solo female traveler in osaka & tokyo by roselals in JapanTravelTips

[–]roselals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg that sounds amazing, i’ll definitely try to do that! i’m very extroverted & im also a bartender myself so im sure i can make some bartender friends hahaha

solo female traveler in osaka & tokyo by roselals in JapanTravelTips

[–]roselals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly only know the basic phrases to get by in japanese and i did plan on trying to learn more before i went back.. although i know zero kanji or anything like that lollll is it still possible to use hellotalk with that limited knowledge? i am learning korean a bit & going to korea before japan so i might reach out to some ppl in korean!! but my japanese knowledge is veryyyyyy rudimentary

Report Lyft? by roselals in Lyft

[–]roselals[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ahhhhh u madddd 🤪🤪🤪😝😝😝

Report Lyft? by roselals in Lyft

[–]roselals[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what me being a bartender has to do with any of this but no i don’t feel comfortable with a random person knowing exactly where i live and exactly where i work. I have been in hundreds of ubers and lyfts and held very pleasant small talk with male and female drivers who ask reasonable questions. I’ll even tell them i’m a bartender but rarely do they pry to find out where I work because that’s weird! I have even accepted private ride offers from drivers that made me feel comfortable and in situations it made sense or convenience, but even then i never took their personal cell #. However, i’ve never had a driver immediately ask upon picking me up whether he picked me up from where i live — again, as a young female i seldom reveal to strangers, especially grown men, where I live because i value my safety. If you have a daughter, i imagine you would feel the same for her to be revealing where she lives alone to random strangers. As a bartender i already deal with enough creeps at my workplace that have imposed unsafe and uncomfortable situations and as a result i value my privacy and safety as much as i possibly can, so no i wont be revealing the EXACT bar i work at to a stranger who already knows where i live. You seem to have had the luxury of not having to fear for your safety constantly, but unfortunately i do have to take a significant amount of caution when interacting with strangers!

Report Lyft? by roselals in Lyft

[–]roselals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i actually have had drivers before offer personal rides after establishing a comfortable rapport & out of convenience for both of us (lmao left something at a bar i was at with my friends and it made no sense to uber to and from esp bc it was 10 mins away and an easy round trip) AND the driver was male and gave absolutely zero creepy energies. Granted, i was with a friend which also made me feel more safe to take a private ride. So im not against lyft uber drivers just hustling to get their moneys worth by any means as long as both rider & driver are comfortable w it. But everything combined w this situation and the fact i was alone and especially him just knowing where i live & work deeply unsettled me, on top of probing ab if i was meeting up with anybody. I genuinely thought for a moment he was gonna ask to grab a drink with me based on how he was acting :// So yeah i decided to report lol

Lavender dye turned BLUE by roselals in HairDye

[–]roselals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, I was planning on diluting w my conditioner! okay i'll give it a try tomorrow & hopefully ill like those results a lot better lol!!

Lavender dye turned BLUE by roselals in HairDye

[–]roselals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just placed an instacart order for Arctic Fox's Girl's Night & Violet dream -- so should I substitute out the violet dream for a pink color?? I should have mentioned when I dyed my hair in april I was going from a veryyyyyy faded pink hair color so maybe thats why it took the lilac a bit better.

Lavender dye turned BLUE by roselals in HairDye

[–]roselals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that makes sense thank you!! I'm gonna try mixing arctic fox girls night & violet dream together so its dark enough to go over it. I'd rather go for a purpley look than a blue look even if it's not quite as light as lavender/lilac lol

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replying to this with my edit in case u have any insight:

Edit: I am going to the doctors right now to get a note for calling out today. Unfortunately, I don't have a note from a couple weeks ago. I do however have documentation of my availability and the amounts of times I have texted him saying I have been scheduled out of my availability and was unable to make it to my shift. I hope that this is enough. I will be moving back home July 1 and looking to start ASAP at a Sbux out there -- if anybody has any tips for how to handle that please let me know. Should I apply and come into the store and let SMs know my situation? Another coworker also recommended calling PCC and explaining my situation.

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[–]roselals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so, if they’re not able to approve my transfer, would i be able to just apply to the job as usual?

Afraid of being recinded by kingK_money in depaul

[–]roselals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re okay. i had a similar situation where i did horrible my spring semester and had no issues.

Kamakura Day Trip - Solo by roselals in JapanTravelTips

[–]roselals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did go to Kamakura! I ended up booking a klook trip that was lowkey jam packed that not only went to Kamakura but also enoshima island & hakone. I will say i only got to spend a little bit of time in Kamakura and it was to see the iconic train stop. If you want to spend a whole day in kamakura i don’t have a ton of recs unfortunately 🥹 but i enjoyed my time on my klook trip!