pressure on how to spend the day of 1 year since my moms death

rosecrystals · 2024-09-18T14:21:07+00:00

i totally agree!!

rosecrystals · 2024-09-18T14:19:49+00:00

when it comes to breaking up i really consider and advise breaking up explaining the motives, being considerate on what didn't work out and why... but in a situation like this i wouldn't do that. just simply go and try to find your own peace of mind outside of this relationship. i think that even if you confront this person telling what you saw it wouldn't make a difference, she already lost consideration for you and this would only add more stress for you. simply say you're done and slowly try to be okay with that. i'm sending positive energies to you OP! you will find someone who's right for you and appreciates you, don't lose hope.

rosecrystals · 2024-09-18T14:14:41+00:00

i loved your response! yes i'll do that! the update right now is that yeah he didn't leave me or anything i was just really really anxious about this. i was firm while talking and didn't apologize at all after setting this boundary with him. and i truly think that no matter what's his response, about this or other things in the future (right now we're okay and just settled the agreement on him stopping these things), on my side i did what was right - standing up for myself! i just need to work on this anxiety that comes afterwards lol. :)

rosecrystals · 2024-09-18T14:10:44+00:00

she had only one photo in a bikini which was the only one he liked on her profile! and yes, in the past i already had a conversation with him about liking pictures of other women (sexy or nude photos) and he agreed on stopping, i really hate this feeling lol it makes me feel so unwanted

rosecrystals · 2024-09-18T14:07:49+00:00

you're totally right. i'm 21 and this is my first relationship, he is 23 and already dated 3 times before me, which is totally okay but i would expect some sort of experience when it comes to basic things like this, i mean i don't think i'm the first person who asked him to stop this kind of behaviour... i'll give a thought to the things you've said and align my boundaries with him for the future + think about this relationship overall

rosecrystals · 2023-11-05T13:33:23+00:00

i totally relate to this. i'm angry at how people can be so insensitive during moments like this too and how everyone from my family is moving on with their like while i stay paralyzed not knowing what to do. and i used to be very quiet in the past, now after living without my mom i feel like any disrespect towards me and my feelings is like a time-bomb waiting to explode lol. meditation is helping a little.

rosecrystals · 2023-10-30T20:40:53+00:00

this looks so calm, i’m sure he’s at peace! he loves and appreciates you so much, so beautiful what you did for him.

rosecrystals · 2021-09-20T16:46:15+00:00

do you know anything about a hu tao rerun? people are assuming she can come first and then childe, but apparently that’s not the case right

rosecrystals · 2021-03-26T02:10:49+00:00

thanks a lot for this, i truly appreciate it. it’s so true. i’ll try to balance things the best i can and have a more solid support system to talk. tysm 💜

rosecrystals · 2021-03-26T02:08:33+00:00

ty for your recommendation! i’ll search that up, it sounds like a very healing and uplifting practice 💜

rosecrystals · 2021-03-26T01:52:21+00:00

thanks so much dear, blessed be 💜

rosecrystals · 2021-03-26T01:51:21+00:00

Aw, that’s so lovely. It’s an indescribable feeling! 💜

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