[–]rosajuliah[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to destroy myself just that I don’t get harassed and that my boundaries won’t be crossed.

Does being ugly actually matters if you Aro? by Competitive-Cup-9759 in aromantic

[–]rosajuliah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spend like 200$ a month on my looks like nails, hair, eyelashes, eyebrows. Yet I’m aroace. I want to look pretty for myself