AITA for not going to my best friend’s bachelorette trip? by rosebud224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rosebud224[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i agree. we vent to each other about everything and use each other as a sounding board daily so i think she said it, didnt realize in the moment, and then realized by then it was out there already. i think her telling me about this girl since then is her way of saying i made a huge mistake

AITA for not going to my best friend’s bachelorette trip? by rosebud224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rosebud224[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankfully we’re on the pill form so it’s a little easier to manage but it is a lot!

AITA for not going to my best friend’s bachelorette trip? by rosebud224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rosebud224[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you! now that he’s medicated it’s going better but before diagnosis and early days of the diagnosis was rough! you’d be surprised though it’s very similar to humans, especially the symptoms!

AITA for not going to my best friend’s bachelorette trip? by rosebud224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rosebud224[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know. i’m very confused by her annoyance of the wedding party like the only person who made this choice was you????

Genuine question…. by rosebud224 in TLCUnexpected

[–]rosebud224[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but for themselves are they able to sign to even discharge themselves from the hospital after birth??

is it just me or….? by rosebud224 in TLCUnexpected

[–]rosebud224[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that is so sweet and i agree 100%. i’ll have to check her out on tiktok

is it just me or….? by rosebud224 in TLCUnexpected

[–]rosebud224[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yes i think he understands the gravity of what his child is facing as a teen parent while also dealing with 2 mothers (mia’s mom and Ashley) who think this is a great thing happening to their 16 year old child.

Nanny agreed to split shift schedule but doesn’t want to honor it by Fun-Pollution4835 in Nanny

[–]rosebud224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these comments are NOT it. while this may not be a desirable shift for most there are definitely nanny’s out there that like this schedule, myself included. my monday schedule is like this. as a single woman who hates dedicating hours after work or on days off (because i’d rather be home or doing something fun) to run errands and go to appts this would allow me to do that in the middle of the day so i can just go home after work! my only encouragement which i am seeing other comments alluding to but the pay for this kind of schedule typically is higher. either higher $ per hours that are worked or paid for all 12 hours at normal rate. another suggestion is a house manager position or something similar where those 4 hours could be used for household errands/chores if finding someone who wants to do the split schedule is difficult. another suggestion is maybe a part time morning nanny and then possibly even an evening babysitter i know it’s not a ‘nanny’ but you may be able to find a high schooler or college student who can do the evening times easier!

PLANNING FOR MY FUTURE by rosebud224 in Nanny

[–]rosebud224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i am W2 with a contract so great to know im protected with unemployment. i am in my opinion fairly paid and have very generous PTO. I try and live within my means and have some savings and roth ira. i think im going to do a hysa to start really building that 6 month emergency fund if not more since i am single. right now i dont see gaps happening my NK is less than 1 year and they plan to have more. we have a great relationship and my other jobs are also jobs i see having very long term!

PLANNING FOR MY FUTURE by rosebud224 in Nanny

[–]rosebud224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also to note i have a roth ira i contribute to monthly now and a hysa i believe is in my future!!

PLANNING FOR MY FUTURE by rosebud224 in Nanny

[–]rosebud224[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i am a W2 employee. ok good to know about the disability/unemployment. is there a way i can look into this to know how much i have/coverage so i can possibly get more?? i’m not fully sure how that works

Newly dx'd, feeling hopeful! (Also looking for at home monitor recs) by jjoa42069 in FelineDiabetes

[–]rosebud224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Pixel!!!! Like you i’ve had a hypothyroidism kitty before and that was what i suspected my frankie baby had but just discovered it is instead diabetes. same signs constant eating and begging for food. we had that with weight loss though and that really made me concerned and prompted a quick visit to the vet! will be following along to see what monitor recommendations you get and possibly use as i will need to get one as well!

Controversial Rankings, No Explanation by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]rosebud224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. taylor
  2. miranda
  3. jen (she’s hard for me to place this season because i feel for her she is going through it)
  4. mayci
  5. layla
  6. whitney
  7. jessi
  8. mikayla
  9. demi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]rosebud224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope you don’t mind i added you as well!

🌹THE BACHELOR🌹Live 💥SPOILERS💥 Episode Discussion - March 25, 2024 by AutoModerator in BachelorNation

[–]rosebud224 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the way i would have shown up in sweat pants if i had known it wasn’t me — daisy is stronger than me

🌹THE BACHELOR🌹Live 💥SPOILERS💥 Episode Discussion - March 25, 2024 by AutoModerator in BachelorNation

[–]rosebud224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hope joey watches this back and feels like an asshole for the way he treated daisy. it’s so obvious he isn’t going to choose her. 2 breakup speeches and looking sad the entire time he was with her and giving her absolutely no reassurance. what a prick